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I was hoping someone could advise me on a horrible situation.
My wife has suffered with an illness most of her life which she requires medication for, its an imune disease.
when i met my wife I was living alone with a mortgage and met her on a dating site. We met up and found we were instantly attracted to each other. Within 3 months she had moved in.
As time went by she always made comments about how she didn't like the house etc and wanted to eventually look for another one, fine..
We had 2 children, got married just after the second and life was great. Early in 2016 she started to change and didn't like what she saw in the mirror and started fitness classes which I supported her throughout. At the end of the summer she found a house that she liked (she had always been looking) and I looked and agreed that we would buy it. Also during this time she started to get friendly with a co worker and I hadn't realised but they had been messaging quite a lot, to the point where I actually saw a conversation implying that they liked each other, the conversation was also deleted by her.
I also found out she had not being taking her medication for quite a long time which will cause her body to pack up.
In Novemeber we moved into the new house but things quickly went bad, she was stressed, didn't like the house and after a night out with the coworkers i lost it a bit an acused her of liking this other guy which she denied.
I also made the mistake of calling her mother as i was so upset who in turn called my wife and basically they are hardly talking now which she blames on me but there were already problems between them.
After this point she told me she didn't love me anymore and is leaving with the children but she isn't right, she doesn't like herself, hides if not wearing clothes when i appear. She is emtionless and says she is broken and worn down.
Is this a sign of depression or is there something else that is at work here?
Before we moved in we were happy (to a point) but she always told me shes loved me and would text or call daily. Now all i get is an occasional call or text but with no emotion in them and is usually about the kids.
She keeps saying i need to accept the situation and that she doesnt love me anymore which I have no choice but to do so and let her move out but she will struggle financially and have no time for herself.
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