20 and losing control

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I'm 20 and feel like I'm losing more and more bladder control I leak during the day but can usually make it to a toilet but at night I wet heavily. I have an overactive bladder and have tried medication but the side effects killed me. I wear male guards during the day and Abena briefs at night I would love to talk to anybody else who is having similar expierience sir has any tips for me

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    Hi, I feel your pain I'm 46 and have had this now for 4 years it's totally ruined my life. I have to use mattress protection bed pads, the disposable pants and still wake up soaked through. That happens 2-3 times a night. And when I go toilet through the day hardly nothing there. I've tried medication not drinking loads.no caffeine but still no difference. I'm under hospital now, we'll have been for 2 years and now I'm having to get trained in self catheterisation. All I want is a decent nights sleep.and be able to have a holiday and hopefully find a partner. Who I'm not going to drown in bed. Hope you get sorted quickly good luck Helena xx

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      I just wanted to say I think it is easier for women then men to handle wearng protection.  And as young as he is I know he is embaressed about it.  I am 51 and have been wearing diapers for years.  It does not affect me now.
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    Hi, im a 42 year old male suffering from oab for many years. Having to deal with this can turm your live upside down. Not only the pain it causes, or the discomfort of the incontinence briefs, but also the shame and social isolation can make me feel depressed very often. Beside my wife nobody knows about my condition, and my doctor ofcourse. But i even tell my wife just the things i can't hide and change my pads secretly.

    I think talking about it with others who suffer the same can make you feel better, so feel free PM me.

    Wish you all the best.

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    Wow I am in my 40's and have been dealing with incontinence for since 2004 just before my first back surgery on my l4-5 disk. As the years progressed I went from a constant dripping and few bedwetting incidents to wearing diapers 24/7... Luckly I am on medciad and get back to my diapers paid for ...they tied all the meds with me till they said it nerve damage all the meds were garbage too me

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