Please can someone help me get through this nightmare
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I've been so unwell over the past few years, mentally and physically. My only lifeline was my partners support,my beautiful caring,kind partner who through my anxiety, insecurities and shouting has finally thrown in the towel and left me. I am heartbroken and distressed beyond belief. Please can someone show me some kindness and help me just get through tonight.
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patricia44773 Mutley
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Do you not have friends or family that could be with you?
I will keep you in my thoughts, try to keep strong.
Pat.
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gilly121 Mutley
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Remember you are not alone and many people can relate to your feelings which can and will improve.
laura08496 Mutley
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of course we will show you some kindness! you will get through the night just fine. sorry you feel so devistated. i hear your distress in the comment you made. this sounds like you might have had issues for a while now. have you and your partner ever discuss couples counseling? since you are saying that you are unwell, and have been for a while i guess, did you ever consider counselling on your own? you have every right to be "well." you may need some help with that. dont be too shy or afraid of someone that can help you. if they cant help, they should recomend someone who can. maybe therapy, and possible medication with a doctor that treats people with more than talk therapy. i am only throwing these options to you, because i believe we all deserve to feel the best we can. and i am thinking if you get help, and get better, mabe its not to late to even get back together with your partner. until you look into that, be good to yourself, and get some relief to get through the night. please dont even think of harming yourself. just continue to share. right here, with others who may relate to you and your dilemma. i am sorry my spelling is horrible. i hope you can understand me. keep an open mind with some replies you may get today from others! good luck!
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laura08496 Mutley
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i've done it. just to feel safe and cared for. they will certainly get you through the night. i know checking into a hospital may sound crazy to you. it's a big leap, sometimes that is more helpful than you might imagine. if you are worried about people finding out...they don't have to know. look, its just a suggestion to check yourself in. many do it, and in the long run, many people feel so much better....but if you cant commit to that, the only help i see for you is to have a friend/companion to come over, and keep you company. what about family? have someone come over that loves you. i worry for you. i hope someone comes up with an idea you may like. try to take care, alright mutley?
Mutley laura08496
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It's something to consider, I'm on my own now and have to try and do things for myself. Very hard when you've been cared for so well. I've had a very blessed 20 Years together. Oh lordy. Thank you for caring, thank you.
laura08496 Mutley
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i always went to the Emergency room..i am not sure what an E&A..little mix up with letters. anyway, you walk in, go up to the front desk, and explain that something's happened, and you are not feeling safe. they will help you right away. many have done the same thing. they are used to it. people that can help you will be there for you. and you can do it alone. i;ve done it all on my own. and that's a huge thing for me! i believe we both have the same background, never was taught to do things on my own. everyone allways did things for me. well, anyway, i believe the emergency room is open 24 hours. so you have time to think about it. dont think too much. you have to get you there first. do you have transportation? well, i encourage you to really think about it. best wishes to you! tomorrow will be a new day. and if you take care of yourself this evening, getting through tomorrow will be easier. good luck!!!
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adrian71 Mutley
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Good Luck
ADRIAN
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patricia44773 Mutley
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I am glad to hear that your sister is coming to be with you and I am glad to hear that you made it through the night. If you survived last night, then I am sure you will have what it takes to get through the days and nights to come, until you find happiness again.
Sending hugs,
Pat.
adrian71 Mutley
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Regards
ADRIAN
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It prevents me from doing all the things I used to and I feel trapped, a burden and so afraid of what my future will be. I made him resent me and I am so sorry about that. Oh it's so horrible.
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I just think he couldn't cope. He looks o good for 51, intact gorgeous and he knows this. He has money, has a large inheritance to look forward to, sadly I never married him or has children,. I'm at the mercy of his generosity and also the new lady when she comes along. She will see the size of his wallet and his parents house and be pregnant in a week. I'm really in the S..t.
Digsby Mutley
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Try to keep things as amicable as possible and don't think the worst. Perhaps put your feelings down in a letter - it may be possible to save the friendship despite the emotional words that have been said. My wife of 20 years walked out on me having found someone else - I was left with my depression but she was quite considerate when it came to the finances. I haven't seen her in the past 5 years since we divorced and she re-married but she does keep in touch and does seem to care what happens to me. Try to keep yourself busy and don't dwell on what has been lost. The end of any relationship means a natural grieving process. Stay strong and try to find self-confidence through something else - you really are stronger than you think. Good luck x
Mutley Digsby
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Lost your wife to another. I am glad that you oh look at it like you do. Maybe I will in time. (Still too early).
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