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Hi, I am so happy to have found this group.  Having THR on right hip on19th of August, at UBC, Vancouver, Since having my assessment  it has been a 7 month wait. I was a very active  person, my hobby was showing and raising Golden Retrievers,.  I am now down to walking with crutches and the only exercie I get is swimming.  I would love to hear how others have dealt with weight control as I am struggling with that, .any other Canadians on this site ?  Oh and just to let you know I am anEx Brit, I think you have way shorter wait ;lists than we do here.  So worried about the surgery and how I will manage the precautions, would really appreciate your experiences.  Despite having had a normal life all I think about now is the surgery OCD?????? 

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    Hi Lorraine,

    You'll be just fine being in good shape will help you alot in recovery . Im 47 This is my second total hip replacement i had 9 months ago . I had revised hip replacement I wasnt in the best shape but thinking back i was in so much pain . I have been swimming alot myself I do think its helping . hang in there

    Take Care

    Jackie

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      Hi Jackie, Wow only 47 and already been through this, I know what you mean regarding the pain.  I dread getting up in the morning, those first few steps are killer, thanks so much for your reply.

      L.

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    Hello Lorraine, welcome, you will find people here are amazing, just what we need to get through this emotional time.  Going off topic but bm last Dog wad a GR aw he was just the best, sadly he died at 17 and i couldnt face getting a same so went for a blue roan cocker, what a mistake, but thats anothe story, if you have one spare i will take her.!!!  I think baisically all you can try to do is co trol you weight by diet and swiming, I dont eat bread, pots, rice and pasta, only one piece of fruit a day but plenty of fresh veg, i have most of mine raw. hope all goes well for your op, if you have any more questions there are load of people here to help, quite a few from canada.

    I am an ex pat also living in the French Aps, had my op on 22 july so 9 days today.

    all the best Lynn

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      Thanks so much for your reply, You were so lucky to have your boy for 17 years, that longevity is rare these days.  I live with Ringo 121/2, Charlotte 4 and Anna 18 months, have also thought of other (smaller) breeds, but have had 25 wonderful years with the Goldens.  Actually joined Weight watchers and am trying hard to only eat healthy and also stay off the bad carbs.  The French Alps sound amazing.  Only 9 days post op and already supporting others, thats incredible.

      L.

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      I had a golden retriever bitch for 16 years then a black flat coated dog for 15 years followed by a  black flat coated bitch for 12 years, tragically she had to leave us far too early due to an inoperable condition. We cannot face that again so no longer have a dog but I love picturing you guys with yours. Happy walking.

      Isn't this dog talk far more satisfying than thinking of our hips?

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      yes, I agree the dogs and dog talk are a lovely break, you were obviously an amazing dog owner to have yours as long as you did.  I expect you have great memories.  The loss of them I know is so tough, I always get a rose bush, hAve quite the rose garden.
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    Hi lorraine.

    You'll be fine, we have to learn to walk before we can run, in other words we have to take everyday at a time, Keeping fix is good, dont worry about keeping fit after the op not for a while anyway, you can control your eating whiles recovering, you need to eat to help with the healing and to build up your strength.

    Good Luck!

    Keep us posted!

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      Thank you, all good advise, I don't expect to be on a diet while recovering, I hear its best to eat plenty of healthy protein and keep up the fruit and veggies.
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    Hi Lorraine. Welcome. I am sure you will get loads of helpful advice/support/tips and even hugs here. As a golden retriever person you must be really nice! I have the most beautiful golden boy. He is 7 and brings great joy into our lives. I too am normally an active, independant person but hip pain is just so debilitating. I waited around 51/2 months since I first went to see my GP so felt that was ok. I could probably have had it earlier but had a holiday booked. I had my op last Friday afternoon and home on Tuesday. My weight has also gone up due to lack of mobility prior to surgery. Plus I had the 'munchies' when I was feeling sorry for myself. The op itself was great. Recovery is happening and amazingly the restrictions are not bothering me at the moment. In fact it is quite nice to know I don't have to do this or go there! I feel that I am learning patience, not before time! The surgery was also uppermost in my mind so not OCD :-) I was completely terrified about it all and feel the support here from your fellow hippies will get you through the next few weeks. Meanwhile give those lovely golden boys and girls a big hug from Scotland. Xx
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      Hippiechic, didn't realise you are from Scotland. I went thru' 2 degrees in the 60's & 70's at the University of Edinburgh, & never considered myself a hippy as I'd never knowingly taken any illegal drug.  Now at 67 not only am I at last a 'hippy', but also found myself filled full of morphine in Raigmore.  (Sadly it appeared to have NO effect on me!)

      So now I can legitimately say: 'Keep the faith, baby'!

