tackling relationships if you have IBS
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Dear All,
Following on from the helpful comments in response to my last post, I wanted to ask about managing relationships with IBS?
How to you talk with the other person, about IBS?
and how did it go? what was their reaction?
I have been putting off having a relationship, because I feel nervous about talking about it
I've already started to think that maybe I don't need to worry so much????
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Shellie6810 maggie70209
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Hi Maggie! I've never let my ibs stop me from having relationships. I don't even remember how or why I told my husband about it when we were dating. But he has had to see me go through many many IBS attacks. He feels bad but he deals with it.
maggie70209 Shellie6810
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Shellie6810 maggie70209
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You're welcome! I dobbelieve it can work when you're with the right person. : )
astrozombie maggie70209
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maggie70209 astrozombie
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Thank you for sharing this very personal story, it is much appreciated. I'm sorry that IBS got in the way.....
astrozombie maggie70209
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Apparently it wasn't IBS it is a small intestine issue but I won't bore you with that.
Not necessarily on this thread but on others' people see my former partner's behaviour as improper so I just want to add I was violently ill on such a regular basis I felt ashamed to be around people saying how are you feeling? There is only so much one can take before starting to withdraw from people so I completely blame myself for what happened as I was the one who withdrew.
Also my condition is not IBS a CT scan has found but I have very similar symptoms.
pippa58442 astrozombie
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astrozombie pippa58442
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astrozombie pippa58442
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Doc said I have boh conditions causing different symptoms but I do have IBS. I thought it was either or but In rare cases it can be both. I am special I suppose . At least I can put to be bed The it's not IBS as IBS doesn't cause sickness questions. It I said definitely a step in the right direction in terms of knowledge but the end result is no change.
pippa58442 astrozombie
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astrozombie pippa58442
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Indeed and getting worse again. Another redundancy means I once again have to drive in the morning. It did not go well last time so I shall to see how it goes again.
I don't just feel sick I am physically sick and annoyingly on far too regular a basis. I would say 6 or 7 times since Christmas and none alcohol related so monthly.
It is a vicious circle. I get sick if I am stressed. I am stressed if I am away from the loo for too long which makes me anxious which makes me need the loo which makes me sick which makes me late for work .And repeat.
pippa58442 astrozombie
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astrozombie pippa58442
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I have only been there a few days and a real geezer's environment so not sure if the opportunity will arise but I did in my last role but this is poles apart. If the opportunity arises I will but the masculine environment means it may not be as easy. I shall see.
pippa58442 astrozombie
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astrozombie pippa58442
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I have done just that. He just said take my mobile and tell me if you are going to be late which I too know as he is ok with it but who knows Clint Eastwood talks more. I can't say anything I don't say much either but positively chatty in here.
pippa58442 astrozombie
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