66 Peri menopause / Menopause Symptoms you may experience which may help some ladies

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SIXTY-SIX PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS: Part one 1 - 49

These are very real physical changes and conditions. Some symptoms alarm a woman that she may be suffering from a serious disease. Perhaps you know the more common ones related to menopausal symptoms in this list. But many of these may surprise you, as they have not been typically associated with this normal physiological transformation. 

1. Change in Menstrual Cycle, Cycles may get closer together or farther apart, lighter and shorter in duration or much heavier, lasting longer than one has been accustomed to. Menses may seem to take forever to begin with dark spotting for days until you actually flow, or you might feel like you have your menses every two weeks.

2. Menstrual Flooding can come on with sudden onset and feel like you may hemorrhage to death. Or it can be a gradual build up just when you think your menses will end and you start gushing for days. Flooding commonly accompanies the woman with uterine fibroids as she transits into menopause.

3. Headaches, Migraines, especially before, during or at the end of your menses debilitate and radically interferes with normal functioning.

4. Decreased Motor Coordination, Clumsiness, almost begins to make the woman who experiences this feel like she is certainly less than graceful during perhaps an already awkward period in her life. 

5. Lethargy, a persistent feeling sluggishness physically and mentally, that seems to negate ones ability to do much. 

6. Physical Exhaustion , and Crushing Crashing Fatigue that can come on so suddenly and grip you into feeling like you will collapse unless you stop this instant.

7. Exacerbation of any Chronic Illness or Existing Condition transpires as hormones decline or deviate from their normal balance.

8. Insomnia, this includes a new or unusual pattern of either difficulty falling asleep, or dropping off to sleep for a few hours and then awakening with the inability to return to sleep.

9. Sleep Disturbances sometimes are from nightmares, night sweats, or just a vague sense of restlessness keeping you up or disrupting your precious revitalizing retreat from this realm of responsibilities.

10. Night Sweats often begin between a woman?s breasts, initially a night or two before her menses, waking her from sleep, later more profoundly disturbing with up to total body saturation, followed by damp or sweat drenched chills.

11. Interference With Dream Recall interrupts the sense of normal sleep, if you are someone accustomed to vivid or at least some detailed memory of your dreamtime. 

12. Muscle Cramps can occur anywhere in the body from legs to back to neck, and sometimes reflects the need for more calcium, or simply that your progesterone levels are too low. 

13. Low Backache often worsens before or during menses, but if your hormones remain at low levels, you can experience it on a regular basis.

14. Gall Bladder Symptoms of pain, spasms and discomfort felt in the right upper abdominal quadrant under the ribs, which may be accompanied by belching, bloating, and intolerance to certain foods reflect the increased liver load with declining hormones. 

15. Frequent Urination, or sensations that mimic urinary infections is a disturbing symptom often unrelieved by actual urination. It is often experienced as the sensation of needing to urinate all the time, even immediately afterwards.

16. Urinary Incontinence, the uncontrollable and spontaneous loss of urine, or the Urge for Incontinence, can occur suddenly or feel continuous, and not only in response to coughing, sneezing, jumping or running. 

17. Hypoglycemic Reactions happen when suddenly your blood sugar crashes and you must have food now.

18. Food Cravings, often for sweets or salty foods, but can include sour or pungent foods. 

19. Increased Appetite, especially at night and after dinner contributes to that unusual and unwanted weight gain.

20. Dark Circles Under Eyes can also be caused by adrenal exhaustion and thyroid dysfunctions, but no amount of sleep seems to eliminate it. 

21. Joint and Muscle Pain, Achy, Sore Joints, Muscles and Tendons, which sometimes develop into actual carpal tunnel syndrome, or give rise to the questioning of other disease possibilities.

22. Increased Tension in Muscles demonstrates itself in those hunched up shoulders as you work or talk about anything uncomfortable, along with promoting lower back pain and a stiff neck.

23. Increased Hair Loss or Thinning anywhere on body, including your head, armpits, pubic area.

24. Increase in Facial Hair especially under your chin, or along your jaw line. It may be defined by generalized hair growth, or a specific and coarse single strand of hair that pokes out, even curls. 

25. Unusually Hair Growth, around Nipples, between Breasts, down your back, places where your hair was finer, less coarse.

26. Acne, quite disturbing to any woman who dealt with this in adolescence and never thought it would recur. 

27. Infertility causes grief in the woman who postponed pregnancy in her earlier years and now wishes to conceive, carry to term a healthy baby, and discovers she is unable to do so. 

