Sleeping!
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OK ladies and Gentlemen I am going to stick my British head above the parapet and ask the question.....So here I am post 6wks and " himself" is banned to the spare bedroom,now whilst I have enjoyed starfishing across the bed and reading with the lights on whilst eating ginger biscuits I would rather like hin back in his rightful place but were both dead scared he is going to kick me,well we had a family get together and the girls came up with the "bolster " down the middle of the bed one,so we tried this and he lay there like a petrified cadaver and then I turned over to settle down for the night,got the turn wrong ( as you do) and yowled in pain, well, that was it, he announced loudlly " thats it, Im outa here" and pushed off next door. So..... when did you all get back into the same bed again? or is this it! Am I destined to spend the rest of my life reading my way through Dickens and eating the worlds supply of ginger biscuits?? Now nobody has to answer this allthough it would be helpful, Or I could, after 45 years just get single beds finally,
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EileenH fran54306
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Result: a good night's for both of us and unlike single beds there isn't a permanent large gap ;-). For a long time I used single sheets until I got fed up with things falling down the middle and now I use large fitted stretch double ones. But we haven't gone back to a double duvet - that is just awful on the occasions we are staying in a hotel in the UK and there is no choice of single beds. When staying with our daughters we pack the single duvets on the back seat of the car.
But "posh" people often have separate bedrooms - I wouldn't say no but we only have a 3 room flat here in Italy! Or does himself have a guilty secret? Not another woman but while YOU eat ginger nuts is he happily watching TV without you objecting to the light/volume/rubbish he's watching?
EileenH
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fran54306 EileenH
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susan20089 fran54306
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carol45436 fran54306
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ruby95450 fran54306
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fran54306 ruby95450
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glenda29798 fran54306
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To be honest, I'd much rather sleep on my own until my knee settles down a bit if I had the opportunity 100% of the time (and I could eat my biscuits in bed without any complaints!)
fran54306 glenda29798
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jean95756 fran54306
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loved reading your post
everything you say is so very true my other half has been banished to the spare room for the past 12 weeks
like your other half he's afraid he's going to kick me
i still don't sleep at night and Yowl when I turn over
i've been wondering if I've finally given him grounds for divorce
(58) years of marriage and seperate beds the only good thing is... I don't have to listen his snoring
Jean 12 weeks post op
fran54306 jean95756
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jean95756 fran54306
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I'll buy the paint tomorrow
PollyBB fran54306
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I'm a lot further along than you, having had both knees replaced last year. I never even thought about my husband kicking me in bed! As soon as I came out of hospital we shared our bed without anything between us and had no problems.
I'd say your knee is stronger than what you think, so try to stop worrying and try to carry on like you did before your op.
Good Luck!
jennifer86104 fran54306
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sandra37762 fran54306
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jean95756 sandra37762
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