Suicidal thoughts

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How can you face the new year when u can't contemplate living another day?

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    The "new year" is just another day. Just like the rest of the "year". Take the day slow

    Just like any other. Every day is different. Some easier, some harder. Do not think "new year, new me" That's bull. There's nothing wrong with you for not feeling any different than other people are thinking. Xxx

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    Hi Dance4Life...I understand completely the contimplations you are considering...instead of taking it one day at a time, take it one moment at a time...I don't know you, but I am here to help you through your are very loved by so many people who nedd and want you here...please, there is fight in you to get through this...I am saying a pray right now for you...anything you may need just ask...
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    Hi Dance4life

    I am so sorry you feel like this. Life with a depressive illness can be full of slumps like you feel today, but things are not always so horrible. You have come to a forum of people who not only care but feel your pain. I have felt just like you. Overwhelmed by my situation.

    Please get support from us, from a medical professional, a community support group...everyone you know. Human instinct is to help people in dire circumstances. Right now your mood is dire. Everyone will want to help you. Dont do what depressed people usually do and decide to hide from the world so as not to burden others. Thats what we are all here for. To help. If you dont ask no one will know.

    Make this year the year you ask for help and take it. Next year you might be in a position to help others by saying "I,ve been the lowest anyone could ever be and I have come through it. So can you."

    Never think you are alone. So many people care, you would not believe it.

    Hugs and I love your name.


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    Hi dance4life. Please,please go and see your GP as soon as you can, also call the Samaritans and mind, they are experts on these awful feelings, if you have any close family, then please talk to them also.....

    As the others have already said, we all really do care... we have been there at some point in time ( more than once ) so we really do understand and care.... Take every day as it comes, curl up in a ball and rest as much as you possibly can.... please try not to despair too much, and please keep in touch.... love and sincere best wishes to you.....Deirdre xxx

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    I do not have any right to dictate to you what you should or shouldnt do right now.

    What I will say is think long and hard about it.

    Do you want to end your life or just the mental torment your in ?

    Whats the harm of giving yourself a timescale of 12 months and then making a decision.

    You have little to loose in reality and maybe alot  to gain.



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    I know ending it is the illogical thing to do in the long run. But im too scared to get help.  My family will be so frustrated with me to relapse AGAIN and ive ended up in hospital (due to eating disorder) before now. So although I am thabkful for the help I recieved at that time its not something in eager to get back into. Things now feel so distant with me and my partner even in the space of 24hrs its like we arw a different couple. He is now so distant with me I feel lonlier than evwr when im with him. Just pushing me further into this hole making me feel worthless and that he would be better off without me. Thankyou all for your replies. Its amazing on here aas everyone has had the same experiences they know the right thing to say! Take care all xxx
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    Make one decision and one decision only today that is decide to live.

    Do not worry about anything else .

    This time last year I had put everything in order to end my personal torment and feelings of worthlessness.

    I had come to the decision people around me were fed up of my emotional roller coaster of a life and would be better off without me.

    It all made perfect sense.

    The thing is I was deeply depressed and when I was challenged on my decision and the aftermath that would follow to my family and partner.

    I got angry because by my pain ending others suffering would begin and that would be my legacy to people I deeply cared about.

    So I had to make a decision them or me.

    I so hated this  person for making me see the reality of my choice but he saved my life.

    Give others the oppotunity to save yours

    Jo x

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    hey....I want to just want to tell you...when ever u have these thoughts....think of everyone whom you ever cared about.....try picturing how would they feel.....and try putting yourself in their would it are smart and unique in you r own one can replace you!!
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