66 Peri menopause / Menopause Symptoms you may experience which may help some ladies

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SIXTY-SIX PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS: Part one 1 - 49

These are very real physical changes and conditions. Some symptoms alarm a woman that she may be suffering from a serious disease. Perhaps you know the more common ones related to menopausal symptoms in this list. But many of these may surprise you, as they have not been typically associated with this normal physiological transformation. 

1. Change in Menstrual Cycle, Cycles may get closer together or farther apart, lighter and shorter in duration or much heavier, lasting longer than one has been accustomed to. Menses may seem to take forever to begin with dark spotting for days until you actually flow, or you might feel like you have your menses every two weeks.

2. Menstrual Flooding can come on with sudden onset and feel like you may hemorrhage to death. Or it can be a gradual build up just when you think your menses will end and you start gushing for days. Flooding commonly accompanies the woman with uterine fibroids as she transits into menopause.

3. Headaches, Migraines, especially before, during or at the end of your menses debilitate and radically interferes with normal functioning.

4. Decreased Motor Coordination, Clumsiness, almost begins to make the woman who experiences this feel like she is certainly less than graceful during perhaps an already awkward period in her life. 

5. Lethargy, a persistent feeling sluggishness physically and mentally, that seems to negate ones ability to do much. 

6. Physical Exhaustion , and Crushing Crashing Fatigue that can come on so suddenly and grip you into feeling like you will collapse unless you stop this instant.

7. Exacerbation of any Chronic Illness or Existing Condition transpires as hormones decline or deviate from their normal balance.

8. Insomnia, this includes a new or unusual pattern of either difficulty falling asleep, or dropping off to sleep for a few hours and then awakening with the inability to return to sleep.

9. Sleep Disturbances sometimes are from nightmares, night sweats, or just a vague sense of restlessness keeping you up or disrupting your precious revitalizing retreat from this realm of responsibilities.

10. Night Sweats often begin between a woman?s breasts, initially a night or two before her menses, waking her from sleep, later more profoundly disturbing with up to total body saturation, followed by damp or sweat drenched chills.

11. Interference With Dream Recall interrupts the sense of normal sleep, if you are someone accustomed to vivid or at least some detailed memory of your dreamtime. 

12. Muscle Cramps can occur anywhere in the body from legs to back to neck, and sometimes reflects the need for more calcium, or simply that your progesterone levels are too low. 

13. Low Backache often worsens before or during menses, but if your hormones remain at low levels, you can experience it on a regular basis.

14. Gall Bladder Symptoms of pain, spasms and discomfort felt in the right upper abdominal quadrant under the ribs, which may be accompanied by belching, bloating, and intolerance to certain foods reflect the increased liver load with declining hormones. 

15. Frequent Urination, or sensations that mimic urinary infections is a disturbing symptom often unrelieved by actual urination. It is often experienced as the sensation of needing to urinate all the time, even immediately afterwards.

16. Urinary Incontinence, the uncontrollable and spontaneous loss of urine, or the Urge for Incontinence, can occur suddenly or feel continuous, and not only in response to coughing, sneezing, jumping or running. 

17. Hypoglycemic Reactions happen when suddenly your blood sugar crashes and you must have food now.

18. Food Cravings, often for sweets or salty foods, but can include sour or pungent foods. 

19. Increased Appetite, especially at night and after dinner contributes to that unusual and unwanted weight gain.

20. Dark Circles Under Eyes can also be caused by adrenal exhaustion and thyroid dysfunctions, but no amount of sleep seems to eliminate it. 

21. Joint and Muscle Pain, Achy, Sore Joints, Muscles and Tendons, which sometimes develop into actual carpal tunnel syndrome, or give rise to the questioning of other disease possibilities.

22. Increased Tension in Muscles demonstrates itself in those hunched up shoulders as you work or talk about anything uncomfortable, along with promoting lower back pain and a stiff neck.

23. Increased Hair Loss or Thinning anywhere on body, including your head, armpits, pubic area.

24. Increase in Facial Hair especially under your chin, or along your jaw line. It may be defined by generalized hair growth, or a specific and coarse single strand of hair that pokes out, even curls. 

25. Unusually Hair Growth, around Nipples, between Breasts, down your back, places where your hair was finer, less coarse.

26. Acne, quite disturbing to any woman who dealt with this in adolescence and never thought it would recur. 

27. Infertility causes grief in the woman who postponed pregnancy in her earlier years and now wishes to conceive, carry to term a healthy baby, and discovers she is unable to do so. 

28. Loss of Breast Tissue begins with the decrease of progesterone production. Women often feel as though their breast have become empty sacs devoid of their normal fullness, with or without sagging.

29. Breast Soreness/Tenderness/Pain/ Engorgement and swelling, occurs particularly a few days to one week before bleeding actually begins, which usually potentiates complete relief of any pain or swelling.

30. Painful, or tender nipples have been described as this exquisite localized pain only in the nipples and suggests estrogen excess. 

