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I’ve been married for only about 5 months. My husband and I both waited to have sex. We love each other and have a great relationship, but even though I love the emotional and physical closeness of sexual play, I don’t feel like my body is responding with symptoms of arousal. Then there’s the actual sex. We couldn’t even have sex for months it was so painful. I finally went to a doctor and she said my hymen was unusually thick and I underwent surgery to fix it. A couple nights ago we had sex for the first time and we did again last night. It was really painful for me and not enjoyable at all, but I wanted to do it just because I know I need to keep having sex for it to ever get comfortable.
Can anyone give me some advice or encouragement on how to get more aroused and have painless pleasurable sex? I can’t find any resources for me- they all seem to suggest I either am going through menopause or have a less than satisfactory relationship with my partner, neither of which are true.
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