66 Peri menopause / Menopause Symptoms you may experience which may help some ladies

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SIXTY-SIX PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS: Part one 1 - 49

These are very real physical changes and conditions. Some symptoms alarm a woman that she may be suffering from a serious disease. Perhaps you know the more common ones related to menopausal symptoms in this list. But many of these may surprise you, as they have not been typically associated with this normal physiological transformation. 

1. Change in Menstrual Cycle, Cycles may get closer together or farther apart, lighter and shorter in duration or much heavier, lasting longer than one has been accustomed to. Menses may seem to take forever to begin with dark spotting for days until you actually flow, or you might feel like you have your menses every two weeks.

2. Menstrual Flooding can come on with sudden onset and feel like you may hemorrhage to death. Or it can be a gradual build up just when you think your menses will end and you start gushing for days. Flooding commonly accompanies the woman with uterine fibroids as she transits into menopause.

3. Headaches, Migraines, especially before, during or at the end of your menses debilitate and radically interferes with normal functioning.

4. Decreased Motor Coordination, Clumsiness, almost begins to make the woman who experiences this feel like she is certainly less than graceful during perhaps an already awkward period in her life. 

5. Lethargy, a persistent feeling sluggishness physically and mentally, that seems to negate ones ability to do much. 

6. Physical Exhaustion , and Crushing Crashing Fatigue that can come on so suddenly and grip you into feeling like you will collapse unless you stop this instant.

7. Exacerbation of any Chronic Illness or Existing Condition transpires as hormones decline or deviate from their normal balance.

8. Insomnia, this includes a new or unusual pattern of either difficulty falling asleep, or dropping off to sleep for a few hours and then awakening with the inability to return to sleep.

9. Sleep Disturbances sometimes are from nightmares, night sweats, or just a vague sense of restlessness keeping you up or disrupting your precious revitalizing retreat from this realm of responsibilities.

10. Night Sweats often begin between a woman?s breasts, initially a night or two before her menses, waking her from sleep, later more profoundly disturbing with up to total body saturation, followed by damp or sweat drenched chills.

11. Interference With Dream Recall interrupts the sense of normal sleep, if you are someone accustomed to vivid or at least some detailed memory of your dreamtime. 

12. Muscle Cramps can occur anywhere in the body from legs to back to neck, and sometimes reflects the need for more calcium, or simply that your progesterone levels are too low. 

13. Low Backache often worsens before or during menses, but if your hormones remain at low levels, you can experience it on a regular basis.

14. Gall Bladder Symptoms of pain, spasms and discomfort felt in the right upper abdominal quadrant under the ribs, which may be accompanied by belching, bloating, and intolerance to certain foods reflect the increased liver load with declining hormones. 

15. Frequent Urination, or sensations that mimic urinary infections is a disturbing symptom often unrelieved by actual urination. It is often experienced as the sensation of needing to urinate all the time, even immediately afterwards.

16. Urinary Incontinence, the uncontrollable and spontaneous loss of urine, or the Urge for Incontinence, can occur suddenly or feel continuous, and not only in response to coughing, sneezing, jumping or running. 

17. Hypoglycemic Reactions happen when suddenly your blood sugar crashes and you must have food now.

18. Food Cravings, often for sweets or salty foods, but can include sour or pungent foods. 

19. Increased Appetite, especially at night and after dinner contributes to that unusual and unwanted weight gain.

20. Dark Circles Under Eyes can also be caused by adrenal exhaustion and thyroid dysfunctions, but no amount of sleep seems to eliminate it. 

21. Joint and Muscle Pain, Achy, Sore Joints, Muscles and Tendons, which sometimes develop into actual carpal tunnel syndrome, or give rise to the questioning of other disease possibilities.

22. Increased Tension in Muscles demonstrates itself in those hunched up shoulders as you work or talk about anything uncomfortable, along with promoting lower back pain and a stiff neck.

23. Increased Hair Loss or Thinning anywhere on body, including your head, armpits, pubic area.

24. Increase in Facial Hair especially under your chin, or along your jaw line. It may be defined by generalized hair growth, or a specific and coarse single strand of hair that pokes out, even curls. 

