66 Peri menopause / Menopause Symptoms you may experience which may help some ladies

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SIXTY-SIX PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS: Part one 1 - 49

These are very real physical changes and conditions. Some symptoms alarm a woman that she may be suffering from a serious disease. Perhaps you know the more common ones related to menopausal symptoms in this list. But many of these may surprise you, as they have not been typically associated with this normal physiological transformation. 

1. Change in Menstrual Cycle, Cycles may get closer together or farther apart, lighter and shorter in duration or much heavier, lasting longer than one has been accustomed to. Menses may seem to take forever to begin with dark spotting for days until you actually flow, or you might feel like you have your menses every two weeks.

2. Menstrual Flooding can come on with sudden onset and feel like you may hemorrhage to death. Or it can be a gradual build up just when you think your menses will end and you start gushing for days. Flooding commonly accompanies the woman with uterine fibroids as she transits into menopause.

3. Headaches, Migraines, especially before, during or at the end of your menses debilitate and radically interferes with normal functioning.

4. Decreased Motor Coordination, Clumsiness, almost begins to make the woman who experiences this feel like she is certainly less than graceful during perhaps an already awkward period in her life. 

5. Lethargy, a persistent feeling sluggishness physically and mentally, that seems to negate ones ability to do much. 

6. Physical Exhaustion , and Crushing Crashing Fatigue that can come on so suddenly and grip you into feeling like you will collapse unless you stop this instant.

7. Exacerbation of any Chronic Illness or Existing Condition transpires as hormones decline or deviate from their normal balance.

8. Insomnia, this includes a new or unusual pattern of either difficulty falling asleep, or dropping off to sleep for a few hours and then awakening with the inability to return to sleep.

9. Sleep Disturbances sometimes are from nightmares, night sweats, or just a vague sense of restlessness keeping you up or disrupting your precious revitalizing retreat from this realm of responsibilities.

10. Night Sweats often begin between a woman?s breasts, initially a night or two before her menses, waking her from sleep, later more profoundly disturbing with up to total body saturation, followed by damp or sweat drenched chills.

11. Interference With Dream Recall interrupts the sense of normal sleep, if you are someone accustomed to vivid or at least some detailed memory of your dreamtime. 

12. Muscle Cramps can occur anywhere in the body from legs to back to neck, and sometimes reflects the need for more calcium, or simply that your progesterone levels are too low. 

13. Low Backache often worsens before or during menses, but if your hormones remain at low levels, you can experience it on a regular basis.

14. Gall Bladder Symptoms of pain, spasms and discomfort felt in the right upper abdominal quadrant under the ribs, which may be accompanied by belching, bloating, and intolerance to certain foods reflect the increased liver load with declining hormones. 

15. Frequent Urination, or sensations that mimic urinary infections is a disturbing symptom often unrelieved by actual urination. It is often experienced as the sensation of needing to urinate all the time, even immediately afterwards.

16. Urinary Incontinence, the uncontrollable and spontaneous loss of urine, or the Urge for Incontinence, can occur suddenly or feel continuous, and not only in response to coughing, sneezing, jumping or running. 

17. Hypoglycemic Reactions happen when suddenly your blood sugar crashes and you must have food now.

18. Food Cravings, often for sweets or salty foods, but can include sour or pungent foods. 

19. Increased Appetite, especially at night and after dinner contributes to that unusual and unwanted weight gain.

20. Dark Circles Under Eyes can also be caused by adrenal exhaustion and thyroid dysfunctions, but no amount of sleep seems to eliminate it. 

21. Joint and Muscle Pain, Achy, Sore Joints, Muscles and Tendons, which sometimes develop into actual carpal tunnel syndrome, or give rise to the questioning of other disease possibilities.

22. Increased Tension in Muscles demonstrates itself in those hunched up shoulders as you work or talk about anything uncomfortable, along with promoting lower back pain and a stiff neck.

23. Increased Hair Loss or Thinning anywhere on body, including your head, armpits, pubic area.

24. Increase in Facial Hair especially under your chin, or along your jaw line. It may be defined by generalized hair growth, or a specific and coarse single strand of hair that pokes out, even curls. 

25. Unusually Hair Growth, around Nipples, between Breasts, down your back, places where your hair was finer, less coarse.

