THOUGHTS

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Hi girls anybody got thoughts of stupid things going through they minds..I find some days it creeps in even when I'm trying to think positive, it makes me anxious is this normal too or only me.

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    I have this Maria. Sometimes my thoughts are mean towards someone that is annoying me, I don't let myself say things out loud but I feel bad for being so mean in my thoughts. Sometimes it's towards myself, Im extremely hard on myself. As much as I know better, sometimes I can't fight the negative with the positive....the only thing I can do is keep my mouth shut.

    Im hoping and asuming it's a peri thing....let's see what it her woman say.

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    Oh honey it is definitely not just you! I find when I've had the least amount of rest is when my mind dishes up the biggest amount of nonsensical thoughts that just pop into my head! That makes me super anxious...so I have to calm myself by saying "this is menopause madness- shake it off and do something that calms you"

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    Hi Ladies

    I’m having this daily, you are not alone. For me the anxiety and my mind running in hyperdrive is the worst.  I’m not eating as I’m so anxious and nauseous with zero appetite. I’d rather a million hot flashes than this mental state I’m in. I just started HRT 5 days ago and already had to stop there oral progesterone as it gave me horrid stomach issues. Thinking I may have a mirena put back in to get the Progesterone I need to balance the Divigel Estrogen gel I’m using nightly. I’m praying to Holy God that this works!!!

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    Hi ladies, I am the same. If I get annoyed with someone e.g. husband, a  close relative or a good friend I just get so put off by them. I keep away from them, have extremely bad thoughts about them. I sometimes don't even talk to them for months! My mother has been very unkind to me over the years. I always put up with it and confronted her many times but it didn't get me anywhere. One day, about 2-3 years ago I suddenly felt that I had enough of her unkindnes in my life. I now realise that was when I was entiring perimenapause.  3 years on I manage my relationship a bit better with her by keeping a distance. I only mentioned this to let you know&share the intensity of the emotions we can have. Don't be too harsh on yourself. Sometimes irrational it may seem we have our own good reasons behind our behaviours.  This transition help us to see differently & act differently.

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