25. Unusually Hair Growth, around Nipples, between Breasts, down your back, places where your hair was finer, less coarse.

26. Acne, quite disturbing to any woman who dealt with this in adolescence and never thought it would recur. 

27. Infertility causes grief in the woman who postponed pregnancy in her earlier years and now wishes to conceive, carry to term a healthy baby, and discovers she is unable to do so. 

28. Loss of Breast Tissue begins with the decrease of progesterone production. Women often feel as though their breast have become empty sacs devoid of their normal fullness, with or without sagging.

29. Breast Soreness/Tenderness/Pain/ Engorgement and swelling, occurs particularly a few days to one week before bleeding actually begins, which usually potentiates complete relief of any pain or swelling.

30. Painful, or tender nipples have been described as this exquisite localized pain only in the nipples and suggests estrogen excess. 

31. Cold Extremities feels quite strange especially in the presence of a hot flash, the combination of which is not impossible.

32. Being Accident Prone, bumping into things, not even realizing it until the bruise reveals itself later and then lacking the ability to recall the causative incident feels perplexing and a little scary at the prospect of something more damaging. 

33. Hot flashes initially may be described as mild to severe flushes of heat waves, and for some women these evolve into intense outbreaks of sudden heat with sweating and turning bright red all over. 

34. Loss of Sexual Energy, our Libido, can be marked by a gradual or sudden disinterest in sex, to the development of an actual aversion. 

35. Painful Sex often described as if one?s vagina would tear open at the point of penetration along with feelings of abrasion during intercourse.

36. Vaginal Dryness, Irritation, sometimes accompanied by a consistent unusual discharge - typically odor free, negates a woman?s ability to be sexually active, or able to enjoy or be comfortable in her body.

37. Dizziness, feeling lightheaded and the loss of physical balance, and even a bit wobbling at times, requires pause in movement to prevent falling over or deepening into vertigo or feeling faint.

38. Ringing in the Ears, Tinnitus, can be experienced as a pulsing sensation, a whooshing sound, an almost musical or buzzing sound with a fuzzy sensation.

39. Abdominal Bloating comes on suddenly often after eating, or seems to be all the time, and can be visibly evident making you feel that you look like you are pregnant. 

40. Weight Gain disturbs most women, particularly when it seems to happen over a couple of days, settles in the waist, buttocks and thighs, promoting a visceral thickening from the waist down, the classic middle-aged figure.

41. Fluid Retention, Edema, commonly with swelling in the legs and ankles, though not limited to this area and it is unrelieved by urination.

42. Palpitations or Heart Racing usually comes on suddenly, without warning or provocation, and dissipates spontaneously. The experience can be so wild and intense that a woman may become alarmed and wonder if she is having a heart attack. 

43. Irregularities in your Heart Rate may feel more like your heart has just done a flip-flop or skipped a beat.

44. Constipation/Diarrhea, intermittent or alternating, results from declining hormone levels, which increase the demands on liver function and alters intestinal motility.

45. Tendency towards Candidiasis can increase, even if you have no prior known history ? and if you do, it may worsen.

46. Gastrointestinal Distress, Increased Flatulence, Unrelieved Gas pains, Indigestion, Nausea all can reflect intestinal changes due to hormonal imbalances.

47. Slow Digestion often goes along with the bloat ? what previously took four to five hours to digest, now seems to take all night. It seems worse in the evenings.

48. Lack of Appetite may be experienced as more of a lack of interest in food, going to the frig and standing there with the door open and staring blankly. Feeling completely uninspired, you busy yourself with something else and forget that you need to eat.

49. Changes in Body Odor especially disturbing when it seems to focus in the groin area, but can be anywhere on the body.

50. Puffy Eyes, not only from sleep disturbances, but also can accompany low progesterone.

51. Facial Pallor alternating with Facial Flushes is often intermittent with hot flashes.

52. Flare up of Arthritis worsens with low progesterone levels and increase sugar intake.

53. Loss of Bone Density, Osteoporosis, is not only an elderly woman?s disease, though it seems to develop over an extended period and is triggered by the decline of hormone production.