26. Acne, quite disturbing to any woman who dealt with this in adolescence and never thought it would recur. 

27. Infertility causes grief in the woman who postponed pregnancy in her earlier years and now wishes to conceive, carry to term a healthy baby, and discovers she is unable to do so. 

28. Loss of Breast Tissue begins with the decrease of progesterone production. Women often feel as though their breast have become empty sacs devoid of their normal fullness, with or without sagging.

29. Breast Soreness/Tenderness/Pain/ Engorgement and swelling, occurs particularly a few days to one week before bleeding actually begins, which usually potentiates complete relief of any pain or swelling.

30. Painful, or tender nipples have been described as this exquisite localized pain only in the nipples and suggests estrogen excess. 

31. Cold Extremities feels quite strange especially in the presence of a hot flash, the combination of which is not impossible.

32. Being Accident Prone, bumping into things, not even realizing it until the bruise reveals itself later and then lacking the ability to recall the causative incident feels perplexing and a little scary at the prospect of something more damaging. 

33. Hot flashes initially may be described as mild to severe flushes of heat waves, and for some women these evolve into intense outbreaks of sudden heat with sweating and turning bright red all over. 

34. Loss of Sexual Energy, our Libido, can be marked by a gradual or sudden disinterest in sex, to the development of an actual aversion. 

35. Painful Sex often described as if one?s vagina would tear open at the point of penetration along with feelings of abrasion during intercourse.

36. Vaginal Dryness, Irritation, sometimes accompanied by a consistent unusual discharge - typically odor free, negates a woman?s ability to be sexually active, or able to enjoy or be comfortable in her body.

37. Dizziness, feeling lightheaded and the loss of physical balance, and even a bit wobbling at times, requires pause in movement to prevent falling over or deepening into vertigo or feeling faint.

38. Ringing in the Ears, Tinnitus, can be experienced as a pulsing sensation, a whooshing sound, an almost musical or buzzing sound with a fuzzy sensation.

39. Abdominal Bloating comes on suddenly often after eating, or seems to be all the time, and can be visibly evident making you feel that you look like you are pregnant. 

40. Weight Gain disturbs most women, particularly when it seems to happen over a couple of days, settles in the waist, buttocks and thighs, promoting a visceral thickening from the waist down, the classic middle-aged figure.

41. Fluid Retention, Edema, commonly with swelling in the legs and ankles, though not limited to this area and it is unrelieved by urination.

42. Palpitations or Heart Racing usually comes on suddenly, without warning or provocation, and dissipates spontaneously. The experience can be so wild and intense that a woman may become alarmed and wonder if she is having a heart attack. 

43. Irregularities in your Heart Rate may feel more like your heart has just done a flip-flop or skipped a beat.

44. Constipation/Diarrhea, intermittent or alternating, results from declining hormone levels, which increase the demands on liver function and alters intestinal motility.

45. Tendency towards Candidiasis can increase, even if you have no prior known history ? and if you do, it may worsen.

46. Gastrointestinal Distress, Increased Flatulence, Unrelieved Gas pains, Indigestion, Nausea all can reflect intestinal changes due to hormonal imbalances.

47. Slow Digestion often goes along with the bloat ? what previously took four to five hours to digest, now seems to take all night. It seems worse in the evenings.

48. Lack of Appetite may be experienced as more of a lack of interest in food, going to the frig and standing there with the door open and staring blankly. Feeling completely uninspired, you busy yourself with something else and forget that you need to eat.

49. Changes in Body Odor especially disturbing when it seems to focus in the groin area, but can be anywhere on the body.

50. Puffy Eyes, not only from sleep disturbances, but also can accompany low progesterone.

51. Facial Pallor alternating with Facial Flushes is often intermittent with hot flashes.

52. Flare up of Arthritis worsens with low progesterone levels and increase sugar intake.

53. Loss of Bone Density, Osteoporosis, is not only an elderly woman?s disease, though it seems to develop over an extended period and is triggered by the decline of hormone production.

54. Dry Hair, Change in Skin Tone, Integrity, and Texture, becomes more wrinkled, and may begin the thinning process.

55. Changes in your Fingernails characterized by easy breakage, bending, cracking and getting softer.

56. Itchy, Crawly Skin with a strange sensation like insects crawling around under the skin ? quite different than the dry skin feeling.

