SO ALONE..
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Does anyone feel so ALONE and afraid /scared going thru all this.. It seems mornings are so horrible, it's terrible I look around and feel so all ALONE nobody there anymore , kids grown and gone (boys anyway) and wouldn't begin to understand! Husband so distant from me we are like roomates. Mother in her 70s with her own health issues wouldn't dream of crying on her shoulders.. And no real friends at all, I do have a sister but she isn't going thru all these bad symptoms so she doesn't understand! And only talk with her once in a while .. I look around at my very lonely life and wonder what the hell this is my pathetic lonely going thru menopause life now and it's lonely and it sucks! I do have my awesome dogs who are my saving grace.. Anyone else feel so ALONE on this rollercoaster ride??
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Trevis Gypsy014
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Hey lovely .... awww no need to be alone going through this 😊.... I too have dogs which is a huge blessing. Get in touch & we can vent to each other 😊👍x
jacqueline06286 Gypsy014
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Yes I know how your feeling I'm feeling like this right now it's feels strange I wish this perimenapause would just go away. I also been having this pain on my right side of the head back and ear for about a month some days are worst then others ,all I do is pray that God takes this horrible feeling and pain away.
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ImagineOneDay Gypsy014
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The same here. My only consolidation is I have had my daughter late and she is only 8. (I am 48. )But there are many moments that I feel lonely & trapped in menapause!
amy341731 ImagineOneDay
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Ah same.I have 2 adult kids plus my little surprise boy who will be 8 next month and he is my saving grace, my heart, the sunshine in my life..at least he gets me out of the house and such..but man sometimes I’m so lonely and feel no one understands..thankful we have each other on here!!😊
maria76995 Gypsy014
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Hi I Gypsy, me too just like you all my nerves upset by it my dr had to give me a few sleeping tablets to help me sleep, as soon as I get up they it go again no peace forI always think we are the same going through it I don't know what to do no more but carry on as normal where do you live.
c02706 Gypsy014
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lana07071 Gypsy014
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I understand completely and gave it much better. I'm so sorry this is the situation. But let's think on the possible positives. Get involved in some nice organization where your help with also help you. And you can meet super decent folk who also help. Be it in a preemie section, or whatever interests you in free time. Praying for you!
beth12460 Gypsy014
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uzma45833 Gypsy014
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Gypsy014
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Thank you all for your replies.. I definitely do the walking, meditation, and yoga, some days are ok while other days not so ok, and today seems to be one of those not so ok days where you just look around and feel like you're so all alone! I know it passes and I know it's all hormones.. And it helps to talk to others just going through all the same symptoms. Thanks everyone...
arlette98229 Gypsy014
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2chr2015 Gypsy014
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You are not alone in all this loneliness. Thats why i come on here a lot. It really does help. We just got a puppy and i had no idea how much i needed him. He is a lot of work, but helps keep my mind busy. I have one friend that i can text that understands. She is my lifeline. You can message me anytime to talk or vent. ((Hugs))
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amy341731 Gypsy014
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Oh I’m so sorry you’re feeling like this..I can totally relate..my kids are older (still home and definitely don’t wanna hear about all THIS!) , my husband isn’t super excited about hearing any details and my friends somehow aren’t going through it yet or are breezing through with no issues..So yes, I often feel sad and alone..it helps a bit to stay hydrated, drink some calming tea, and come on this site..I can say that it helps to know we aren’t alone even if it seems like it and while we aren’t near each other, I promise we are here for you. Keep in touch! 😘