Working with Anxitey and depression ?
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Won't bore you with details , but been off work now for 3 weeks and taking meds and work have asked me how long will I be away,have a sick note for a month , but to be honest I'm ashamed to admit I'm in no state to work my head is just a dark hole and I can barely look after my self let alone work and family stuff and I can see why people decide to opt out of life .
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rw79630 richard72420
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Focus on getting yourself better before anything.
I hope you feel better soon.
richard72420 rw79630
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rw79630 richard72420
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richard72420 rw79630
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lorraine52317 richard72420
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there is no shame at all in admitting and recognising your unwell. The fact that you are barely able to look after yourself, suggest right now you are very poorly. I hope your employer is understanding and permits you a longer period of absence as this illness doesn't permit a swift recovery. My advice would be to try not to think about what you cannot do, and concentrate on what you can do. Even if it's small tasks. (For me, getting up to just brushing my teeth was a huge achievement! ) you haven't mentioned if your appetite is suffering, if it is remember anything is better than nothing. Try and eat well balanced nutritional food (even a small meal will help your recovery) also plenty of fluids. It's worth getting some high strength omega 3 as this is really good for your brain and body.
Lastly be kind to yourself, don't worry about things you have no control over right now. Concentrate on you and let your body dictate the pace, until you are feeling in a better place. If you start getting the 'opting out feeling' force it out of your mind as that thought is a 'gatecrasher' replace it by thinking of anything else which has hope and courage attached to it.
wishing you a swift recovery
god bless ♥♥
richard72420 lorraine52317
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Inmate88 richard72420
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Can't lie.. Going back was hard and I actually had another break down, which resulted in me being sectioned and being off work sick again.
Don't go back until you're ready, sometimes it can backfire. And remember you're entitled to be off for as long as your note states. It's hard not to feel guilty and pressurised to return. But try and listen to your body.
I've been back since the new year and I'm now in a slightly better place. I have three different mental health conditions so I think it's always going to be a struggle for me. I hope it improves some more though.
But just know that things can get better. Bit by bit. Good luck
richard72420 Inmate88
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stevo1975 richard72420
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lynne82155 richard72420
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AbbyJ richard72420
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Take care of yourself.
richard72420 AbbyJ
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stevo1975 AbbyJ
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AbbyJ stevo1975
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I hope others have more sensitive employers!