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      Oh I wore the beads, flowers in the hair and long dresses. Sang San Franscisco etc, ate veggie. No free love or drugs though! Yes am now too on Morphine which only really had the effect of lowering my B/P quite a bit after surgery. Docs seemed to think that because I was not taken many meds previously (I have a bit of a thing about that) that my body was reacting. Btw worked at Raigmore briefly in 1970. Love Inverness. Xx
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      Hi, Thank you so much for your reply, this site is amazing.  It was wonderful to awake to all of your support.  So you live in the country that was the birthplace of the first Golden Retriever litter, lovely.  I certainly hope my surgery and recovery go as well as yours, congratulations on your new hip, can totally relate to the munchies !!!!!
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    Hi Lorraine, think you should start a new Golden Retriever thread! (lovely dogs).

    I am waiting a hip revision in October and I am really trying to get my weight down too, but it is hard isn't it, when you can't run about like you used to? am trying to keep off snacks and such, can't think of it as "dieting" just trying to get more healthy and eating good stuff. Swimming is really good, though, for overall fitness and making you feel better too.

    The thought of the op is scary, and it does stick in your mind all the time; the way I coped with it last time was to find out as much as I could (but drew the line at watching videos on Youtube, still can't do that!)eek

    You will be fine, the precautions are there for a good reason, so you can heal, and as long as you are prepared mentally and practically for them, those few weeks will pass quickly and you can start getting your life back, without the awful pain. There are loads of stories on here of people who had good positive experiences (see hippiechic's posts!) of the op and recovery. Good luck with both.

     

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      Hi Jean, 

      Yes it is hard not to over eat when there is so little else to do and not being able to walk it off.  I understand regarding not wanting to watch a you tube, I almost did once, thank goodness I didn't.  Thank you for your kind wishes.

      L.

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    Hi L

    I am a fit woman from Calgary who had a TRH done Apr 23 (TiCeramic).  54 yo and avid skier (backcountry, downhill, xc, etc), windsurfer, road cyclist.   It will be fine.  I am 14 weeks post op and have been rehabbing all summer.  Lots of time in the pool walking and doing exercises (per the info from your PT that will come with surgery).  No longer using a cane and feeling pretty good!  The biggest issue for me given my age and high level of activity is the slow and steady recovery.  My surgeon and PT advised that with Hip replacement the 'turtle' wins the race, not the 'hare'.  I.e. this is one surgery to expect slow steady gains and to not try and push faster thinking more pain will equal sooner gain.  Not the case.  It is the small muscles that have to repair and recover and then regain strength.  Be prepared to follow your program once assigned - but do that program with dedication and committment.  The precautions are to allow your hip time to heal.  No bending beyond 90 degrees, no twisting the hip and no crossing the repaired leg beyond the center line.  Appreciate that the biggest risk comes with combining any of these moves.  E.g. Twisting while bending beyond 90 degrees.  As of this point I am already able to tie my shoe and bend beyond 90 carefully.  These things come back in time.  You will do great.

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      Thank you so much for your very positive reply and really good advise.  I think it is so great for me to hear stories like yours, as you are doing so well.  Congratulations on your recovery

       

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      hi lorraine, hiw do you know how much is enough, everone says listen to your body, so if that's the case i would sit down all day !!!!!! ha. i want to be like you back skiing(64) but like you said not to over do it, i try to excersise twice a day, do you think thats enough or push myself for more, i am on Rehab and i can  just lounge on my bed the rest of the time?  thanks 
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      Oh Lynn, I totally understand, same as you if I listened to my body, I would stay in bed all day.  I honestly don't think that the people that write this advise have ever had the pain themselves.  I know it is early days for you, wishing you all good things.  This site is amazing and has already lifted my spirits.  So glad I found all of you.

      L.

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      Great to hear your experience. At the moment am almost a week post op. In UK I have been given a couple of sets of exercises to do 4 times a day and been told to walk every hour. The rest of the time is spent sitting (which causes my lower leg to feel very tight with swelling) I have 3 good height chairs and am alternating sitting on them. I feel maybe I should be lying down to raise the legs but bed is upstairs and boy do I have stairs! Once I am down it is a thought to climb them again until bedtime. I really like your tortoise and hare analogy. Swimming not really an option for me as can only do breast stroke which is not recommended. What was the best rehab programme? Am thinking about maybe a few sessions with a private physio? Going to New Zealand end of January hopefully to see grandchildren. Want to be in best shape for that.
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      Hi hippiechic,

      Like you I can only do breaststroke. If I try front crawl 1) my feet get cramp and 2) I commence drowning!

      BUT - walking around in the water is great for strengthening muscles cos of the resistance. Also you can lie on your back and kick gently up and down and not drown. Before my THR I got some hydrotherapy in a beautiful warm pool based in a hospital, and was shown exercises to do, like standing on one leg, various gentle bends and stretches, and balancing a foam float under one foot while standing on the other. Found it most helpful.

      Stay tortoiselike, and have a good recovery.

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