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i guess its new feeling to my life is something that i never feel before.The pain of loising someone you love actually someone who has just damp you for another and the worst part of it all you still need her in your life.As day goes by you realize that she is happy smile she actually enjoy her life but when I take a look at my self how miserable i am and the pain i feel inside the rejection and the loneliness i feel like i have no reason to live cause it hurts terribly bad what should i do under these circumstances
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julie_93620 senior_shakur
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But you should try and live your life to the fullest
Your partner seems to have lived on maybe you should try and do the same
Life is difficult and I do feel for you
Hakuna_matata senior_shakur
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I feel your words I've felt how you feel right now let me try to help you do something this is a tricky skill to master but if you can master it you'll be so in control
Ok let's look how your looking at this seeing her smile whilst your left empty it hurts I know this is due to you looking at it from a negative perspective. Therefore you feel sad
Ok we get that right now watch how this works
So she wasn't right for you ok great imagine how much more fun the next person will be for you they'll have better qualities look at the freedom you now have do what you want when you want look at how many ladies are now available to think about dateing them the new experiences of that what your doing now is giving yourself positive thoughts so yes it's sad it didn't work out and that person for you is still out there but look at all the fun you'll now have finding them
I've suffered from depression for years I've come to realise as Shakespeare said there is no such thing as a bad experience or a good one the experience is an experience
The emotion attached to the experience is because of the thought process and the thoughts have an emotion attached to them
That may make no sense to you right now but I am telling you it's true you may need to become numb first but give this a try when you do it very well may help you recover so much faster and to become more in control of you emotions that is real power
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sandy_so_sad senior_shakur
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I've felt your pain as so many others have, my 20 year relationship broke up 4 months ago. Each day gets better. Live your life now as your ex is. Yes it hurts, grieve get angry it's all natural.
In your time move on have fun see friends keep busy.
I hope you find happiness again it's her loss not yours.
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