4 weeks and 1 day post op
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Hi hippies,
Just wanted to say that I have found this forum absolutely invaluable and thank you to everybody who's contributed to it. It's been very re-assuring knowing that so many people are experiencing a similar situation.
Background: I'm an active 64 year old male, live in southern UK, who's been suffering increasing pain in my left hip for over 2 years. I saw my GP last year who suggested I have a THR but I went into denial, asked for pain killers and stated I was too young for such a radical operation - fool!
Roll on a year and asked the GP to update the paid meds but he refused and basically said "let's get this sorted". I had a consultation and X-ray at the end of August, diagnosed severe OA and was asked if I wanted the op in September (I panicked again), it was inconvenient etc and was asked what WAS convenient. The NHS is truly marvellous.
Between late August and the 25th October when I had a LTHR posterior operation,I spent virtually every day in the gym concentrating on hip exercises.
It paid off, I spent 3 days in hospital, totally pain free, and have been ever since, was walking on 1 crutch within 2 weeks and have been exercising and walking ever since. I had my first physio today and they were very positive, doing well etc. so things are moving on.
I feel much happier than I've felt for several years and realise that the hip pain was dragging me down without recognising it.
It's not all sunlit uplands of course. It's such a drag sleeping on my back.
This month has been really tedious. Being stuck in the house apart from walks, not sleeping properly, watching TV for hours, it's all a bit Groundhog Day - but it's got to be done.
I've stuck religiously to the exercise regime but naively expected some sort of contact with somebody, anybody, to re-assure me after hospital discharge. An exercise sheet and some general guidelines aren't much comfort.I thought a district nurse or some such would "pop in"! How old am I ha!
Looking forward to my 6 weekly review when hopefully I'll be able to drive - fingers crossed.
Best wishes and good luck to all.
Bob
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margaret45049 kirkdale1
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hi Bob
it sounds like you're doing absolutely great, well done for your positive vibes!
im somewhat similar in my. journey, in denial for years longer than you & thinking myself too young at 60! Now i'm so glad it's all done, 3 weeks ago, with a very successful recovery so far.
i agree absolutely with your comment on being left to your own devices, my comments exactly. i can't believe you are just turned out with a photocopied sheet of exercises, a choice of removing your own dressing or seeing a nurse ( i chose the latter!) and in my case no follow up with consultant until 12 weeks post op. i am seeing the physio every 2 weeks so maybe he can tell me when fit to drive.
Keep up the good work, sounds like you are doing very well!
Margaret
elaine23679 kirkdale1
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How we all think someone will contact us after such a major procedure... that was many years ago that happened. Believe me even Cancer patients do not get that service from the GP;s here in the South of England.
Where are you? I am in Eastbourne but had my bi-lateral THR in North London....as local hospital refused to consider me at my age. was told to contact them when I was 60 for a review....
Good luck on your recovery, do not expect much on the physio front unless you are more fortunate.... I get once every 3 weeks!!
kirkdale1 elaine23679
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Hi Elaine,
I'm in South Oxfordshire and had my op at the Royal Berkshire Hospital, Reading.
I can't praise the care and attention I received there enough but as I think we all feel, judging by everybody's responses, once you're discharged you're basically left to get on with it.
For example, I was lucky enough to borrow a "nursing home" type high chair and because I am so aware of the 90 degree rule have not attempted to sit on anything lower since my discharge. Yesterday the physio took me into her office and gestured to an ordinary seat for me to sit on. I asked her if I could do that because of 90 degree rule. She immediately backtracked and said it was up to the consultant to tell me etc. So, my question was well, am I expected to sit normally now or not but of course I didn't get a definitive response. I'm so paranoid about dislocating my new hip and having to go through the whole procedure again that I'm a bit frightened to even try. So the high chair it is for me for the forseeable future lol.
This forum is a fantastic source of help and re-assurance. Thanks to all for your positive responses.
Bob
margaret45049 kirkdale1
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Hi Bob
Im paranoid about the 90 degree rule too but was told by a nurse that its very rare to dislocate with advances in recent hip surgery- still scary though!