57. Muscle tone seems to slack and sag, and loose its previous response to normal exercise.

58. Pelvic Pain can be random and independent of cycles and may feel continuous for some women.

59. Dry, Itchy Eyes felt in the deep posterior aspect of the eye socket, as well as superficially.

60. Teeth Aching or the experience of a strange sensation in one?s teeth or gums, often accompanied by an increase in bleeding gums.

61. Change in the normal Tongue sensation, which can be accompanied by a feeling of burning in your tongue and roof of mouth, malodorous breath or change in breath odor, and/or a bad taste in your mouth.

62. Memory Loss or Lapses in time, makes one feel disoriented and less focused, especially when you go into another room to get something specific and seconds later cannot remember what you went to retrieve.

63. Feeling Faint for no known reason (this does not include standing up too quickly)

64. Tingling in Extremities not only feels weird and like your hands or feet are falling asleep, but if persistent can be a symptom of diabetes, B12, potassium or calcium deficiency, or a compromise in blood vessel flexibility.

65. Sensation of Electrical Stimulation,or Shock occurring in the tissue under the skin, and may signal you that a hot flash will begin.

66. Increase and worsening of Allergies occurs as hormones become imbalanced, so can our immune system.

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  • Posted

    OMG I can’t cope no way I thought I could do this I can’t don’t want to 
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      Yes you can just talk about and read these beautiful ladies telling their stories . I feel you last night i was at the ER thinking I have C in the ovaries and I came home with the same pain I went in.  I want to give up and I read this post and I feel better even when they don’t respond to my experiences . I fell better ❤️ (((Hugs)))
    • Posted

      Karen,

      I empathize. I have said that very thing more times than I can count! It is a struggle for sure, but we will survive together.  I have considered developing a menopause punching and kicking bag with a list of the 66 symptoms and maybe a few others to be able to let out emotions on this horrible affliction. Like a giant stress ball. I sure could use it.

      Hang in there with us. X

      X

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      Eliamee,

       I had ovarian pain last month! That and the weird uterine cramp. I was worried that it was the C too. I left the ER with the same pain. I did get an ultrasound while I was there and other than the fibroid all was ok. Then had another ultrasound at my GYN to see my right ovary. It was shrinking (like it is supposed to), and my GYN want to monitor my fibroids so I have another ultrasound end of April. I refuse to worry about that. I don't have the ovarian pain yet and my cramp is (knock on wood) gone. I had a pain in my upper stomach chest area that made it hard to inhale. It, like all weird symptoms was a little alarming. I was in the car, took an ibuprofen it subsided. 

      Still have the vaginal irritation and moments of itching. But this the time where I would normally be getting my period, last month I had phantom period symptoms so I am expecting my hormones to really start treating me like a jungle gym this week or so. 

      We adopted a 6 month old Norwegian Forest kitten mix from a rescue shelter and she is keeping us on our toes and is helping my 10 year old dog out of her grief of missing her sister. Hard to worry too much about a lot of my symptoms with a little furry tornado running around. smile

       

    • Posted

      Omg I feel the same way the nauseas Good God is horrible !!!! I’m on my way to the X-rays to get an ultrasound and find out what is going on
    • Posted

      Eliamee1970 please let us know how you get on because ive been having nausea for the past few weeks. It has been so difficult to eat. I want to do a scan but i do know i have gerd , gastritis and a hialtial hernia so im trying to see if it subsides. Hope you get good results that its only hormones. Hormones can cause all sorts of things.
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      Mary27278 i just finished the ultrasound and the results will be on Monday . I also have GERD and small hiatal hernia so I was wondering about that I haven’t eat a full meal in 8 days . And I can’t have Ibuprofen all the time . I take Nexium everyday.  So I will keep you post it as soon as I find out !  (((Hugs)))
    • Posted

      Hi Eliaimee1970 How did you get on with your ultrasound? I hope everything turned out ok for you.

