So now my mother has committed suicide, I can't take anymore
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I have suffered with bouts of severe depression for so long now and I have always feared it is genetic as my mother has also always suffered with no relief or cure just shovelled the pile of pills her whole life. Well those pills
have served her well as they provided her with the means to end it all 4
days ago when she took them all and ended her life. The last 10 years
of my life have been hell, my baby boy died unexpectedly , my partner
disappeared without a trace and I dont know if he is alive or dead and now my mother has took her own life. She started the process on sat night
and she was found barely alive but too late on tues covered in her own
vomit, it had taken 3 days for her to die - alone. I am so racked with guilt
and pain I am tortured. I am scared I will go the same way as I am
tormented with the same demons as the ones which killed her.
She was found with a suicide note and a pile of cash by her body
to pay for her own funeral, how sad and pathetic is that? She sent me a
letter through the post and because we had fell out I sent it back to her
unopened out of petty spite, now I know what she was planning and
I am haunted by that letter, what did she say? Hindsight is an ugly thing.
Depression is a KILLER, it has murdered my mum and is slowly murdering
me
funeral
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sarah20380 mum2angelalex
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millyimp_1322 mum2angelalex
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You are in my thoughts and in my prayers too
Take Care
love
milly
((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs hugs hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
lots of hugs for you to help comfort you
hypercat mum2angelalex
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It sounds like your poor mum had been planning this for a while so you are not to blame. It would have been a large combination of things which drove her to this desperate act and not just the fact the 2 of you had fallen out so please don't blame yourself. If someone is determined to commit suicide they will do it and there is little anyone can do. It is not uncommon for children to seriously fall out with parents and other family members and they don't go on to do this desperate act to they?
Please learn from this how devasting it is when a loved one takes their life in this way. You don't want to do the same thing to your children do you? Take care sweetie and look after yourself. HUGS Bev xx
Ps I am usually around so please pm anytime. xxx
caroleUJ62 mum2angelalex
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I am so glad I didnt succeed, and maybe your'e dear mum would be if she was still here. I have health problems, I am in pain most days currently, and still havent been properly diagnosed. Its nothing dangerous, but I might have to live with it for years, and I have also suffered depression for many years, but I would still rather be here for my family's sake as well as my own.
As others have said, please dont blame yourself, get support and help. God bless you. XXX
elizabeth20203 mum2angelalex
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Best wishes.
Elizabeth.
aad mum2angelalex
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Terrible things happen which are sometimes out of how control.
Your mum just couldn't take the pain anymore.
I think every day when I'm low about death and that i don't want the pain going round in my head, my head feels like it's going constantly 200 mph.
Also my career as gone to pot , infact everything right now looks terrible.
My marriage broke down and previous relationship due to my illness.
none of your problems are your fault, life can be cruel always to the wrong people, I have often thought why me , why do i get the ruff deal on life when others live a normal happy life.
I quite often think of ending my life, i get it all planned in my head, but deep down i don't think it works like that.
your mum must of been to the point and in alot of pain.
I can only imagine, terrible.
I have no family support either, apperently it's all in my head, well i do have alot of uncontrolled horrible dark thoughts.
Take care of yourself, i always wait for the better days, sometimes they take longer
but i will persevere, eventhough i never sometimes reach the light at the end of the tunnel.
LightUpTheDark mum2angelalex
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I just wanted to say that I believe God loves you very much and that I'm sure it breaks his heart to see the pain you are going through right now.
You're Special & Unique and You're loved more than you know.
Josh x
Here if you wanna talk,