What do I do?
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So life was going great I came out of my depression death thoughts stopped no more self harming life was weirdly great minor ups and downs.
Then things just blew up in my face things started getting harder but not gradually all at once like a piano falling on you, I started falling apart but no one I talk to or spend time with understands me at all.
My boyfriend has trouble with his own feelings nevermind mine he's suffered with me for 5 years I say suffered because it's been hell for the both of us and at this point in lost again.
Worst part, I don't feel like I want to pick myself up anymore I struggle with so much all the time and I'm just giving up I have no motivation no confidence, I am falling apart and because I know no one that's experiencing or experienced the same I can't get any advice. I have a bf and a best friend they mean the world to me but I treat them badly a lot and I don't mean to I can't stop and think I just say and do my brain won't allow me to stop for a second and think it just boom. Help? How do I sort my life out? Again.
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amanda35274 Tezz96
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ann55375 amanda35274
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Tezz96 amanda35274
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Thank you, I think I've suffered with depression now since 2009, my other two mental illnesses are new however mess don't work on me they make me happy yes but then because everything is suppressed I got violent and they brought an anger out in me that I've never seen in myself before, however I do think more therapy is needed but it's hard to maintain they said it would get easier which it did hell of a lot easier life became lovable, now not do much I relapsed not long after my CBT I mean it's been a couple month or so, I have a dog he is my baby considering I can't have children without medical stuff and he stops me doing anything stupid just by being here as I know he would have nowhere to go and I never want him to end up in a home or with someone who hurts him and what not. I appreciate everything you said and th I will go back docs see what else they have to say thank you so much.
amanda35274 ann55375
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amanda35274 Tezz96
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Mornin tezz. I have my doggie a staffie too shes my baby & relies on me for everything. Plus got my teenage daughter so wen im suicidal i still could never leave them so know how u feel. Let me know if the drs help tezz. Gud luck xxx
wayne1962 Tezz96
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You have not stated whether your previous situation was monitered by health care professionals and/or meds. Are you taking any form of meds now? Do you have a health care support team?
Tezz96 wayne1962
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I was with CBT but no longer am, same with meds I was on them but after discovering what they did to me I'm no longer on them either. I do have a community link worker and I'm on benefits so I get help off my advisor there but not much I see my advisor every 3 week and my link worker never. I moved out in January and I've not had anything cooked unless I go mums which is now once a week for now
amanda35274 Tezz96
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laurie82758 Tezz96
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It is what happens. You start to get well and your wife of 30+ years takes a wrecking ball to first, your personality and then the whole of the previously apparently happy marriage. Beware getting well, there may be people who'd rather you sick.