    • Posted

      Hi karen, 

      I feel horrible aches pains, brain fog, dizzy, teeth pain ,lathargic been to dr had all kinds of blood work mri ct scan ect,I'm 51 years old still get my period some times  I think is it perimenapause or what but with all these crazy symptoms and my age 

      I also have hashimoto have stomach issues that was fine and boom started up again try to eat healthy but my stomach is acting up again I read that perimenapause can cause stomach issues as well .

      Stay strong I prey every day it helps me ,if you need to talk I'm here. 

      Jackie

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    Hi everyone

    I am 39 but started noticing changes last year that my mum says was perimenopause but I dismissed it as surely I'm too young?

    So researched and found all my symptoms match.

    Last year I started basically heamoraging it felt like each month... Lost massive clots the size of my palm and my ferritin level is now 6 as a result!... Had scans etc they said it was hormonal and just what some woman suffer...!

    Then the sweating started! And I never sweat as I've been anaemic for over 20 years so the norm for me is to be freezing!... At first it was random then if the room was hot etc, I dismissed it. Then a black hair grew under my chin and my leg hair disappeared on the inside of my legs?

    So fast forward to now.... I have about 50 of the symptoms in this list!

    I've been diagnosed with low vitamin D and calcium so taking supplements now. I am so stiff, can't think straight or say the right word I hate it.

    I have felt so odd and my migraines are back after 6 years!... My last period lasted 4 days and was so light, I normally come on about now and feel all crampy etc but so far nothing?

    Can this really be what I'm going through at 39?

    Any advice appreciated 😊

    • Posted

      Yes,lottie,

      Do you get fatigue, dizzy, nacious, aches and pains just plain tired all the time. 

    • Posted

      Hi Jacqueline yes. I just turn 52  two weeks ago.

      ?I have pain in my neck back, ears with buzzy, ringing sensation that sometime gives me a headache in the front part of my head and eye area.

      I'm writing an my head is just swaying and i feel dizzy.

      Unbelievable these experiences.

      Hold on tight my there.

      Sharon

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    Hi Everyone:

     I'm back with more  issued.

    37. Dizziness, feeling lightheaded and the loss of physical balance, and even a bit wobbling at times, requires pause in movement to prevent falling over or deepening into vertigo or feeling faint.

    38. Ringing in the Ears, Tinnitus, can be experienced as a pulsing sensation, a whooshing sound, an almost musical or buzzing sound with a fuzzy sensation.

    ?Last week Friday in the wee hours of the morning  what woke me up was that my head swung so hard it made me scream out and then it  was followed by nausea feeling in my stomach later on yes i started throwing up. Since then i am scared to drive and my head feels heavy and sways constantly. When i walk i feel like i am drunk. I am tired of the way my hears feel too the buzzing, ringing sensation.

    I will go see the doctor on Monday but ladies i feel helpless.

    Any suggestions?

    ?Thanks

    ?Sharon

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      Dear Sharon, you must try not to worry hun its just bad vertigo I have it all the time. When you go to your dr there are meds that can be prescribed and that do help. Just tell the dr whats going on and they can give you something. If you are UK pm me and I'll give you the name of the drug. Take care hun. XXX

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      Sharon, I had a dizziness so severe I could barely function, and it made me so nauseous I was miserable. I couldn't lay down, I couldn't move without the overwhelming dizziness and sick to my stomach. I had my husband drive me to my doctors appt because I was afraid to drive. She diagnosed me with BPPV. Benign paroxysmal positional vertigo. It is fairly common and usually resolves itself in days or weeks.  It has to do with the particles in the ear moving? It lasted about three weeks or so for me and I was absolutely miserable. She gave me stuff for nausea and dizziness. It helped a bit. She said for some, they need to go to a specialist who will do head movements to try and get things back to rights. If I am remembering right. I know didn't need or want that. I luckily haven't had it since, but I am suspicious it wasn't brought on by the wicked peri menopause. Your symptoms sound EXACTLY like mine. I completely empathize. The tinnitus never has gone away for me. I bought a sound machine which I love and couldn't sleep without. My tinnitus is bad tonight and I can hear it over the machine but my husbands paranoia over our pets health has cause me excess stress and I had to warn him (again) he is treading in dangerous waters with a menopausal wife. I have a very low threshold for stress and anxiety. He hears it but he has no clue, if I could give him my symptoms for a month I would. So I have that weird anxiety adrenaline feeling it's like I just had a double shot of expresso. I feel my pulse is spiked and my ears are ringing louder. So I will have to kick my sound machine on high tonight and take some chamomile pills and hope that I can sleep more than 5 hours tonight.

