When do you end a relationship
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i use to be mean to my ex cause i didnt want her as a girlfriend i just wasnt attracted to her. impregnated another girl she left and i had nothing she still took me back and supported me we have a kid but now its like shes punishing me blames me for our sexless relationship because i damaged her confidence. i pay rent all tge bills she says its nothing all i do is pay bills have sex once a year if im lucky she lost both her parents who i know well , im truly sorry for how i treated her in the past i just don't know what to do. she just doesnt know or want to talk no matter how many bills i pay or talk and engage i think she hates me or just has issues what do i do!!?
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hypercat bibby86013
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Why did you go back to her if you din't love her? Was it for the sake or your child? To be honest from what you have said I don't see much hope for this relationship, so it might be better to cut your losses so you can both move on. Your child is the most important person in all of this so always try and be there for him/here both physically and financially x
si6996 bibby86013
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Sometimes when you have to much water under the bridge so to speak its best to stop the madness. But if you both truly want this relationship to continue I would suggest seeing a marriage counselor to stop the abusive behaviors that you both cause the other to endure. Trust is something that when lost is truly impossible to 100% regain. Respect is equally as hard because there will always be the constant reminder of wrong doings done to you when the one who wronged you is standing right in front of you. sexual abandonment in a relationship is never a way to help a relationship. If intimacy is no longer a concept then you might ask yourself is there is more work to be done than necessary to have a healthy relationship or is the relationship just not save worth it?