66 Peri menopause / Menopause Symptoms you may experience which may help some ladies

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SIXTY-SIX PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS: Part one 1 - 49

These are very real physical changes and conditions. Some symptoms alarm a woman that she may be suffering from a serious disease. Perhaps you know the more common ones related to menopausal symptoms in this list. But many of these may surprise you, as they have not been typically associated with this normal physiological transformation. 

1. Change in Menstrual Cycle, Cycles may get closer together or farther apart, lighter and shorter in duration or much heavier, lasting longer than one has been accustomed to. Menses may seem to take forever to begin with dark spotting for days until you actually flow, or you might feel like you have your menses every two weeks.

2. Menstrual Flooding can come on with sudden onset and feel like you may hemorrhage to death. Or it can be a gradual build up just when you think your menses will end and you start gushing for days. Flooding commonly accompanies the woman with uterine fibroids as she transits into menopause.

3. Headaches, Migraines, especially before, during or at the end of your menses debilitate and radically interferes with normal functioning.

4. Decreased Motor Coordination, Clumsiness, almost begins to make the woman who experiences this feel like she is certainly less than graceful during perhaps an already awkward period in her life. 

5. Lethargy, a persistent feeling sluggishness physically and mentally, that seems to negate ones ability to do much. 

6. Physical Exhaustion , and Crushing Crashing Fatigue that can come on so suddenly and grip you into feeling like you will collapse unless you stop this instant.

7. Exacerbation of any Chronic Illness or Existing Condition transpires as hormones decline or deviate from their normal balance.

8. Insomnia, this includes a new or unusual pattern of either difficulty falling asleep, or dropping off to sleep for a few hours and then awakening with the inability to return to sleep.

9. Sleep Disturbances sometimes are from nightmares, night sweats, or just a vague sense of restlessness keeping you up or disrupting your precious revitalizing retreat from this realm of responsibilities.

10. Night Sweats often begin between a woman?s breasts, initially a night or two before her menses, waking her from sleep, later more profoundly disturbing with up to total body saturation, followed by damp or sweat drenched chills.

11. Interference With Dream Recall interrupts the sense of normal sleep, if you are someone accustomed to vivid or at least some detailed memory of your dreamtime. 

12. Muscle Cramps can occur anywhere in the body from legs to back to neck, and sometimes reflects the need for more calcium, or simply that your progesterone levels are too low. 

13. Low Backache often worsens before or during menses, but if your hormones remain at low levels, you can experience it on a regular basis.

14. Gall Bladder Symptoms of pain, spasms and discomfort felt in the right upper abdominal quadrant under the ribs, which may be accompanied by belching, bloating, and intolerance to certain foods reflect the increased liver load with declining hormones. 

15. Frequent Urination, or sensations that mimic urinary infections is a disturbing symptom often unrelieved by actual urination. It is often experienced as the sensation of needing to urinate all the time, even immediately afterwards.

16. Urinary Incontinence, the uncontrollable and spontaneous loss of urine, or the Urge for Incontinence, can occur suddenly or feel continuous, and not only in response to coughing, sneezing, jumping or running. 

17. Hypoglycemic Reactions happen when suddenly your blood sugar crashes and you must have food now.

18. Food Cravings, often for sweets or salty foods, but can include sour or pungent foods. 

19. Increased Appetite, especially at night and after dinner contributes to that unusual and unwanted weight gain.

20. Dark Circles Under Eyes can also be caused by adrenal exhaustion and thyroid dysfunctions, but no amount of sleep seems to eliminate it. 

21. Joint and Muscle Pain, Achy, Sore Joints, Muscles and Tendons, which sometimes develop into actual carpal tunnel syndrome, or give rise to the questioning of other disease possibilities.

22. Increased Tension in Muscles demonstrates itself in those hunched up shoulders as you work or talk about anything uncomfortable, along with promoting lower back pain and a stiff neck.

23. Increased Hair Loss or Thinning anywhere on body, including your head, armpits, pubic area.

24. Increase in Facial Hair especially under your chin, or along your jaw line. It may be defined by generalized hair growth, or a specific and coarse single strand of hair that pokes out, even curls. 

25. Unusually Hair Growth, around Nipples, between Breasts, down your back, places where your hair was finer, less coarse.

26. Acne, quite disturbing to any woman who dealt with this in adolescence and never thought it would recur. 

27. Infertility causes grief in the woman who postponed pregnancy in her earlier years and now wishes to conceive, carry to term a healthy baby, and discovers she is unable to do so. 

28. Loss of Breast Tissue begins with the decrease of progesterone production. Women often feel as though their breast have become empty sacs devoid of their normal fullness, with or without sagging.

