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Hey all,
Just an update from my last post about painful sex!
Now a little over 8 weeks post op and all is good in fact... More than good! It's still early days, a little sore and are using a mountain of lube but the difference is amazing.
I've literally gone from thinking maybe I shouldn't have had the op to being so pleased I have. I know everyone has different worries and to some it may be a minor worry but I think the massive hurdle for me was the anxiety and worry over the sex issue after surgery. Now that's getting normal (and improved!) a lot of the worry post op about has/ hasn't it worked has gone.
In general, I still feel uncomfortable if I've over done things but I'm almost back to normal daily mum things. My post op isn't until beginning of March (I had surgery end of nov) but I think it's all healed/ healing.
Just wanted to say thank you to all of you who have commented, given advice and support over the last few weeks, I don't know how I would've coped if I hadn't found this forum :-)
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doris29 Resting123
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I have my follow up appointment in march and already anxious about it.
I'm ok so far though, no pain and seems everything has gone well
And want to thank you all for this group, it's helped me so much.
Not many people comment after the op but always before
Thank you ladies x
Bunky doris29
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I don't think I realised it at the time but whilst I was still so sore underneath I didn't have to think about 'anything going on there' lol ! But now thankfully swelling seems to have gone and soreness I'm just left with what's going on in my head and it does make me feel quite anxious !!
Jan999 Bunky
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debra25218 Jan999
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Jan999 debra25218
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doris29 Resting123
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Resting123 doris29
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Believe me, I've worried myself silly about every ache, twinge and soreness since I had the op lol. I just assumed that id have it and feel fine a couple of weeks later! Others have said it a million times, and I am a very impatient patient, but rest is the best thing to do. I was walking the dog slowly by 5 weeks but like I say, I'm a terrible patient lol. There are still times in the day though when I feel sore etc.
Bunky, I never thought to ask if I'll have the lump forever! I was so relieved to have her say it's normal and to have got through her putting her finger near me lol.
Yes, this site is the most fantastic, supportive bunch of ladies ever and matron is just the icing on the cake!
doris29 Resting123
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I was so scared about recovery and having such a young baby but I'm so glad it's all over.
Plus I know better things are coming after talking with you ladies x
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