(male) loss of sex drive
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Hi on Cit for 4 months, I have had most of the side effects, but the loss of sex drive is the worst, the wife used to call me a sex pest as always horny however I would rather have a cudle now!!! ( she is pleased) feel closer now, I can still get an erection and can last for ages but hard to ejeculate.
I guess being happier is a better deal, I do still get panic attacks, even today was going to drive to the hospital instead of work but pushed through.
I have lost about 6 llbs as well which is never a bad thing, I fell longer is needed to become totally better so the sex will have to waite
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katecogs richamrd92990
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Cuddles are great and as you say, makes you feel so very close. Lucky wife ;-)
Losing weight too! :-)
You could also eventually reduce your meds to a smaller amount, enough to maintain your well feeling, and see if that helps with the lost sex drive.
K x
richamrd92990 katecogs
Posted
thank you again
katecogs richamrd92990
Posted
Thanks, the 'cyber' hug was good enough
K x
David_21660 richamrd92990
Posted
Totally know what you mean man! As I has said before, it just goes to prove that, part if not all, of our brains are most of the time mostly in our pants! There is a real connection to in the human male. We are after all programmed by nature (God, call it what you, as an individual wish to call it!) to reproduce and "Vive la difference!" as they say! When, however, we have a little break down in the connection between brain and the thiing that, sadly, mostly for some of us, totally drives us, our male being, purpose etc., is suddenly brought into question. How can you continue to beat yer chest, strutt yer stuff when you know you can't deliver!
To be honest Dude, I ain't "delivered" in 4 months (I guess t'would be worse if I was a postman!, but I digress) and you are right things have changed. To me, in a way, after decades of being, although sensitive to the opposite sex, after one thing my whole being and reason for has changed!
There is more love, thoughtfullness, caressing, less pressure and with no ejaculation has come no complaints only compliments and a closeness. That in itself (and all the compliments) makes me feel more of a man!
I do look forward to the day when I may, you know, come what may! I certainly ain't gonna worry about it, life is getting better and love is more pure.
All the Best and great you were man enough to give another man the chance to join the debate!
Regards,
David
richamrd92990 David_21660
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thank you again and good luck