29. Breast Soreness/Tenderness/Pain/ Engorgement and swelling, occurs particularly a few days to one week before bleeding actually begins, which usually potentiates complete relief of any pain or swelling.

30. Painful, or tender nipples have been described as this exquisite localized pain only in the nipples and suggests estrogen excess. 

31. Cold Extremities feels quite strange especially in the presence of a hot flash, the combination of which is not impossible.

32. Being Accident Prone, bumping into things, not even realizing it until the bruise reveals itself later and then lacking the ability to recall the causative incident feels perplexing and a little scary at the prospect of something more damaging. 

33. Hot flashes initially may be described as mild to severe flushes of heat waves, and for some women these evolve into intense outbreaks of sudden heat with sweating and turning bright red all over. 

34. Loss of Sexual Energy, our Libido, can be marked by a gradual or sudden disinterest in sex, to the development of an actual aversion. 

35. Painful Sex often described as if one?s vagina would tear open at the point of penetration along with feelings of abrasion during intercourse.

36. Vaginal Dryness, Irritation, sometimes accompanied by a consistent unusual discharge - typically odor free, negates a woman?s ability to be sexually active, or able to enjoy or be comfortable in her body.

37. Dizziness, feeling lightheaded and the loss of physical balance, and even a bit wobbling at times, requires pause in movement to prevent falling over or deepening into vertigo or feeling faint.

38. Ringing in the Ears, Tinnitus, can be experienced as a pulsing sensation, a whooshing sound, an almost musical or buzzing sound with a fuzzy sensation.

39. Abdominal Bloating comes on suddenly often after eating, or seems to be all the time, and can be visibly evident making you feel that you look like you are pregnant. 

40. Weight Gain disturbs most women, particularly when it seems to happen over a couple of days, settles in the waist, buttocks and thighs, promoting a visceral thickening from the waist down, the classic middle-aged figure.

41. Fluid Retention, Edema, commonly with swelling in the legs and ankles, though not limited to this area and it is unrelieved by urination.

42. Palpitations or Heart Racing usually comes on suddenly, without warning or provocation, and dissipates spontaneously. The experience can be so wild and intense that a woman may become alarmed and wonder if she is having a heart attack. 

43. Irregularities in your Heart Rate may feel more like your heart has just done a flip-flop or skipped a beat.

44. Constipation/Diarrhea, intermittent or alternating, results from declining hormone levels, which increase the demands on liver function and alters intestinal motility.

45. Tendency towards Candidiasis can increase, even if you have no prior known history ? and if you do, it may worsen.

46. Gastrointestinal Distress, Increased Flatulence, Unrelieved Gas pains, Indigestion, Nausea all can reflect intestinal changes due to hormonal imbalances.

47. Slow Digestion often goes along with the bloat ? what previously took four to five hours to digest, now seems to take all night. It seems worse in the evenings.

48. Lack of Appetite may be experienced as more of a lack of interest in food, going to the frig and standing there with the door open and staring blankly. Feeling completely uninspired, you busy yourself with something else and forget that you need to eat.

49. Changes in Body Odor especially disturbing when it seems to focus in the groin area, but can be anywhere on the body.

50. Puffy Eyes, not only from sleep disturbances, but also can accompany low progesterone.

51. Facial Pallor alternating with Facial Flushes is often intermittent with hot flashes.

52. Flare up of Arthritis worsens with low progesterone levels and increase sugar intake.

53. Loss of Bone Density, Osteoporosis, is not only an elderly woman?s disease, though it seems to develop over an extended period and is triggered by the decline of hormone production.

54. Dry Hair, Change in Skin Tone, Integrity, and Texture, becomes more wrinkled, and may begin the thinning process.

55. Changes in your Fingernails characterized by easy breakage, bending, cracking and getting softer.

56. Itchy, Crawly Skin with a strange sensation like insects crawling around under the skin ? quite different than the dry skin feeling.

57. Muscle tone seems to slack and sag, and loose its previous response to normal exercise.

58. Pelvic Pain can be random and independent of cycles and may feel continuous for some women.

59. Dry, Itchy Eyes felt in the deep posterior aspect of the eye socket, as well as superficially.

60. Teeth Aching or the experience of a strange sensation in one?s teeth or gums, often accompanied by an increase in bleeding gums.

61. Change in the normal Tongue sensation, which can be accompanied by a feeling of burning in your tongue and roof of mouth, malodorous breath or change in breath odor, and/or a bad taste in your mouth.

62. Memory Loss or Lapses in time, makes one feel disoriented and less focused, especially when you go into another room to get something specific and seconds later cannot remember what you went to retrieve.

63. Feeling Faint for no known reason (this does not include standing up too quickly)

64. Tingling in Extremities not only feels weird and like your hands or feet are falling asleep, but if persistent can be a symptom of diabetes, B12, potassium or calcium deficiency, or a compromise in blood vessel flexibility.