54. Dry Hair, Change in Skin Tone, Integrity, and Texture, becomes more wrinkled, and may begin the thinning process.

55. Changes in your Fingernails characterized by easy breakage, bending, cracking and getting softer.

56. Itchy, Crawly Skin with a strange sensation like insects crawling around under the skin ? quite different than the dry skin feeling.

57. Muscle tone seems to slack and sag, and loose its previous response to normal exercise.

58. Pelvic Pain can be random and independent of cycles and may feel continuous for some women.

59. Dry, Itchy Eyes felt in the deep posterior aspect of the eye socket, as well as superficially.

60. Teeth Aching or the experience of a strange sensation in one?s teeth or gums, often accompanied by an increase in bleeding gums.

61. Change in the normal Tongue sensation, which can be accompanied by a feeling of burning in your tongue and roof of mouth, malodorous breath or change in breath odor, and/or a bad taste in your mouth.

62. Memory Loss or Lapses in time, makes one feel disoriented and less focused, especially when you go into another room to get something specific and seconds later cannot remember what you went to retrieve.

63. Feeling Faint for no known reason (this does not include standing up too quickly)

64. Tingling in Extremities not only feels weird and like your hands or feet are falling asleep, but if persistent can be a symptom of diabetes, B12, potassium or calcium deficiency, or a compromise in blood vessel flexibility.

65. Sensation of Electrical Stimulation,or Shock occurring in the tissue under the skin, and may signal you that a hot flash will begin.

66. Increase and worsening of Allergies occurs as hormones become imbalanced, so can our immune system.

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  • Posted

    Just found this list. I have been having increasingly off periods for a few years now. But the past 6 months have been hell with increasingly irregular cycles and zero sex drive and pain and skin changes and I smell different....so much weird. I feel so off. My OBGYN has been confused, everything looks fine. But now I think I am finally realizing there is likely nothing majorly wrong with me. I am 32 years old and I think I might have perimenopause. I have so many of these symptoms. It is wreaking havoc on my life. My marriage too, poor husband. Going to go back to my OBGYN and request a full blood workup on my hormone levels. I have a sister who hit full blown menopause a few years ago at only 42. Which means she had to have been having perimenopause in her 30s. My mom is currently struggling with her own hormonal issues they wanna do a hysterectomy on her at 71yo because of it. So, it's not impossible for me to also have a problem. Yipppee. I thought I had time before this would happen. Much love to you ladies, this is awful.

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      I'll add I have PMDD and severe anxiety already, which comes with intense severe mood swings and a host of other things, and so if I had those I wouldn't notice ha. Though honestly my PMDD suddenly got easier to manage over the past year. When my periods got more irregular. If this is the start of early menopause I sure hope I am one of the lucky ones where menopause helps the PMDD go away.

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    Have any of you experienced worsening symptoms during your period? I am on day 2 (getting it twice a month now) and I’ve had tons of weirdness all day...pressure on top of my head, chest pains and pressure, numb/tingly arm and ankles, tightness in my jaw and tooth pain....and on and on.  One symptom will come and then fade and then another one shows up....over and over all day long 😩.  Keep trying to remind myself that up til now all test results have been normal.  It’s easy to forget when you’re in the middle of some crazy and scary symptom, though!

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      Yes...I def think my symptoms are worse during and just before my periods. It’s whenever my hormones dive I think. I’m forever getting one weird symptom after another too. At the moment, I’m waking up all the time with my fingers having gone to sleep (doc unconcerned, sending me for physio) and odd heavy congested feeling in the left side of my face. 
  • Posted

    Hello Ladies,

    ?I'm back again after ome months. My new challenge are number 3, 38, and 46. The headache is sooo bad i can't do anything. The first time i expereince this was on New Years day of this year. I did go to the doctor who said it sounded like migrate so he gave me some pills that work. Now since yesterday its back. I also had the reinging of the ears and virtigo to go with it along with vomitting. I got some meds for that too. So far thank God i don't have the virtigo.

    One challenge is acid reflux this time its so bad. I made an appointment to go see the doctor.

    Thanks for this website.

