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sooooo miserable all the time

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lizzymarie
lizzymarie

Miserable ....crying all the time...having to stop the car because I just ramdomly start crying....no I Teresa in anything g....isolating myself from everyone especially people who are "happy:!!...constantly wanting my 13 year old to be little again...and crying when I see little children. ..black thoughts about people dying...nothing to look forward to...can't even be bothered talking to people some days...just want to stay in bed...can anyone else relate to this???😢😢😢😢😢

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  • Happy2016
    Happy2016 lizzymarie

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    Hey Lizziemarie, I too feel the same way. I am in my bed now as Im talking to you lol. I'm 53 in a couple week's and haven't had a period in 5 month's now. Sooooo I am defiantly menopausal. This sucks. My worst side effect is INSOMNIA. I've tried everything for it. Etc and prescribed.Feel like talking ?

  • dobb34487
    dobb34487 lizzymarie

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    I will quickly share a very personal note that has remained with me since childhood.

    My Mother suffered alot with Peri and had a breakdown.I was 13 at the time.She was very negative,short tempered,said horrible horrible things full of hate.Home life was awful and I still remember everything 30 years on.At the time I didn't understand it. Because of the way she was I vowed NEVER to be like that with my children and to seek help if I ever felt a fraction of the way she did.Throughout my hormone problems I hope that I managed to hide it from my beautiful children.The point I suppose I'm making is please try not to let the negative horrible feelings spill into those precious children's lives.I feel some of my childhood was completely ruined by my Mum not seeking help quickly enough.Also a lovely lady I knew tried to soldier on and tried any herbal,natural remedy to no avail.She sadly took her own life sad

  • Goddess1
    Goddess1 lizzymarie

    Posted

    Hi lizzymarie…

    yes hunny I can relate to what your going through, and here to tell you girl we're here for you girl… ! It gets better I promise, I do advice you to see your DR. and let her/him know how restless you feel my love… you know what seems to help me a lot magniseum, try it you might have some in your vitamin cabinet, if Not I bought mine at Walmart!

    good luck hunny & please know that I'm here for you!

    hugs

    ???

    • Happy2016
      Happy2016 Goddess1

      Posted

      AMBREN ...OTC.WOMEN SWEARING BY IT WALMART. WOMEN SWEARING BY IT. I START MINE IN A.M. I PRAY IT HELPS. 10P% natural. Can still be smoker since no.hormones to cause bblod clots per Dr. To be contincont! Good luck.ladies!
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