      Hang in there,

      Kelly

       

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      Dear Tina, Thank you . I did google it and i must say it came back vertigo indeed. What the article stated is that the meds work only for a short while and encouraged a special exercise for vertigo. Tina you are so kind wish i was in the UK indeed for the help. I'm in Belize. I am thinking i must be depress also as it's been one year since a decided to resign from my job. I don't believe i was ready for retirement. It's hard at this moment here in Belize it's 2:35am and i have been up now for a little over two hours can't sleep. I feel like a crazy lady something. I keep reminding myself that this too shall pass.Take care Tina XXX.

    • Posted

      Hi Keljo. I am up for about two hours now can't sleep it's 2:42 am. Yes, it sounds as though we are experiencing the exact situation. I must add you describe the  anxiety thing so well. I actually feels as though my family don't like me at times because of what i am putting them through. They seems to be on edge around me especially my husband.The way i feel i don't belong around people and should  just try and balance myself. I do try to exercise at least 30-40 when i get the energy. I feel for you too Keljo. Maybe your husband can sit in with your doctor to understand what you are going through. I do believe my husband understands a bit!!!

      ?I have a doctor appointment so i am hoping all will be well with me. I do take garlic chopped up very tiny with some cinnamon and honey it seems to help.I honestly feels depress because i can't even drive myself right now so i am stuck home which some what makes me feel very low.

      ?I hope you get some sleep to feel renewed when you get up. Take it easy and do you first it's not selfish . Take car hun. XXX

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      Dear sharon, there is a drug that does last but you will need to pm me as I cannot name it publicly. It is a treatment for Menieres disease so it is long lasting. Also if depression is overwhelming you try a short term anti-depressant to give you a boost. Try not to go on any SSRIs as they are highly addictive and have some nasty side effects aswell and the side effects dont go away when you stop the pills. Try prozac for 3 months or so to pep you up or look at what natural things you can take for depression. Get a high strength meno vitamin and B complex, Vit D and folic acid. If you get tender breasts try high strength evening primrose oil and magnesium and valerian for sleep. Crush up a couple of tablets and mix them into a milky hot nightime drink it really does help even my dr has taken my recipe! Keep your chin up hun it will end one day but we can all help eachother in the meantime. XXX
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      Yes!  I’ll get a feeling of pressure in my face and head and heat in my face and my pulse raises!  I try to make myself just sit with it and breathe.    It feels like the more you resist the more it will persist .   Because then it just triggers anxiety to go full on!
    • Posted

      ?hats what happens to me, my face neck and chest feels Hit like on fire and I get the fast heart beat..it's scary.

    • Posted

      Hi Jackie

      Thank you so much for thinking of me😊

      This morning I felt good went for my walk, run my errands.. but by afternoon I start feeling the anxiety coming on. My daughter got upset with me because she said I'm stressed and I'm stressing everybody else..so I just cried...since then I've been laying down reading my book😭

      How are you feeling ?

      Xxxxx

    • Posted

      Little bit better went to publixs this morning I was fatigue and dizzy been having  teeth pain, im going on wedsday to see a holistic dr I really need some help I feel that my life is not the same anymore I use to wear make up every day and now it's a struggle to put make up on I get aches on my arms and legs it feels more like my muscles and all of a sudden I got a head ache. 

    • Posted

      Hi Ladies went to see my GP and did some major blood works checking my Lipid panel, Hormones, Blood Count, Urine Analysis, Thyroids.

      ?Blood count was 11.8, but my hormones was out of whack it was 170 when the range max was 113. So my GP said he does not support HRT so he put on Lydia Pinkham tablets and Meclizine ( one week) for the vertigo.

      Crossing my fingers things will balance eout itself very soon. 

      ?The pain in my neck back makes me feel like cry not because of the pain but somehow gives me the cry baby feeling. Like i can't handle doing anything. Lord help me.

      I give this 30 days and hope the Lydia Pinkham KICKs in.

      ?Crossing my fingers

      Sharon

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