65. Sensation of Electrical Stimulation,or Shock occurring in the tissue under the skin, and may signal you that a hot flash will begin.

66. Increase and worsening of Allergies occurs as hormones become imbalanced, so can our immune system.

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  • Posted

    Morning hot flashes, with mild naus, is this norma? It's almost like morning sickness. Any suggestions?

    • Posted

      Yes,sounds like me and many others. I know my coffee doesn't help, but I only have a cup of two. Refuse to give it up.Once I started to miss my periods at 50 the sweats started. I have had the nausea on and off as well.

    • Posted

      I find nibbling on ginger helps the nausea. I get it too. In first half of cycle after period/before ovulation. 
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    Anyone experiencing really bad bloating? I’ve been so bloated today that all the muscles and tendons round my stomach have started to ache. Also pain in my ovary. It happened last month as well but later in my ‘cycle’. I felt like it was maybe ovulation but period arrived only 9 days later. I’ve no idea what’s going on since I had the mirena in and cycles are now varying by up to 6 days. 
    • Posted

      I get bloating too and resulting muscle pain. And a pain in what I think at times is my ovary. A few weeks back I started a tbsp of psyllium husk in a glass of water both morning and night that really helps me.

      Are you finding the mirena is helping you?

    • Posted

      Thanks I’ll try that. I’ve seen it mentioned in my gluten free books; it’s used in gluten free bread recipes. The mirena has stopped the awful flooding periods and consequent anaemia which was the main reason I had it but I have more or less constant brown discharge and it’s hard to tell what’s going on with periods and ovulation. No side effects I don’t think though. 
    • Posted

      Thanks for the mirena info. I have lots of muscle pain, spasms, twitches, etc everywhere and wonder of it would help.

      One note on the psyllium husk if you do try it is to drink lots of water throughout the day.

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       Hello,  it peaked my interest when you mentioned spasms, twitches and so much muscle pain, do you have fibromyalgia? It sounds like all the symptoms of fibromyalgia, not diagnosing you, so please don’t think that, but so many people have that. I have it and I think it made my perri/menopause, now post  menopause, much much MUCH worse. I am having a terrible day today w/ pain, fatigue.  If I had my cycle, which stopped a full year ago May 29, it would be my actual period time,  that’s why I think I’m having so much pain, because my estrogen is dropping even lower. Not whining just saying that a couple days you can be fine and then for sometimes days or weeks you could be much worse.  Watch out for the nasty triggers with pain and inflammation, alcohol, caffeine, sugar, sugar is the ut most worst for inflammation.  We will all get through this, it’s just frustrating  ✌️ 
    • Posted

      Mmm not sure the mirena helps with anything except bleeding and consequences of. The hormones are very localised. Have you tried magnesium spray or tablets or bath salts for your muscle symptoms ?
    • Posted

      I’ve had severe night leg cramps 4-5x a month since around age 37 when my periods went to a 21 day cycle from 28. Last Nov at now age 48 and a new 45 day cycle I had them day and night for a month leading up to day 45. Back to 21 day cycles for 5 months and the usual 4-5x cramps. Then this month another 45 day cycle but an unusual 6 days of spotting started at day 21 and that’s when the new symptoms started - deep throbbing pain in thighs, buttocks, lower back, wrists and hands followed by intense heat on skin for a week. Following this tingling/twitching since. Most days 24/7.  Saw neurologist in April and again last week. No diagnosis for the leg cramps and twitching/tingling. The throbbing pain/heat being reffered to rheumatologist and endocronologist. Could come down to fibromyalgia (?)

      Today the deep throbbing pain has returned in my lower back and I am on robaxacet and a heating pad. So very frustrating.

      Question: How do women hold down a job in this state? This is my biggest worry currently.

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      That’s good to know re the mirena. Did you consider BHRT? I’ve just started reading on these things so not too educated yet.

      I had an appt with a wellness centre/compounding pharmacy last week and they made me a magnesium topical. Got it today and trying it on my low back pain. 

      I need to try the bath salts. Just need to clean my tub first wink

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      And yes thank you for the food tips. Few weeks ago cut the sugar, caffeine and alcohol. I think someone posted cut the white stuff too like rice. That one I still need to address.
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      Lisa,

      I thought the same fibromyalgia symptoms, how are you doing?

      I took your advise and the pain on my left side has disappeared but my naturopath believe I habe Frozen should and the herbal meds are working, I also had Acupuncture done and my stress is down, I finally got some good sleep, he also gave me a brew for my menapause symptoms and I'm feeling so good, my body finally exhaled ?

