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I have anxiety and whenever I'm not with my boyfriend I feel down and anxious like I've forgot how to enjoy my time without him. When he's at work I sit in his room with his parents in the house waiting for him to get back.. We've had a few arguemenrs about needing time apart and he has been quite horrible to me recently and I wish I could just go home and it not bother me and actually make him appreciate me more. But I just feel hopeless and bored and anxious without him. I feel like I'm being walked all over because if I message him being upset he will be thinking 'it's ok when I get home she will be there' and I don't want to be, feel like a bit of a mug. Anyone got any advice that may help? By the way I'm 18 if anyone's wondering xx
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lynne82155 katie2705
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I dont want to sound harsh but I dont think the situation you are in is helping your anxiety.
As someone who has pushed everyone away throughout 16 years of depression, I think we do have to talk to people and have support but there is no point being with someone just because he helps with your illness (or you think he helps)
I would get yourself checked again at the doctors get some therapy.
Try and talk more with your family and friends
I hope things work out for you
Take Care
nattalie36373 katie2705
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I struggle with depression and anxiety and I couldn't help how I felt...even though I knew it was unhealthy. Now we can't even talk, she doesn't wanna have anything to do with me. She told me I gotta learn to love myself so I'm not so clingy and totally dependent on her emotionally. Part of me still thinks she's a bitch for taking off but another part of me knew it was kinda my fault too.
So honey if you really wanna be with him you gotta try HARD to be ok when you're away from him. Otherwise he'll end up taking off.
katie2705 nattalie36373
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nattalie36373 katie2705
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Mental disorders screw up relationships because not every partner will understand that we can't help how we feel. Not every partner who understands will ALWAYS do. It's a struggle and even though my relationship ended I've started seeing someone else. Mostly I wanna be her friend first because I don't wanna screw up again. Both of us deal with the same mental illness so hopefully we will support each other.
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