Recent Penis softening and late ejaculation

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I am 17 years old. I was exposed to pornography at the age of 14 and i have been masturbating ever since .I recently realised that it took me longer to ejaculate (small amounts ) than before and my penis is not that hard .I read some results in the web , but i'm still not sure .

I waited for 3-4 days and i tried again , but still the same result . I know that it is bad for health . I will try to reduce it . It's embarrassing to ask a doctor in real life  Please help me out . 

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    Despite what you say about pornography it probably has very little to do with the frequency of masturbation. It is not harmful however frquently you do it.  It is a little odd that at your age you are finding difficulties; these do not usually occur until you are in your 70s or 80s in my experience. Is everything else OK? Normal homelife with privacy? Good diet?  Adequate sleep?   Happy with your sexuality?  Not taking [non-prescribed] drugs?  [Steroids are dreadful for erections].

    If this does not resolve to your satisfaction [!] then you will need to see a doctor. Most towns have "sexual health" clinics and while they mostly deal with STI [or VD as it used to be] they can help. Point you in the right direction as it were!

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      Ummm .. I'm taking homeopathic drugs right now .. Will that be causing anything what I'm undergoing ? Well , I am Lacking sleep lately  ...  70s and 80s ... Must be a problem sad .. 
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      Hi there again.  By  its nature "homeopathic medicine" [not really drugs] is unlikely to cause problems and certainly not hormonal changes!.  A good treatment for dandruff is to use a proper shampoo that actually works. If in UK Selsun is good and you know it works because it smells interestingly of sulphur!
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    Hi Mike, its possible you have lost interest in porn as well as masturbating for a while.. There was a point in time, I grew tired of porn as well. When I would watch I would think, "this same crap again" and just felt bored... Most people tire of those things we get too much of.

    Be careful not to indulge in more taboo subjects to gain arousel, as that will fade too.  Just give yourself some time (more than 4 days - maybe 2 weeks or a month) Your your body will react and you will know when - then be careful not to slip back into the same old habbits as before. Hope this helps.. Matt

     

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    Masturbation is a normal healthy way of relieving sexual tension- practised universally by both genders. Stop beating yourself up about it.
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    Take some time out! Forget about sex for a while and listen to some music .

    masturbation is normal, I haven't gone blind (although, I do wear glasses to read ) and I haven't stunted my growth!  The more stressed you get about it the more difficult it will become to get an erection and produce a good strong ejaculation. 

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