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My wife is very much depressed and negative person. She thinks everyone is against her and everyone wishes ill about her.she also feels that everyone are trying to criticize her. Even if others might crack a small joke which under normal conditions we take it as a joke.. I don't know why she is getting offended. I am now dragged into this as she will be complaining about them to me about them. This leads to huge mental toll on me. Luckily she doesn't want me to go and have n argument with them. All she wants is me to her her feelings and frustrations. However hearing this itself makes me comfortable and sometimes I try to advise her not to think in the neagtive manner. Its hard to convince her and sometimes I have to take in all the fury . The strange part is that if she gets deviated from the topic then she becomes normal again.everything depends on her emotions . Even before going for a shopping I have to see if she is a good mood. The strange part is that even sometimes if we start to go for the same shopping a small difference of opinion might suddenly change her mind . And once she decides on that then that's it. I have been trying to cope up with this as I believe in harmony in any relations. I am ready for any compromise. However I feel it's the depression and feeling of insecurity that leads her to do crazy stuffs.i don't think my advices will work for her as she feels I am trying to find her faults.
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