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dondons
dondons

Stuck at my sisters locked me in won't give me keys because I have to do everything to kee everyone else happy when does anyone care what I want what's best for me !

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  • michelle87265
    michelle87265 dondons

    Posted

    Sounds like to need to get out, and tell them you need to sort yourself out for yourself not them, if they can't help you go to someone else for help. At the end of the day it's all your life not there's . Best of luck xxx
    • michelle87265
      michelle87265 dondons

      Posted

      You need to fight, go and get help, it's out there. I have felt like that, keep persevering. It can and does get better. Contact Iapt if you are in uk, please get the help, honestly you can get better and learn to find ways to deal with it.

      There's cbt, counselling, other avenues. Hope this helps

      michelle x

    • dondons
      dondons michelle87265

      Posted

      I have done all of that, counselling, cbt, seen phychiatrists, psychologists, doctors, been on silly amounts of meds, been an outpatient at mental hospital I've tried it all Xx
    • michelle87265
      michelle87265 dondons

      Posted

      Was there nothing, that worked. What about meditation. 

      There must be something, that could help you. Is there anyone you trust enough just to talk it through with anyone. 😊😊😊

    • hypercat
      hypercat dondons

      Posted

      Hi Dondon why do you think nothing worked?   I know some folk are treatment resistant but even they have things which help a bit even if only more understanding of themselves and their illness. 

      Do you understand yourself any better than the day you started treatment?   Do you have any more self knowledge or any idea where your depression comes from or what triggers you?  Or how to cope with it. Bev x

  • patricia44773
    patricia44773 dondons

    Posted

    I think your sister loves you and is trying to keep you safe.

    Keep looking for the light, Dondons.

    Pat xxx

    • dondons
      dondons patricia44773

      Posted

      You're right she does and I know she's trying to keep me safe but the thing is I don't think I want to be safe...not anymore xx
    • patricia44773
      patricia44773 dondons

      Posted

      Try to think how devastated she would be if anything happened to you.  I would be devastated too, as would all your friends on here.

      Patxxxx

    • dondons
      dondons patricia44773

      Posted

      My mind thinks a thousand things everyday but past few days it's the main thing, the thing at front of my mind! I can't help it I wish I could but I can't control my thoughts never been able to but not through lack of trying xx
  • nick34171
    nick34171 dondons

    Posted

    They locked you in?! Do what?! No. Sorry that's out of order. What happens if you need an ambulance or something and no one else is there? Stupid.
    • dondons
      dondons nick34171

      Posted

      They were here, if had asthma attack they could've opened the door it was more not letting me get out rather than letting people in, took my house keys too so couldn't get back to my house xx
    • nick34171
      nick34171 dondons

      Posted

      I misinterpreted your post. Thought they'd locked you in and gone out.
    • patricia44773
      patricia44773 dondons

      Posted

      I still think your family is trying to look after you, I hope I am right.
    • dondons
      dondons patricia44773

      Posted

      You're right, they're looking after me best they know how except they don't know or even care what I want. I'm selfish for wanting to go yet I feel they're selfish for trying to make me stay, I just wish they knew xx
    • patricia44773
      patricia44773 dondons

      Posted

      Oh l am sure they DO know.  They love you and all they can do is try to keep you alive until a cure for your depression can be found.

      Try not to hurt them Dondons....or yourself.

      You will be in my thoughts always.

      Pat xxxxxx

    • dondons
      dondons

      Posted

      I'm sorry, I'm not meaning to sound rude, just comes to a point when I need to shut up because I only make a bigger fool of myself! I really do appreciate you relying to me and caring xx
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