    Sharon

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    I am back and feeling rough. I have had new symptoms on this list lately. I am having sudden headaches more than I have ever had them in my life! And just recently, I have had allergies that have aggravated me. I have never had allergies before now and this year seems to be tough on me. I have been wobbly and off balance and nearly falling over a lot lately as well. UGH! Plus a while ago, the nauseous feeling hit me suddenly and sent me into a panic. I took an antacid and that seems to be helping it for now. My temperature goes from hot to cold and back to hot again constantly and I'm fuzzy headed. Right now, I am under two weeks from my last period and feel like I am PMSing again. Also I am very irritable right now, these past few days, I have had intense feelings of anger at the slightest things. I feel like I am losing my mind worse than ever! <cries!>

    • Posted

      Same here! I can totally relate! I have had -in the past - all the symptoms you mention, and they seem to go in waves. Just when I think one thing is over, it starts back up again! Hang in there. We will get through this. smile 
    • Posted

      Most of your symptoms are very similar to mine! Several months ago, I've had sudden headaches (which I never had before) with slight vision changes. Had done MRI and was normal. My doc suggested to go to a neurologist, but I didn't. The intense headaches went away... I also experience off balance occasionally, as if going to fall... Last month, my temperature got hot suddenly and constantly for a few weeks! I thought I was having fever, but didn't know why it lasted for weeks!?! By the time I went to the doc, she said it's normal, no fever. My period has been crazy too! My gynecologist did a few tests and are normal. I also feel irritable and frustrated especially with all these wild symptoms! Hope we'll get through these soon!

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      That is the funny part, these symptoms come on and last for a while and then stop to let other symptoms happen. I am closing in on 48 in September, and I started the hot flashes/night sweats in my 30s with the symptoms getting growiing and getting worse in 2011/12. Sudden dizzy spells, joint pains, horrible nausea spells, cold flashes, feelings of being in a tunnel far away from everyone, just about every symptom on the list above has hit me at one time or another. Ugh. I hope we all get past this.
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      Yes! They calm down and other symptoms take their place and then at times, all seems to be okay and then suddenly, you are in the middle of feeling like death warmed over 2x. And this all causes anxiety attacks which make it ten times worse. I have GERD on top of this and it feels like a heart attack, but antacids stop the feeling most of the time. Last year I ended up in ER for a night with chest pains and was on a EKG all night long while being stuck zillions of times trying to get my blood from non existant veins. In the ER they gave me nitro but that did not help. Then they gave me protonix and it worked like a charm. But they kept me anyway and I had a panic attack and my EKG went off the charts until they asked if I was panicking. I told them, YES! I am here in the hospital feeling sick, of course I am panicking! Haha! But everything was ok with the ticker. But these weird symptoms pop up and I have had just about all of these on this list. Lately my moods have been AWFUL! My poor husband just looks at me and says, Menopause/PMS. I really wish there was a way to speed this up and get past it. And I hope you start feeling better too.
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    Hi there!   Has anyone else experienced severe nipple pain.  Like intense burning or irritation.  The closest I’ve ever felt this was in high school when I was on the swim team.. now, randomly I get one side or the other and it’s just awful and so painful it’s a lil scary.
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      Yes, I have had that happen. At times my right one gets so sore that the barest touch makes me yelp. It kind of feels like it is being pinched hard. 
    • Posted

      Try Evening Primrose oil, it’s great for any breast issues & CUT OUT CAFFEINE if you use it, exasperates all issues, especially breast. If I have caffeine I feel it in my left breastfeeding immediately sad Also read my comments, as there are suggestions for great supplements/ideas you can use for most symptoms.  We really have to advocate for ourselves at this time😇

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      I stopped drinking coffee and purchased the EPR Caplets, however I went to my doctor today and he thinks I might have a cyst in my left breast, he said it felt heavy and I told him about the pain I was having coming from this breast, he booked me for an Ultra sound to confirm what's going on. Also found my left arm to be swollen, which I told him at my last appointment but he forgot 😣, I'm going to try the breathing exercise because my anxiety is out of control since this pain started, can't sleep because I'm so worried about what if?

