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Here is my story,
I am a very sensitive girl by nature from the very start I feel things deeply, can say I am more like touchy etc and because of this I have become much short tempered as well
I often get anngry on little stuff and says stuff which I don't even want to do or mean. Can't help this thing.
Almost 1.5 years back I found this guy and
thought he would be the man of my dreams. At the very start I tried not get indulged in him but with passing time I got that I have fell in love with him from my head to toe, as I told earlier I am very sensitive girl by heart and hates to break the relationship.. I am the type who would rather hurt itself to keep the other person happy and that is what I did always.. though I get angry on little stuff alot but deep down my heart I always care about the people whom I love.
Now the problem start where my aggressive nature comes in, we have faced many ups and downs in this relationship, even in this march we had a breakup for about 21 days bit eventually got back together.
But in These days I am really depressed because of his behaviour to me.. as he doesn't even talk to me much.. he is in deep deep depression about his career from past two.months and now this depression has taken all over him, and the last time when I talked to him about us then he said he can't think of anything, he hates everything and also wants to be alone for sometime.. all that really hurt me in a way.. I have never seen him this rude to me ever before.. I want to talk to him, though I know I can't help him but atleast I can encourage him but he just abandoned me. It feels so bad
It hurts so much.. even when I try to tell him that it hurts he ignores me... he never replies to such text or any kinda romantic texts..
He just talks when I ask how are you, and the reply to such statment is fine.. 'end of the convo'
Idk what to say to him or do to make him feel better.. I miss the old person whom I lived.. he is a really very kind person in nature.. depression has made him someone else.. I want help to get him back to me please. It's killing me from inside... should I give him space? Or should I talk to him daily like nothing happened. I am confused, I don't wanna losse him... I love him so much
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paul67642 thisisme1234
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thisisme1234 paul67642
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I know career is something most important thing to guys but why does they take everything on their nerves.
thisisme1234
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I know career is something most important thing to guys but why does they take everything on their nerves.
hypercat thisisme1234
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thisisme1234 hypercat
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I guess he is not liking it.
Should I give him space?
hypercat thisisme1234
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I would give him space but keep in touch. Have you told him you can't see a future for you both unless he seeks help? It is not just about him after all is it? Don't keep asking questions or making suggestions as he is not in the mindset of hearing or caring about anything much. Just let him know you are there for him. x
thisisme1234 hypercat
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His replies are very short and to the point that I can't change them in to a conversation.
I seriously wish that he would get outta this depression on his own cuz he doesn't seem like taking help from anyone, but in the end whatever it is.. it is killing me on the inside. I hope things get better soon..
And thankyou so much for listening to me and for your suggestions. May GOD bless you xXxX
hypercat thisisme1234
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It's a lot like saying a broken leg will heal by itself - well of course it would eventually but it would end up crooked and not healing properly wouldn't it?
You are doing the right things, but I honestly can't see much future for your relationship unless things change though I hope I am wrong. Take care Bev x
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