6 Weeks post-op vaginal anterior repair
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Hello ladies!
I had my 6 week post-op for anterior (bladder, cystocele) repair. My outpatient surgery was done vaginally, using my own tissue that supports the bladder. NO MESH or other materials used. The reason I had outpatient surgery was that I do not have health insurance and my doctor felt that I was in good enough shape and health that he was confident in performing my surgery at an outpatient surgical care center, 2 blocks from the hospital. The cost of everything was about 25% of what I had heard anterior repair surgery would be, so obviously that was a substantial saving to us.
I had all of my questions written down so that I wouldn't forget any...my doctor was pleased with that and took the time before the exam to listen. He answered what he could before the exam and met me in his office after the exam to finish answering the questions and inform me of my progress.
I am telling you this so that you can be prepared at your appointments...if you ask the questions, they will answer them and you will get a lot more information regardless of where you are on your health journey. I did not ask many questions when I was diagnosed, I found most of my information on the Internet. At my 2 week post-op, I was completely unprepared and still had "med head" from the surgery, so basically didn't ask much. I was prepared this time.
My cystocele was a strong stage 3, pushing on stage 4 with a lot of pain pressure and problems with completely emptying my bladder. After surgery at my 2 week checkup, he said that I have some "residual bladder drop". After asking questions today, I now know that means I still have a stage 1 cystocele. The bulge is in the bottom of the bladder vs the top, which is good. He said even after removing excess tissue, pulling the tissue tight and stitching it, it still stretches because it's obviously, not new tissue.
I have seen many comments about doing PELVIC FLOOR EXERCISES soon after surgery. I asked him if I should have been doing them and he said " NO, NOT UNTIL YOU ARE COMPLETELY HEALED". So please check with your doctor before you start them. Maybe the decision is made on a case by case basis, or maybe the doctor's preference. I don't know, but I definitely don't want to go backwards or undo what surgery has done!
He removed the few remaining stitches that had not dissolved ( for comforts sake😀), and gave me the okay for bending, lifting, and walking. He said that pain will stop me if it's too much. He also gave me the okay for intercourse...my husband is working in another state right now, so I won't see how that goes for 5 more weeks. The up side to that is I have 5 more weeks of healing before I try it out! lol
I still have a lot of pressure in the groin area and problems eliminating if I don't go at the first urge. There is no infection 😀. He believes it's because I am not eliminating completely, so there is always pressure, so he gave me a prescription to use for one month to improve the emptying of the bladder. This should improve my comfort level tremendously! He still wants me up every 2 hours through the night to eliminate and keep the pressure off the bladder area while it continues to heal.
Some days are really good and some not so good. On the not so good days or days I know I will be on my feet a lot, I still use Lynn's garment to give me that extra support so I don't feel strained. The garment was designed for those who cannot or do not want surgery, BUT it gives much needed support to those of us that have had surgery and are healing. How many of you walked around the first couple weeks holding yourself and being thankful no one was there to see it? I know I did and was so happy to discover a support garment so I could walk around and not feel like I was falling out anymore.
Sorry if I rambled and gave too much information, but I know when I first came on this site, I wanted as much information as I could get. I am posting this on more than one discussion because different people on different discussions wanted an update.
I have another appointment in 4 weeks and hopefully all is completely healed at that time. Thanks for reading and I pray all goes well for all of you, whatever stage of your journey you are at!
God bless!
Trisha
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I understand about the sleep. I have always felt my best at 9 hours, which I am back to now, but I was sleeping 11-12 hours a night and taking 2-3 hours naps some days after surgery (...with the interruption of going to the loo every 2 hours per doctor's orders). Good to remind ourselves it's okay to sleep when you are tired...our bodies do our best healing while we are sleeping.
Your walking is wonderful...you put me to shame...and you are back to work! I no longer work, but I must get a move on it!
