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I wrote a discussion this morning, about how or if I should tell my Family, Will everyone please read it, I posted it under Pulmonary Fibrosis. T/Y I'm very tired today & in a lot of pain. Thank you ALL, Best wishes. I Value every ones opinion ..

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    Hi Nancy,

    First, I am very, very sorry that you are in a lot of pain.  I hope that gets better.

    My theory is this -- telling someone about your condition or not telling someone about it, is not going to change the outcome.  So, it may help you and your family to be upfront.  My husband and adult children know about my condition -- it may help everyone understand why you feel like you do and maybe act like you do.  I would like to share something with you that I just heard this morning -- we are only in control of two things in our lives:  We can prepare for what may happen in our lives, and how we will respond to something that just occurred. 

    There are different things that bring people comfort during difficult times; maybe it's religion, meditation, spending time with family/friends, etc,  I know that I need to work on taking time to do those things that help me.

    I truly hope you feel better,

    Cheryl

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      Cheryl, Thanks for your input, Very well said. I think I will do so after the New Year. I agree, Prepare now, Then no shock later. Thanks again for your time. Hope you have a good day ... Nancy

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