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i have been on night out with my work colleagues, /I;ve been drinking which is not a good idea but I moss my husband who died in july i thought what the hell and went for it. I feel absouutley rubbish now drinking is not he answer I will have to stay up now until I sober up. I hate my life and wish I wasn.t here. Thank s for listenings xxx
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yvonne88563 tina89895
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katecogs tina89895
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Christmas is a difficult time of year I expect, so you're bound to feel low. Don't beat yourself up for having a few drinks ...... enjoy being out with work colleagues. I think anyone would feel rubbish in the morning after drinking anyway.
Greiving for a loved one is very hard, and though we never forget, our bodies heal and we move on in life. You will always treasure dear memories, but you will get through this. Time is a great healer don't forget.
Have you thought of a bereavement group ...... they are very good and will help you through this difficult time.
Do you have company for a Christmas, or are you going to stay with family?
Thinking of you Tina ....... please talk to friends, family, professionals .... someone. You will get through this.
K xx
tina89895 katecogs
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Ms_Mac tina89895
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The man I can't be will be abroad and I will be here thinking of him.
I've had lots of trauma, in the last few years and on medication - have been for 14 years, apart from 9 months of hell when I came off them.
I'm coping better back on them but Xmas is a tough time, especially after just losing your husband.
It will be a struggle, for a long time - if you didn't miss him there would have been no love there.
He will be with you, although you won't be able to see him. He would want you to be happy.
The first anniversary of eveything is the hardest and only time helps to heal a little. Please take care. It's hard but you are lucky that you have family who love you and will not be alone. x
Ms_Mac
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tina89895 Ms_Mac
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Take care x
Ms_Mac tina89895
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I know, only too well, what it's like coming back to an empty house; I won't have to fac that, as I'm not leaving it.
Yes, I'll probably shed a few tears but, hopefully, I won't get too depressed.
Hakuna_matata tina89895
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Hey Tina I really need you to pm me plz I started to read you post about ropes tangled and it went off it's been removed this leads me to believe you are not I. A good place and they remove it so ppl don't get upset by reading things seems funny they remove posts when ppl need help really but they do this took me ages to find you on another chat so please pm me you post and I'll see if I can help you with your questions
tina89895 Hakuna_matata
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I asked for it to be taken down, I'm currently out sat by a river will get home eventually not a good signal where I am and not a lot power left on my phone. Just debating. Thanks for You taking the trouble to find me. X
Hakuna_matata tina89895
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Well whilst your there look up my I killed myself stiry it may help you to be informed I've already been there x
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