meatus that looks like lips for my whole life. Really worried about it

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The end of my penis has always looked like it has my whole life and I never realised it was different until I saw others on the internet. This really ruins my confidence regarding talking to girls so I pretty much just never do it at all. I'm 16 now and it contributes to my depression because I'm scared it will stop me finding a partner because they'd see it and think there was something wrong with me. I'm too nervous to tell my mum and I don't imagine anything can be done for it without some kind of surgery to make it look normal. I have good hygiene and I guess it works the same as a normal one? I just feel really nervous in case something happened and it would make the whole situation weird.

I would really appreciate any help on this because I'm really worried about getting older and being lonely because of it.

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    There is nothing wrong with the shape of your meatus. So is mine. There are all kinds of shapes and they are just fine. So don't worry about a relationship because women have little interest about that shape. What matters is how the whole thing works. I will message you a google sites document regarding the frenulum and frenuloplasty. There, the shape of the meatus is also clearly visible.

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