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Hi there. I am sorry to hear you are going through such a tough time and cannot even begin to imagine how hard it is for you.

Something i don't understand in your post is: both of your parents left you everything except $1 to your sister. Please can you clarify this statement? Who was left what?

I hope you don't mind my asking, but I find it confusing and I would really like to offer you comfort.

Meantime, take heart and try to be strong. You do matter and we do care. You count. You are important.

I am sorry that things are hard for you. Especially when we are ill, or hurting emotionally, and those who should care about us continue to disappoint us, we start to feel that we are unloved and unlovable. None of those things are true, but it can feel that way and feel unbearably lonely.

I struggle with depression, more so after entering menopause, so I empathize with your feelings of despair and isolation. I take comfort in the promises found in the bible. It sounds like you have a belief in God, but may be like so many who don't feel that he is interested in you personally and specifically. I recently read a beautiful, encouraging article entitled, "Does God Care About You"? I made me feel so hopeful and comforted to know that he has promised to rid the earth of everything that makes life so troubled -- sickness, pain, sorrow, grief, uncaring and wicked people -- and bring about conditions that will allow us to live in perfect peace and security. Please read it and let me know what you think. You can find it on jw.org. It is one of the feature articles this month. I love this website, because it has do many helpful articles and videos that offer practical suggestions for life now, and reminds us of guaranteed promises that will come about very soon.

Don't give up. I know it seems dark and bleak, but there is so much happiness ahead. I want you to be there, too, so that you can enjoy life the way it was meant to be.

I have begged and pleaded for help . People say they will help and nothing happens.

My sister us pure evil. She tried to hit my father, s took my parents to court 3 times for nonsense that was thrown out of court. My parents left her $1 because the state I live in says that's all she is entitled to as their child.

My sister us pure evil. She tried to hit my father, s took my parents to court 3 times for nonsense that was thrown out of court. My parents left her $1 because the state I live in says that's all she is entitled to as their child.

My sister us pure evil. She tried to hit my father, s took my parents to court 3 times for nonsense that was thrown out of court. My parents left her $1 because the state I live in says that's all she is entitled to as their child.

Hi unloved, it's sounds like you're having the roughest time. I think family can sometimes do more harm than good! I really feel for you, maybe reshape your life so it suits you. I hope your life improves soon, maybe you would be better cutting all ties at the moment.

Hi unlovedscared - you have had a hard time of it. Families can be a toxic mess for many people - especially when money or property is involved. If your sister - or anyone is harrassing you, you need to record it. if not on your phone or vid camera, then by journal. This will be the evidence you need in the future. You can't sit there and be a punching bag, dwelling on all the misfortune. you get and fight. I know this because i have had horrific, harrowing experiences where I thought the whole world was against me -because they were! I fought back. It took everything, but I survived - AND with morals and dignity intact despite all efforts to prevent even that. Get up, get angry and get your justice.

God has nothing to do with it. Quitting is not an option - merely a temporary escape before you are back going through the same thing again because you opted out of the contract and have not completed the task you have chosen. What you are enduring is called life, with all the incompleteness of things and the human egos to make it worse. You already agreed to it all, now you have to master it in the physical.

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