      I'm taking Advil for now to help with the pain and inflammation, hope it's on a cyst😤

    • Posted

      Try cutting out all white food items from your diet, sugar, white bread, rice, all sugary white foods, they make those issues worse. If your able, go to the library and check out Dr Christianne Northrop’s books. Her book, Womens Bodies Womens Wisdom, has a section on breast cysts and how to help. The one positive thing is, when there is pain accompanying this, it’s usually not dangerous, just bothersome. I know that from my own experience w/ them. Are you ovulating or is your body trying to, if your periods have stopped, that’s when I would get mine.  If your spiritual, have you tried praying, it helps me greatly. Try listening to calming music and deep breathe. Remember, worrying only empties today of its gifts ♥️
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      We seem to have the same set of principals🤗 yes I do pray and have been known to be more spiritual in my family, I love to pray and finding that I need to do more meditating and yoga.

      I went on Amazon and ordered Dr, Cristianne book, I plan on reading this weekend.

      My period ended last Saturday but I found that I ovulated Monday and Thursday, maybe my last one coming up this month, odd it was a light period which was a relief from the heavy flows previous,.

      We shall see but I'm greatful for your advise ? our bodies are all unique we just have figure out what works right to keeping in good condition 🤗

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       I’m sorry, I forgot you did mention that about your period. I am also more spiritual than my siblings.  I have a daily devotional, called Jesus Calling, Enjoying Peace in His Presence by Sarah Young, I find it very helpful. Try to focus on that God knows what he’s doing and he had this planned in advance, for whatever reason, and that he will take care of it. That he is in control, so try to think of it that way, like worrying will truly do no good. I have a strong feeling this will end up positive for you.  I’m glad you ordered the book. 
    • Posted

      I refuse to stop my Coca cola even if I have to suffer for it. I have tried to stop caffeine but the headache is like someone ripping my skull apart. So, I guess I will suffer the symptoms.
    • Posted

      Thanks for the reassurance, I had another bout of anxiety over the weekend, also notice my left arm is swollen so I'm off to the doctor on Monday, I went Friday a d got booked for a ultra sound for my left breast, now my left arm is swollen, yikes falling apart at 49😣

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       You’re not falling apart, it only feels this way because of dreadful Peri/menopause.  I am 52 and I didn’t realize the past 10 years I’ve been going through perimenopause, I thought I had only been going through it the last few years cause the hot flashes were so bad. Had my doctors paid attention I would’ve known I was going through perimenopause .  I told one doctor at the age of 42 I felt like I was dying,  of course all he wanted to do was put me on Prozac,  no mention of testing my hormones. Again, nothing wrong with anti-depressants, but it was my hormones. Grrrr!  Everyone’s body is different, so the swelling with your arm just might be part of the crazy hormonal thing.  At this rate I feel like I could turn into a unicorn 🦄😂 because of these hormones and it wouldn’t surprise me...lol. I read in the Dr Christianne Northrup book that not only is melatonin and valerian root good for sleep but also 5HTP and Kava Kava. In case you’re so worried about this you’re having trouble sleeping.  What is the Bible verse about worrying, that we don’t gain a day by worrying etc...😉  Again, not trying to preach too much, but God has really helped me through this.  Honestly I am a completely different person at the age of 52 then I was even 10 years ago. At times it makes me profoundly sad because I was so much more sociable. We all have our seasons in life and I realize that change is necessary in order to go into our next phase of life.   When I was having a difficult time in high school, teen years, my mother would always quote  ‘this too shall pass.’ Try to think of your current health situation like that, it’s temporary.  And I know it will turn out positive 🙏 

    • Posted

      Hi Lisa, I get a daily scripture email and this morning it is Philippians 4:6 - “don’t worry about anything...”.   I almost couldn’t believe it because I am so worried right now with physical issues and medical appointments.  Trying to take it a day at a time.  Take care.  🌸

    • Posted

      hello! thank you for your answers. today i found a comment of yours saying about your left breast pain and mentioning the swollen arm also. are you better? my breast is bigger, arm swollen and fingers pain. i cannot stand the constant pain. did ultrasounds any advices? Happy New Year and be healthy!

    • Posted

      Thanks for your response..I am 44 and started being menopause at age 40..every year something new and pray to God to get me through this..love the saying your mom told you "this too shall pass"I am so glad I can come to this website and see other women going through what I am going through..it really helps out a lot..praying for my menopausal sisters❤

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