As soon as you start getting out & about it becomes harder to find suitable height chairs. I found this visiting local department store for coffee & needing to sit on a folded coat to bring the height up!
elaine23679 kirkdale1
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I have an inflatable cushion in my handbag that I can use if the seat is low or hard...
Even the GP surgery chairs are too low!!!
Funny how you start to look at things with different perspective but like you do not want to dislocate my hips... as not sure I could go through it all again..
renee01952 elaine23679
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Hi elaine,
good for you to bring an inflatable cushion with you ... low chairs were already a problem for me pre-surgery because of pain in hip .
I also noticed the "normal" chairs in ortho departement's waiting room
elaine23679 renee01952
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I am waiting for OT assessor re adaptations to our flat.. as I am still not able to bend enough to use the oven.... and still have raised WC seat... no grab rails.
Life is a challenge everyday... not only for us hippies but others in the world... so lets keep our chins up and smile...
gail_27284 kirkdale1
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Similar story ...fit 54...took the surgeon 5 goes to convince me I needed to get it done ,including the morning of my op ..I went privately to get it (just easier for me as I'm self employed)...like you been doing I'd been focusing on my leg and hip exercises for the past few months ..now 3weeks and 1day post op ..
I too feel that the hospitals don't give you quite the back up you need ,even privately ..I have my first physio thi Fri...
You seem to be doing very well ,it's always great seeing how people embrace the new hip thing ...onwards and upwards..gm
anna87839 kirkdale1
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Well done you I put my op twice as so frightened
gave in couldn't cope with o/a bone on bone
any longer,best thing I ever did pain free yahoooooo.
I also haven't had any at home after care which
I think is really not on after major surgery,you
don't no what your feeling within your body is
how things are ment to be.
Even at my 7 week hospital check I didn't see my
consultant I saw his nurse not happy about this
also I had so much to ask him.
My next hospital check up is next month,guess
what had letter telling me I am now getting a
telephone consultation what's that all about,I'm
18 weeks post tlhr now and still feel pain when
climbing stairs on my op leg,I'm going to try
some how to see consultant again fingers crossed I wish you well keep healing .xxx😱🙋?
hazel14263 kirkdale1
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anthony56857 kirkdale1
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I too am 4 weeks and 1 day post op, my op went well and on returning to the ward after coming round from the op I was greeted by the pyhsio dept who asked if I could get out of bed and give the Zimmer frame a try, I did and they were impressed that I managed 4 to 5 steps, so then they gave me 2 walking sticks and asked me to try them which I had no problem with walking with them. They asked me to get into bed and they would pop along and see me later. They came back an hour later and with the aid of the sticks asked me to follow them to a set of steps with a handrail and asked if I could get up and down them 3 times with a stick which I did.they then escorted me back to the ward and announced that the physiology dept did not need to see me anymore and discharged me, I was shocked, I would of thought I would have needed some sort of follow up treatment. I was discharged from the hospital after 2 days which I thought was a bit too soon but I'm only the patient. I received some medication and a leaflet with a couple of excersises on it. I had a phone call from the hospital 3 days later asking how I was and I have received a letter telling me my follow up appointment is at the beginning of January. It seems that a lot of people on this forum are getting lots of treatments and 6 week appointments and that I have been left to fend for myself, my worry is because my follow appointment is at 12 was if there is anything wrong it might be too late to repair any damage. I am getting about OK on 1 stick but leg stiffens up when I've done a bit much. I have all but stopped all the medication now and I am feeling ok. It's been a great help reading a lot of letters/ comments on this forum and I wish you all a speedy recovery and get well soon. Tony
hazel14263 anthony56857
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anthony56857 hazel14263
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I'm in the nth of uk
hazel14263 anthony56857
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Well that's weird 12 weeks sounds wrong to me I would check that out .. Never heard of waiting 3 months following major op sounds like an admin error ? I am in Wales ... 6 weeks .
margaret45049 hazel14263
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Im in Cheshire & had my THR through BUPA but still have to wait 12 weeks for consultant appt. i agree, sounds far too long to me, would be much happier to have reassurance at 6 weeks before driving etc
hazel14263 margaret45049
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That is crazy ! Here it's 6 weeks and then another at 6 months .. Seems mad to me . How do you know when you can drive ? Surgeon supposed to say ok to driving ...