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15th day and severe crying outburst

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evi75119
evi75119

Hello again,

?I am already perimenopausal but still have regular periods along with many peri symptoms...One of them is that on day 14 th or 15th  of each month I am constantly having severe crying outbursts...I feel so depressed and extremely suicidal on this day...

Yesterday I had been crying literally for 9 hours without break...A lot of  crying and some moments a little nervous...My mother understood that every month on this day I have this abnormal behavior and she was trying to calm me down but it was inevitable...I was crying and talking unstoppably...I could not stop and  fall asleep.. I wanted to talk alone  without obvious reason...I feel that someone else controls me this time..it is scary

?Today when I wake up I looked my face on the mirror and my eyes are swollen from the crying....The good thing is that I feel more tranquil after this outburst

Are you experiencing something like this during this phase of the month?? Namely, on the middle of your menstrual cycle around 14 th or 15 day?

?Thank u in advance

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  • Patient
    Patient evi75119

    Posted

    Hi evi75119

    We note from a recent post which you have made to our forum that you may be experiencing thoughts around self-harm. If we have misinterpreted your comments then we apologies for contacting you directly. But if you are having such thoughts then please note that you are not alone in this, and there are people out there that can help.

    If you are having these suicidal thoughts then we strongly recommend you speak to someone who may be able to help. The Samaritans offer a safe space where you can talk openly about what you are going through. They can help you explore your options, understand your problems better, or just be there to listen.

    Their contact details are on our patient information leaflet here: https://patient.info/health/dealing-with-suicidal-thoughts, which also offers lots of other advice on how you can access the help you may need.

    If you are having such thoughts then please do reach out to the team at the Samaritans (or the other people detailed in our leaflet) who will understand what you're going through and will be able to help.

    Kindest regards

    Patient

  • Alllie
    Alllie evi75119

    Posted

    Hi there l just seen your post and l had posted on this crying even before l saw yours,l feel the same had day like that y/day but good after crying most of the day had a good sleep which is l dont get of late and felt kinda better today and l can on my period after missing 2 months so must of been building up,l try not to get upset but you just cant stop it l feel my body not mine ATM,sending a hug its just crap when we feel like this x
  • anetta94863
    anetta94863 evi75119

    Posted

    yes, this is the ovulation time anxiety/depression. I have it very strong too. I have suicidal thought as well, they are constant when I can't sleep. It is another form of anxiety. Ovulation happens on the 14 or 15 , sometimes the 13th day of cycle.   I have absolutely no control over myself in times like this. Hang in there. I hope this ends soon. I pray.

  • Guest
    Guest evi75119

    Posted

    I cry very easily now.  The worst time was one day about two months after my surgery.  I was at home preparing for a colonoscopy (due to Crohn's disease) the next day and could not stop crying all day.  This is when I knew that my peri symptoms had become much worse on top of the stress of getting through all the doctors' appointments and surgery in the months before.  I have not had another day of crying as bad as that one, but there are definitely some really rough days.

    • evi75119
      evi75119 Guest

      Posted

      Hello Liz, thank u a lot for your interest and support!

      ?are you still having monthly periods?

      ?I have read about Crohn's disease, I wondering if I have this, too.

      ?I am experiencing many IBS and digestive issues...gasses, burning waist etc...But I believe that the erratic hormones are the culprit for my digestive symptoms.

      ?The bowels are full of hormones and this is the reason that an hormonal disorder affects the digestive tract.

      ?I have symptoms since 2012. Until 2016 I was able to live with them as they were not so intense and on a daily basis and mainly emotional and behavioral. I have to mention that I had not realized that it was my crazy hormones...I was ascribing my behavior abnormalities to stress...But the last 2 years the physical symptoms have exhausted me.

      ?The flu like fatigue, the crazy formication, the joint and bones pains...completely loss of libido, of energy...

      I have been hit by everything

    • Guest
      Guest evi75119

      Posted

      If you're having digestive issues, be sure to have a GI evaluation so they can figure it out.  There are lots of different digestive illnesses and conditions.  It's worth finding out.

    • Guest
      Guest evi75119

      Posted

      I almost forgot... no, my periods are very irregular, anywhere from about 30-45 days apart.
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