6 weeks 1 day......
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This site is keeping me going.... thank you everyone. I'm 6 weeks 1 day into my recovery a&p repair & a hoist up of the womb.. can't remember the medical word for that. All guidance says sex is ok from 6 weeks, what a joke. I am still so swollen and sore that is the last thing on my mind! This may be tmi but my vjj is unrecognisable in a bad way, it is so lumpy and bumpy and oh so sore. They do not seem to have taken much time or consideration into the aesthetics when stiching me back up. It just looks like a mess down there I am hoping things improve.....
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welshgirl67 SMM103
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Amazing forum for 4months and I have read many times that it can take
Up to 12 weeks before all swelling goes away.matron is the Lady to ask
And I'm sure she will give yuou great advice sometime during the day.
I know how you must be feeling,I havef my anterior terpsir in 2 weeks.
Lots of love and please give your body time. I've told my hubby
6
weeks is very high unlikely, so get rid of the thought😂😂😂😂😂😂😘😘
SMM103 welshgirl67
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Good luck with the op. I know I just need to be patient and listen to my body and I've really been trying. I don't want to have to go through it again so really been trying to take it easy etc.... Wise words to your hubby btw xxxx
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deborah25644 SMM103
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When I first logged on after my op lots of ladies were posting about how swollen and lumpy things looked down there to the point some of them were worried it's hadn't worked. Matron has always assured everyone that it will all look fine when swellings reduce so I'm trying to leave it as long as possible so as not to frighten myself 😳
as as for sex god know when I'll be ready for that but good thing is hubby will have been that desperate since it's been that long I'm hoping it will all over in seconds 😂😂😂😂
Jan999 deborah25644
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phyl_40063 deborah25644
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Jan999 SMM103
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The lumps and bumps will reduce and around 12 weeks you'll notice a difference and feel more like yourself. Take things easy up until then and no lifting anything heavy.
phyl_40063 Jan999
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Had my down day yesterday, depressed and tearful , cant understand why, just seemed to feel really sorry for myself , lamenting on slow progress and resenting the having to go through this for 2nd time, hating hubby for not understanding or being supportive enough.
Much better today, at least stopped the weeping and feel a little more positive. Progress so slow, itching to do more but this forum keepin me right and reminding me to take it easy.
Many thanks to yourself and everyone else who takes the time to post, would be overdoing it so much more without these posts.
Phyllis xx
Jan999 phyl_40063
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SMM103 Jan999
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phyl_40063 Jan999
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Feeling it at front end today, slight pinky tinge to discharge, but think some of swelling down with the result more aware of slight discomfort; strange feeling it's not really sore or nippy just uncomfortable, more aware of the lumpy wall at the front that is slightly swollen and really dry, makes it feel like prolapse still there yet I know it's just where the stitches are.
Assume that means it's on the mend and as it should be.
Thanks again for your kind words , sun's shining today, horizontal for afternoon break!
Phyllis xx
phyl_40063 SMM103
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Xx☺
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