Please please help! This is herpes isn’t it :(

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please help guys

so background info..

4 weeks ago i reunited with my ex, the only man ive truly loved

we broke up last august and i thought we was done done so i moved onto someone new but we didnt last. we broke up in december

ever since the new guy i met in august time i was constantly getting checked for stis and everytime it came back clean

2 weeks ago i had sex with the guy i reunited with unprotected. he told me im the only girl hes been with in his life and i believe he has no reason to lie..

well fast forward we had rough sex last saturday twice. my vag was very swollen after

so next day i noticed my discharge changed. thought that i had a yeast infection or bv as ive had discharge like tissue paper and watery and grey but i was itching quite a bit in that area

monday the itching continued through the night. discharge was still like how it was before

tuesday morning i had a look down there and i felt like something wasnt right. it looked irritated and raised and it looked as if i cut myself. i had a nap, looked again and noticed a sore inside my labia and raised bumps round the side. wasnt sore to touch at all but i paniked

i went to my local sexual health clinic where i was diagnosed with bv but she said she couldnt tell whether i have herpes as they cannot do tests till this coronavirus thing dies down and i was so upset

she said shed treat it as if it was herpes and gave me anti virals to take

i was devestated at first but now i wanna just know what it is so i can inform my partner / two ex parters

yesterday my temp was high 38.8 degrees and my muscles felt achy but no groin pain. i have got a sore throat but i think its cause of my wisdom teeth cominf theough as it has happened before. i do get sharp pain inside my pee hole but it doesnt last long but doesnt feel like any uti im used to

my partner also said he has weird symtoms down there and he got tested but im so scared to tell him about mine. i want to know that its defo herpes so i can give him all the right info

have paid for a herpes test privately to see if i have it. it should be here tomorrow in the post hopefullyimage

please someone help xx

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  • Posted

    also if u could tell me about ur herpes / relationship experiences that would really help x

  • Posted

    yes it looks it fs. plz get checked. plz dont panic its not the end of the world

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