31. Cold Extremities feels quite strange especially in the presence of a hot flash, the combination of which is not impossible.

32. Being Accident Prone, bumping into things, not even realizing it until the bruise reveals itself later and then lacking the ability to recall the causative incident feels perplexing and a little scary at the prospect of something more damaging. 

33. Hot flashes initially may be described as mild to severe flushes of heat waves, and for some women these evolve into intense outbreaks of sudden heat with sweating and turning bright red all over. 

34. Loss of Sexual Energy, our Libido, can be marked by a gradual or sudden disinterest in sex, to the development of an actual aversion. 

35. Painful Sex often described as if one?s vagina would tear open at the point of penetration along with feelings of abrasion during intercourse.

36. Vaginal Dryness, Irritation, sometimes accompanied by a consistent unusual discharge - typically odor free, negates a woman?s ability to be sexually active, or able to enjoy or be comfortable in her body.

37. Dizziness, feeling lightheaded and the loss of physical balance, and even a bit wobbling at times, requires pause in movement to prevent falling over or deepening into vertigo or feeling faint.

38. Ringing in the Ears, Tinnitus, can be experienced as a pulsing sensation, a whooshing sound, an almost musical or buzzing sound with a fuzzy sensation.

39. Abdominal Bloating comes on suddenly often after eating, or seems to be all the time, and can be visibly evident making you feel that you look like you are pregnant. 

40. Weight Gain disturbs most women, particularly when it seems to happen over a couple of days, settles in the waist, buttocks and thighs, promoting a visceral thickening from the waist down, the classic middle-aged figure.

41. Fluid Retention, Edema, commonly with swelling in the legs and ankles, though not limited to this area and it is unrelieved by urination.

42. Palpitations or Heart Racing usually comes on suddenly, without warning or provocation, and dissipates spontaneously. The experience can be so wild and intense that a woman may become alarmed and wonder if she is having a heart attack. 

43. Irregularities in your Heart Rate may feel more like your heart has just done a flip-flop or skipped a beat.

44. Constipation/Diarrhea, intermittent or alternating, results from declining hormone levels, which increase the demands on liver function and alters intestinal motility.

45. Tendency towards Candidiasis can increase, even if you have no prior known history ? and if you do, it may worsen.

46. Gastrointestinal Distress, Increased Flatulence, Unrelieved Gas pains, Indigestion, Nausea all can reflect intestinal changes due to hormonal imbalances.

47. Slow Digestion often goes along with the bloat ? what previously took four to five hours to digest, now seems to take all night. It seems worse in the evenings.

48. Lack of Appetite may be experienced as more of a lack of interest in food, going to the frig and standing there with the door open and staring blankly. Feeling completely uninspired, you busy yourself with something else and forget that you need to eat.

49. Changes in Body Odor especially disturbing when it seems to focus in the groin area, but can be anywhere on the body.

50. Puffy Eyes, not only from sleep disturbances, but also can accompany low progesterone.

51. Facial Pallor alternating with Facial Flushes is often intermittent with hot flashes.

52. Flare up of Arthritis worsens with low progesterone levels and increase sugar intake.

53. Loss of Bone Density, Osteoporosis, is not only an elderly woman?s disease, though it seems to develop over an extended period and is triggered by the decline of hormone production.

54. Dry Hair, Change in Skin Tone, Integrity, and Texture, becomes more wrinkled, and may begin the thinning process.

55. Changes in your Fingernails characterized by easy breakage, bending, cracking and getting softer.

56. Itchy, Crawly Skin with a strange sensation like insects crawling around under the skin ? quite different than the dry skin feeling.

57. Muscle tone seems to slack and sag, and loose its previous response to normal exercise.

58. Pelvic Pain can be random and independent of cycles and may feel continuous for some women.

59. Dry, Itchy Eyes felt in the deep posterior aspect of the eye socket, as well as superficially.

60. Teeth Aching or the experience of a strange sensation in one?s teeth or gums, often accompanied by an increase in bleeding gums.

61. Change in the normal Tongue sensation, which can be accompanied by a feeling of burning in your tongue and roof of mouth, malodorous breath or change in breath odor, and/or a bad taste in your mouth.

62. Memory Loss or Lapses in time, makes one feel disoriented and less focused, especially when you go into another room to get something specific and seconds later cannot remember what you went to retrieve.

63. Feeling Faint for no known reason (this does not include standing up too quickly)

64. Tingling in Extremities not only feels weird and like your hands or feet are falling asleep, but if persistent can be a symptom of diabetes, B12, potassium or calcium deficiency, or a compromise in blood vessel flexibility.

65. Sensation of Electrical Stimulation,or Shock occurring in the tissue under the skin, and may signal you that a hot flash will begin.

66. Increase and worsening of Allergies occurs as hormones become imbalanced, so can our immune system.

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  • Posted

    I know this was posted four years ago, but I swear that this list is going to keep me sane. TY!
    • Posted

      Hello,

      That list has given all of us hope that we truly aren't crazy.  Peri/menipause really is a thing and by all of us talking and expressing our thoughts and sharing our symptoms helps all of us.

