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Sassy2543
Sassy2543

I am aware of the percentages relating to transmitting hsv 2 from female to male, but I am curious to hear about your stories and experiences. Has anyone ever transmitted it? Has anyone gone years without transmitting it? I'm just looking to hear some real experiences to couple with the percentages. Thanks! smile

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  • feelbroken
    feelbroken Sassy2543

    Posted

    My best guy friend was w his ex for 7yrs and never got it.
  • sasha6654
    sasha6654 Sassy2543

    Posted

    im not sure when it happened for my ex but it was around 2-3 yrs into our relationship... hes still not sure if thats what it is and he jus told me after 4 yrs ....sooo idk... before him i had casual encounters and they never said they got it... i always used condoms though... me and my ex have a child together.
    • feelbroken
      feelbroken sasha6654

      Posted

      Do you tell you casual encounters? How often have you been rejected because of it?
    • sasha6654
      sasha6654 feelbroken

      Posted

      no .. there are very few people who actually know... if i feel like we are going to be serious then i will tell you.. i was younger back then.. i havent had a casual encounter in years... so far the 2 guys i told are ok with it .. so i havent been rejected yet
    • feelbroken
      feelbroken sasha6654

      Posted

      So how long did you wait till you told these other guys? What was their initial reaction?
    • sasha6654
      sasha6654 feelbroken

      Posted

      my sons father ... i told him when we first started dating i knew it was pretty serious and he was ok with it.. the person im seeing now is ok with it as well... i think if someone really loves u for u they wont see it as a huge issue.. but i couldnt go on in the relationship with a "secret"
    • Sassy2543
      Sassy2543 sasha6654

      Posted

      How long have you been with the guy you are with now and he hasn't caught it? Is just easier for me to understand real life experiences versus statistics.
    • sasha6654
      sasha6654 feelbroken

      Posted

      it took a few months.... you should know when u have a connection with someone and how they feel about you
    • sasha6654
      sasha6654 Sassy2543

      Posted

      to be honest we were together for 7 yrs after we broke up he said he had it! 😳 sooooo i asked him how long he said for about 4 yrs! smh.. he never said anything... he still isnt sure thats what he has but he is saying hes only been with me and i had only been with him... go figure!
    • feelbroken
      feelbroken sasha6654

      Posted

      Did you ask him why he chose to tell you now, rather then? Like what is his motive behind telling you now after all this time, if it's even true? He could have gone to get tested, why didn't he? I would take what he said w a grain of salt. Think he may have been trying to hit you where it hurts. Do you think you're still in love w him? You seem like it.
    • sasha6654
      sasha6654 feelbroken

      Posted

      he said he didnt want me to feel bad and he sayin he didnt go because of insurance and them switchin his dr all the time.. i feel like its bs... im not in love with anymore thats y i broke up with him... if this is true four yrs ago that would have brought us closer... shooot if were me and the roles were reversed i would told him asap and asked how he deals ya know? i jus dont know right now
    • feelbroken
      feelbroken sasha6654

      Posted

      Yeah, that's why I don't believe it. When I've been hurt, I have made up BS to say, to hurt the other person. I say just focus on you then and don't bother w anyone and make you a priority.
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