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       I am so happy to hear you’re doing well, that crazy frozen shoulder, that’s what my friend thought I had, why does that affect so many people our age?!  I really am relieved that you’re feeling so much better. I’m doing well, but I have to watch the sugar, it really kicks my ass,  and I have an evil sweet tooth 😉🍧

    • Posted

      Lol, I don't have the sweet tooth, I'm actually a sour patch girl😉I live anything sour, but the should issue is crazy, my naturopath showed me where on my foot to match when the pain flares up, and it worked instant😁left breast still tender but feels way better than it was 2 weeks ago before, that castor oil treatment worked too.

      I guess we just have to keep oiling up this old body 😉if cars need oil, so do we😁

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      If I even watch somebody eat something sour I picker and my mouth waters 😂  Isn’t that reflexology, what your natural path was showing you,  it does work wonders.  Thanks for reminding me about the acupuncture, I’m going to try that😇

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       Have you tried chelated magnesium for the cramps,  my pharmacist suggested that months ago,  has to be chelated.  It helps relax muscles and it aids sleep as well.   Do you know the trigger points of fibromyalgia, I have it,  go online and Google it,  it will show you a picture.  These are  supposed to be the best vitamins for Fibro,  if you actually have it. 

      5Htp, 

      Sam-e

      Multi Enzyme, 

      Essential sandalwood oil(topically) 

      D-Ribose

       I have to say, I use a lot of peppermint essential oil for aches and pains, I love it! Also soak your feet daily in Epson salt, even though it’s just your feet, it will still do good for the whole body.  Fibro honestly has a lot to do with what you eat, you have to get your diet completely clean. No alcohol, sugar, caffeine, especially gluten, gluten is the devil, it is nothing but poison, literally.  Keep a food journal to see how you feel after you eat.  Fried food and pork affected me as well  and watch out for preservatives in food additives, those are killers.  Do you work, is your job physically stressful, if it is and you do have Fibro that is a real difficult situation.  Also when our estrogen is depleted our pain goes up, because estrogen is a natural pain fighter, did you know that.  And if you are going through Peri/menopause and have Fibro, like I do, it’s twice as bad,  but is manageable. For example, after we would go to a certain restaurant and I would have a slice of bread, my elbows would already start bothering me before we would leave the restaurant.  Fibro is very manageable, you have to just really adjust your diet, try to get enough sleep, no your triggers and also  equal, Splenda, sweet low are terrible for our bodies especially pain, they contain what is called cytotoxins.  I had a few ice teas one day with sweet and low and I was literally in bed for the weekend, it affected me so bad.  So watching all that is crucial. 

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      Lisa your posts are always so helpful and encouraging. Thank you so much!

      The wellness centre/compounding pharmacy last Friday put me on 2x a day liquid calcium/magnesium/vit D supplement. It’s early days but I must say I haven’t had the night leg cramps since (I’ve had a few short breaks over the years so trying not to get too excited yet!). For the new deep throbbing muscle pain I will try more of your suggestions eg. gluten. 

      I sit all day for my job and work long hours so that’s definitely a problem. Exercise is almost next to nil and that needs to change stat.

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       You are very kind, thank you very much, I appreciate it. There is also a product you can get at any pharmacy area, called, Stop Pain, I absolutely love it,  there is a roll-on or spray, I get the spray.   You can get it at Walmart, Walgreens, CVS etc...  Also if you  find yourself in a pickle ( pun intended 😂wink and you get leg cramps, drink some pickle juice, it stops my husbands almost immediately,  also a tablespoon of mustard.  I know that sounds gross, but they do help. After he gets them I will put that area on a heating pad and we have lidocaine patches we get  as a prescription. I apply one of those also as I know they can leave the area  where the cramp was painful. What I have on my bed helps me in enormously. It is a heating pad that Massage Therapist uses on the table. I put it under my mattress pad, it’s the length of your body, that’s why it’s so wonderful. You can get those on the Internet, think I got mine possibly off eBay.  And I know what you mean about the exercise, I am not good at that either.  There is no reason you should have to suffer with us terrible painful cramps.  Do you drink enough water, you know that makes all the difference.  We also keep sugar-free Gatorade on hand.  It’s almost like you have to have a medicine  cabinet loaded for just the muscle cramps 🙄  Have a great day 😇

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      More great tips, thanks Lisa! Excited to look up those products online and will ask the wellness centre about the lidocaine patches. 

      I love pickles (haha not being in a pickle though wink and will give that a go. I do drink quite a bit of water but am working on increasing it. I also read coconut water is good re the natural electrolytes so have been buying that but it’s hard to find where I am as there seems to be a coconut water craze these days!

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      I know this is an old post, but I hope you see this and that you are well? Can I ask, what is the castor oil treatment you used and for what did it help please?

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