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Hospital appointment

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sam18386
sam18386

The day of reckoning is here, I am feeling really scared, worried and nervous about the appointment today to discover whether the last 2 years have been futile or not, which being a pessimist I feel they have been, I don't see a positive outcome and if the result is as I predict then I just blame myself, he's won, I'll lose a friend and my self esteem will nose dive.  Never mind eh?  I just hate failing and that's what I've done, I don't want to talk about the past, don't want to answer personal questions and hate talking about what happened.  How do I get through this without breaking in 2?

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  • manda1030
    manda1030 sam18386

    Posted

    Do not blame yourself it took me 10 years and four miscarragies to have a healthy baby. Don't give up I was told I could not either but special gifts are granted to us every day! Best of luck to you.

    ​PS I am infertal now my baby boy truly was my miricle baby. My illnesses are so bad now it would kill me.

    • sam18386
      sam18386 manda1030

      Posted

      Finally manda someone who understands me!  I will keep on hoping, let's hope there is a God out there who will allow my husband and I some happiness, I don't have 10 years though this is my only chance on the nhs as I'm 42 now!  Good luck to you and your little boy too.
  • Louisaluvsrio
    Louisaluvsrio sam18386

    Posted

    I know how you feel. Going over what people did to you may make you worse.

    I had a shrink who said to stay busy and I did. You can distract yourself then and even though we are not in charge of our dreams when sleeping we can try to find happiness in the day time.

    Tell your doctor how you feel. You can talk to the doctor about anything and how to handle the future.

    Best of luck and don't worry. Your doctor is there to help.

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