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joe37124
joe37124

Hi,  I had a sexual experience last night with a man I am a man also, we masterbated each other, I gave oral and so did he, he rubbed my penis around his Anus through his pants and push in his Anus through his pants, I was climaxed  in his mouth and he climaxed in my hand. 

Being my first time with a man I am very worried that I may have caught something, I am new to all this and very worried

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  • smrn
    smrn joe37124

    Posted

    You can either ask him if he is clear or not or you can wait and watch for any symptoms.
    • joe37124
      joe37124 smrn

      Posted

      I have asked him he said he is OK, 
    • smrn
      smrn joe37124

      Posted

      There is no point in getting anxious. You should calm down - anxiety will make it worse.

      You should take care the next time.

    • joe37124
      joe37124 smrn

      Posted

      I will, I got taken away in the moment 

  • matt82320
    matt82320 joe37124

    Posted

    Hi Joe, If I understand your post, this seems like "low risk" activity for HIV - unless there was blood or semen present contacting open lesions. (not uderstanding pushing into the anus through his pants). 

    Other stds are possible like genital warts, chlamydia and ghonorrhea to name a few. They are commonly transmitted through unprotected skin to skin and oral sexual contact. Since this is all new, it may be a good idea to chat with someone at an std clinic about safety and possible contact STI's, symptoms and timeframe for symptoms and to be tested after contact. Good Luck and always play Safe...

     

  • cycletourleader
    cycletourleader joe37124

    Posted

    I'm sure you are just having guilt feelings or confused feelings being as this was your first time with a man. It's unlikely that you would catch any thing from what you describe. Sex is something to be enjoyed with the right partners so just be careful 
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