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its been a funny old week, she has had a lot going on emotionally, she was told her job is at risk, ( and she just got her expensive car) and someone close was in a bad mood( doesnt live in my house) and had a pop at her, reducing her to tears.
but she has coped, one thing i notice is when she is upset, it all becomes highlighted, and anger/tears/sadness all become stronger than before she was on the flux, she realises she needs to be alone, or she wants company and to snuggle under the blanket, so its good she can identify with it, and move herslef to a place of isolation to calm down.
side effects wise, she hasnt been to bad, probably managed 3 good nights sleeps out of the week,
but for her last week was about understanding when to distance herself, and how she cant change what is out of her control. she should hopefully find out something about her job this week, fingers crossed.
as a mum, i want to wrap her up, keep her by my side and protect her, i am learning to stand back, and watch, and only step in if i feel i really need to.
i was once told as your kids get older, it gets easier......no it doesnt.
stay strong everyone, xx
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