28. Loss of Breast Tissue begins with the decrease of progesterone production. Women often feel as though their breast have become empty sacs devoid of their normal fullness, with or without sagging.

29. Breast Soreness/Tenderness/Pain/ Engorgement and swelling, occurs particularly a few days to one week before bleeding actually begins, which usually potentiates complete relief of any pain or swelling.

30. Painful, or tender nipples have been described as this exquisite localized pain only in the nipples and suggests estrogen excess. 

31. Cold Extremities feels quite strange especially in the presence of a hot flash, the combination of which is not impossible.

32. Being Accident Prone, bumping into things, not even realizing it until the bruise reveals itself later and then lacking the ability to recall the causative incident feels perplexing and a little scary at the prospect of something more damaging. 

33. Hot flashes initially may be described as mild to severe flushes of heat waves, and for some women these evolve into intense outbreaks of sudden heat with sweating and turning bright red all over. 

34. Loss of Sexual Energy, our Libido, can be marked by a gradual or sudden disinterest in sex, to the development of an actual aversion. 

35. Painful Sex often described as if one?s vagina would tear open at the point of penetration along with feelings of abrasion during intercourse.

36. Vaginal Dryness, Irritation, sometimes accompanied by a consistent unusual discharge - typically odor free, negates a woman?s ability to be sexually active, or able to enjoy or be comfortable in her body.

37. Dizziness, feeling lightheaded and the loss of physical balance, and even a bit wobbling at times, requires pause in movement to prevent falling over or deepening into vertigo or feeling faint.

38. Ringing in the Ears, Tinnitus, can be experienced as a pulsing sensation, a whooshing sound, an almost musical or buzzing sound with a fuzzy sensation.

39. Abdominal Bloating comes on suddenly often after eating, or seems to be all the time, and can be visibly evident making you feel that you look like you are pregnant. 

40. Weight Gain disturbs most women, particularly when it seems to happen over a couple of days, settles in the waist, buttocks and thighs, promoting a visceral thickening from the waist down, the classic middle-aged figure.

41. Fluid Retention, Edema, commonly with swelling in the legs and ankles, though not limited to this area and it is unrelieved by urination.

42. Palpitations or Heart Racing usually comes on suddenly, without warning or provocation, and dissipates spontaneously. The experience can be so wild and intense that a woman may become alarmed and wonder if she is having a heart attack. 

43. Irregularities in your Heart Rate may feel more like your heart has just done a flip-flop or skipped a beat.

44. Constipation/Diarrhea, intermittent or alternating, results from declining hormone levels, which increase the demands on liver function and alters intestinal motility.

45. Tendency towards Candidiasis can increase, even if you have no prior known history ? and if you do, it may worsen.

46. Gastrointestinal Distress, Increased Flatulence, Unrelieved Gas pains, Indigestion, Nausea all can reflect intestinal changes due to hormonal imbalances.

47. Slow Digestion often goes along with the bloat ? what previously took four to five hours to digest, now seems to take all night. It seems worse in the evenings.

48. Lack of Appetite may be experienced as more of a lack of interest in food, going to the frig and standing there with the door open and staring blankly. Feeling completely uninspired, you busy yourself with something else and forget that you need to eat.

49. Changes in Body Odor especially disturbing when it seems to focus in the groin area, but can be anywhere on the body.

50. Puffy Eyes, not only from sleep disturbances, but also can accompany low progesterone.

51. Facial Pallor alternating with Facial Flushes is often intermittent with hot flashes.

52. Flare up of Arthritis worsens with low progesterone levels and increase sugar intake.

53. Loss of Bone Density, Osteoporosis, is not only an elderly woman?s disease, though it seems to develop over an extended period and is triggered by the decline of hormone production.

54. Dry Hair, Change in Skin Tone, Integrity, and Texture, becomes more wrinkled, and may begin the thinning process.

55. Changes in your Fingernails characterized by easy breakage, bending, cracking and getting softer.

56. Itchy, Crawly Skin with a strange sensation like insects crawling around under the skin ? quite different than the dry skin feeling.

57. Muscle tone seems to slack and sag, and loose its previous response to normal exercise.

58. Pelvic Pain can be random and independent of cycles and may feel continuous for some women.

59. Dry, Itchy Eyes felt in the deep posterior aspect of the eye socket, as well as superficially.

60. Teeth Aching or the experience of a strange sensation in one?s teeth or gums, often accompanied by an increase in bleeding gums.

61. Change in the normal Tongue sensation, which can be accompanied by a feeling of burning in your tongue and roof of mouth, malodorous breath or change in breath odor, and/or a bad taste in your mouth.