      Welcome and enjoy!!

    • Posted

      I couldn’t agree with you more. :-) No one needs to go through this alone. ❤️
    • Posted

      Just reading this is helping my anxiety. I started getter anxiety and panic attacks just over a year ago. I kept looking for triggers, but the anxiety really comes out of the blue. I’ve started getting my period every 2 weeks and it makes me so tired. I start a new job tomorrow and I’m afraid how all these symptoms will interfere. Sigh. 
    • Posted

      Hi Kimberly.  Your iron may be low if periods every 2 weeks, you could supplement with a multi Vit with iron. I take feroglobin for fatigue.

      I also use rescue remedy chewing gum and pastilles for anxiety, they seem to help, even if just to take my mind off it and feel like I’m doing something to help. I suck or chew if I feel the tummy butterflies, queasiness and slight breathlessness panicky feeling coming on. It helps knowing you have something to turn to. Passionflower also helps.

      Good luck with your new job!

    • Posted

      Thank you Maisie. This is the 2nd time I heard of rescue remedy. I will give it a try. I have a hard time tolerating iron in my stomach, but I found Ferrofood is working for now. 

      I appreciate everyone sharing what works for them so we have new knowledge to try. 

    • Posted

      Hi Kimberly, 

      I am with you on those anxiety attacks! I got my first one almost a year ago,  and they are horrible!  I thought I was having a stroke or something.  My husband took me to the ER, and to my surprise all the tests were normal.   They told me it was an anxiety attack.  Now I get them over and over again.   My period is also coming every 2 weeks 😕 

      I hope things work out well for you in your new job.   This perimenopause stuff is awful,  but hopefully we'll find a way to cope with the craziness. 

  • Posted

    Hi all, thank god for coming across this forum. Well just 4 days ago I turned 40 , today I have my period (which would make it a 19 day cycle! ) , have always been 28 - 34 day cycle, so I started panicking! But after reading about all of the other symptoms listed on this post, the majority of which I have, I can now stop freaking out. ( a bit). But it would of been nice of mother nature to start all this c*ap a few more years from now, but no.... It's like as soon as my 40th birthday arrived the universe sent me the most unwanted gift of the perimenopausal curse.....sigh.....😞 Oh well at least my sense of humor can not be taken away from me !

    • Posted

      I hear you!! First of all...happy birthday...and second of all...I totally agree!  I will be 42 in May, but when I hit 40 it’s like my body went wacko!  Not only am I experiencing most of the stuff on the list, but I am paranoid about having some underlying disease.  I’ve been to the ER and to many doctor’s appointments.  Even though the scans and blood work all say I’m fine, I still have trouble believing it sometimes 😩. I miss feeling healthy and normal!  

    • Posted

      I’m exactly the same way..turned 40..was feeling pretty good, almost got cocky, like hmmm 40 isn’t so bad at all..then boom..sooooo many of those awful symptoms hit and I was so scared..(Now age 46)the thought of leaving my kids without a mom made me sick..turns out, sorry to say for all you lovely ladies, that I am not alone..apparently this is normal and we just have to keep sucking it up until we find something that works..I have to say just knowing I’m not alone and it is REAL..the symptoms aren’t all in my head..I was accused of “having everything I google” but this is real! As of now (symptoms rotate every month or 2, a real joy) I’m suffering back pain, insomnia, heart palpitations, fatigue and severely increased appetite..just generally feeling blah and Old..I just try to relax, read, watch a good movie with my youngest son, and do what I can. Take care and know you’re not alone! Hugs! 
    • Posted

      You sound like me! I just turned 47 and my symptoms seem to rotate every couple of months, too. It all started when I turned 40. Ugh. I am so sick and tired of this! Hang in there. We can get through this! 
    • Posted

      So glad I found you all..it’s awful, feeling so alone in this..I mean , Who my going to talk to to...my kids, husband don’t want to hear it..my mom is not open to this type of discussion..my sister is way younger than I am so won’t relate..just ugh..i think I’ll just read through this forum and have a cupcake!! My super coping skills when I am feeling old and miserable 😒

    • Posted

      Amy, I hear you. I don’t know who to talk to either, so I’m so glad we found this forum. Keep reading and keep writing. I’m getting good ideas and I hope you do too. 
    • Posted

      Hi Amy, 

      Yes... feeling SO old!   Like you, I coasted into my 40's thinking it was no biggie,  then this thing hit and I feel like I don't recognize myself anymore!  And I've also had the comments from doctors... and some family.... that I am imagining things or that I have every disease google lays out.... It is SO nice to not feel alone in this anymore.   This forum has quenched many worries. 

    • Posted

      Stanaabernie...God has been my refuge through all of this,  too.  I am praying that it starts getting better soon... for all of us!  I would love to know what kind of herbal remedies you have found that have helped you. 
    • Posted

      Where are you located?

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