Is this the end?
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Ok so after months of her saying she wasn't sure of anything anymore and wanting to leave the family home because she didn't feel "safe' anymore two weeks ago she left!!!
She's now at her mums and has stopped all meds although I THINK she is still talking to someone but she has told friends she feels better in herself ........ I have tried to talk to her everyday but she is now not responding .....have I lost her, is this the end?
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Mick48 bill78298
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sow interes Im very sure she Will cam home
Shelly0069 bill78298
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bill78298 Shelly0069
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We have been together 8 years now married for 5 and have a child together. we have been through alot including a miscarriage where this I think all stems from but no matter what I try to let her know that I am there for her. I do try to keep in touch with her and either send a text or email every day which ...sometimes she replys to.
It's hard as now she isn't here in the family home she says she feels better in herself and is actually going out with friends she hasn't seen for awhile....she even went out with her ex and his girlfriend.
I'm just worried she's going to like this life too much and not want the old one....me back :-(
bill78298
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but then when we do see each other it feels right and... well we can't keep our hands each other lets say but I never make the first move so I know it's her not me!!
Shelly0069 bill78298
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put up and shut up!. Let her take her things
Shelly0069 bill78298
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Shelly0069 bill78298
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bill78298 Shelly0069
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It is really hard when she doesn't reply but i don't want to not email/text in case she thinks i no longer care.
bill78298
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She seems to be .....happier living the single life and wants to take things out of the family home, changing bills to her name and arranging when I can see the kids....basically getting me out of her life
I know we won't be completely out of each others lifes tho because of the kids (hers/ours) but this is killing me I don;t want to be just in her life for the kids....I want her too!!
Shelly0069 bill78298
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if u need to chat!!. Not going to pride into ur business just to listen!!.
bill78298 Shelly0069
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She has moved everything of hers out of the house, has stopped talking to me, and has gone on a "date' as well as "talking to a few other people!
I'm at a loss and think this is it and I'm not coping well to be honest!
She is still lieing to me and telling friends something else and is more intrested in the "single life" rather then me/us!!