The lifting has definitely been a challenge. It's a good thing you can do all the walking to take your trash up and down the hill. Could your grandson or the teenager that mows your grass take your trash to the end of your lane for you? I am lucky that my drive is short and my trash can is on rollers so it makes it very easy. My youngest son lives about a mile from me, so he brings his riding lawn mower over to mow for me. It takes him about an hour and 15 minutes to do what takes me about 3 hours to do with my push mower.
It's to accept that we can't do things that we are used to doing. Sometimes we need to remind ourselves to be thankful for the job being done by others even if it is not done the way we would do it or as well as we would do it. The point is, it is done and someone else took the time to do it for us! This was always a tough one for me, but I'm getting much better at it.
yes, housework is a challenge too. Things aren't done as often, but I am catching up. It's not too bad with only me to clean up after. My husband was here for 2 weeks when I had surgery, but is back working in Indiana (USA). I am in North Carolina (USA)
You are an amazing woman to go through this at 71...I am 55 and you are truly an inspiration to me!
I am also going to mass today...not in Latin though. Good memories for you. I will pray for you and your continues recovery as well as all our other friends in this forum! Happy healing!
God bless!
Trish
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Maybe it's all in my head, but I also feel better knowing I didn't cause the residual stage 1 cystocele (prolapse) and knowing what I can do and not do to prevent further damage. I really do feel better already! lol
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My 8 year old grandson lives in the city and visits me once a week. My daughter comes with him sometimes but mainly it's just him. My daughter took me to and from the hospital and looked after me the first week so I was very grateful. We are not really close - a clash of personalities - but we love each - moreso if we are not together too much. I have come to accept this even though she is an only child and has herself only one child.
I had to look high and low to find the kid who is doing my lawn. He lives at the other end of my rural community so has to bicycle a long way to come. He is new to the community so I don't know him and am not really ready to ask him to help with other stuff. My garbage can is also on wheels which don't do well on a steep hill but I usually can mange. And of course because of the wildlife, I can't put it out until about an hour before I know the garbage is being picked up. Anyhow, it's good exercises (I tell myself). Having no neighbours is great most of the time - unless you need help! I think we should move to the city but each time I mention it, my hubby totally agrees - and then is very depressed, very quiet and "down" and twice I had to take him to the hospital for his heart failure. We have our differences but after nearly 51 years of marriage, I am not ready to kill him just yet....
I am happy to hear I will get back to my 7 hour sleep per night. I can't nap at all during the day (except for the first week after surgery where I think I slept most of the time). I have too much to do. I could never retire from work - even if we didn't need the money. I sometimes wish I could just sit around and be quiet but it's not my personality. If I had to, I guess I would but like my hubby, I would be very down about it.
So thanks for your words of encouragement and I agree with Stephanie's remarks. I hope your recovery continues as well and as quickly as it can. Father said a prayer for you and for all who are on the forum. Being young, he is very into computer forums so was happy to hear there was a place where we could support and encourage each other.
I was so discouraged and worried when I first found the forum and the help I got certainly helped my morale, my motivation to get better and my acceptance of my current limitations - something I initially thought would NEVER happen. So thanks to all who contribute to the forum.
Keep in touch Trisha. I do care.
Nickie
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I just got home from church and groceries and was feeling a bit wiped out...then I read your message! You make me smile and sure lifted my spirits! Wish you didn't live so far away.
I am having a friend from church, Teresa, over for dinner tonight, so I have to get busy. I'll send you a better message tomorrow!
Have a blessed day!
Trisha
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living in town would be better for having help closer to you, but I can understand the resistance, I love the country and so does my husband.
Good you have the help you do and you know the limitations.
I am continuing to feel better and I think the prescription I am taking now has really helped with the pressure and better bladder elimination.
hope you are continuing to feel better!
Blessings,
Trish
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God bless.
Nickie
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robyn94818 Kaleah
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You don't say what your repair was? Why do you wish your Surgeon was female? 6wks is too early for sex in my mind & thinking back to that stage after my repair. You just have to start trying when you feel ready. It's a bit scary.
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