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Why is it that some of us have to suffer so greatly from perimenopause and menopause?? I havent had a period in over a year but feeling sick has just gotten worse since my periods went away instead of getting better!! At least when i had periods i knew when i would feel sick so i could plan to do things while i was well. I would feel bad during ovulation, and before and after my period....I would have one week a month where i could function.....now I dont have any good times it seems. Im so angry cause this past weekend i thought the hell was ending. For 3 full days i had an appetite, I didnt feel sick, i had energy, no anxiety or depression at all.....i did have an ovary aching feeling but i didnt mind that....then bam the ovary ache is completely gone but for 2 days im so sick i cant eat, i feel super exhausted & that is making me feel very depressed. Why does it have to be like this??? My mom looks and feels healthy as a horse after menopause, she never suffered like this. She said she has mild anxiety & depression that she takes antidepressants for but other than that shes good! ive tried the antidepressants they make me feel way worse and yes ive taken them for at least 2 months before giving up, they add more awful symptoms that dont go away. I wont take hormones as cancer runs in our family and i wont take that risk. Life is becoming so unbearable....ive been suffering for 8 years now although it feels more like 20!
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