62. Memory Loss or Lapses in time, makes one feel disoriented and less focused, especially when you go into another room to get something specific and seconds later cannot remember what you went to retrieve.

63. Feeling Faint for no known reason (this does not include standing up too quickly)

64. Tingling in Extremities not only feels weird and like your hands or feet are falling asleep, but if persistent can be a symptom of diabetes, B12, potassium or calcium deficiency, or a compromise in blood vessel flexibility.

65. Sensation of Electrical Stimulation,or Shock occurring in the tissue under the skin, and may signal you that a hot flash will begin.

66. Increase and worsening of Allergies occurs as hormones become imbalanced, so can our immune system.

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  • Posted

    Thank you ladies so much...reading all you guys comments lets me know i am not alone..really makes me feel better!!

    • Posted

      well Charlotte I had a nice paragraph to you and they deleted it, I really hate when they do that I wish they would say why!

    • Posted

      I appreciate that...@lisa95354... wish i could have read it😊 i can say once something else clears up something else acts up..when will it end😕

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    have any of you ladies break out in hive to the point they look like insect bites and they itching. I a m 50 now I started early when I was 39 year old. I started periomenpause 2016 I haven't seen a period in three year I am going through hell sombody help me.

    • Posted

      yes definitely experience that..think something has bite me..would not think that it could be related to menopause..this thing cause menopause is CRAZY..but hang in there hopefully it will end soon 😟

    • Posted

      Kim... this happened to me a few years ago and I swear I think it lasted a year. I kept saying to my husband, how do I keep getting bit and you dont. It happened in bed at night, especially. I mean I was changing the sheets, bleaching the sheets, bombing our mattress with alcohol and Essential Oils. I don’t understand why none of this is written in a book somewhere. Perry started for me over 12 years ago and I’ve been post menopause now two years, maybe three. Are you taking supplements for menopause and are you cutting out sugar, caffeine and alcohol. I have to be honest, I’m not good at clean eating but it’s the best advice I can give. I am going for a hormone saliva test Monday, and then when that comes back, I’ll be starting HRT, compounded in the form of a cream or a pill, by my pharmacist. you’re not alone 😉

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      oh I have kim, it was mainly all over my hip and legs, I thought I had bed bugs or something, but my husband had nothing on him. They went away for a few days but then I had a bad night sweat and woke up to the hives all over me again.

    • Posted

      @lisa95354 can I ask how old you were when all this started and were your periods still reasonably regular? I was convinced I was in peri with all these symptoms but doc said no. She tested my FSH which is apparently normal and the only period symptom i have is cycles varying from 24-31 days and flooding. I have most of the other symptoms though. I want to be reassured that its peri but feel i cant be until my periods get more irregular then I'll know for certain!

    • Posted

      Morning Emma ... to be honest with you I have very little faith in the medical community, is your doctor a man or a woman? I also don’t have faith in that FSH test. The true test of hormones is a saliva test and that FSH test cannot be done at ovulation it Has to be done several days after for it to even possibly give any signs of anything. I am hearing this left and right that women have had this FSH test and that they’re told they’re not in Peri, sorry but we actually know more about this than the doctors because we know inherently what our bodies are going through. Also we’re supposed to go by our symptoms not so much that FSH test. There is a Facebook page that’s called, Fixed a flash, you have to ask to join and there is a nurse practitioner that will answer your questions, I believe she calls you ... I can’t believe some of the nonsense these doctors tell us. There’s also an Instagram page called Menochics there’s a lot of good information on there and some type of form that she can send you to give your doctor to inform him/her better. mine started before 2007, I specifically remember because I went to the doctor in 2007 and told him I felt like I was dying, and that’s when I was diagnosed with costochondritis, that is a quintessential sign of perimenopause ...guess what he wanted to do, he didn’t discuss perimenopause at all ...he wanted to put me on an anti-depressant, it wasn’t even on his radar that it was perimenopause. I also did not have signs of depression I had signs of perimenopause. but these doctors are not educated on menopause in school. my dr last week was absolutely useless, we had got into an argument over him telling me that synthetic hormones are the same as BHRT, which they absolutely are not. It’s pretty sad that I have a high school diploma and he has been to school an additional eight years for Medicine and I know this and he doesn’t. I also find it laughable that a man is going to tell me about my body, I’m pretty sure that’s not gonna happen ...when he’s not even being reasonable. my periods were regular, like clockwork, and the last three years I didn’t have a period at all, until May 29 of each year, isn’t that crazy, the last one was very difficult... terrible cramps, feeling sick, I had to actually leave a graduation party it was so bad. Gastritis flare up terrible and shortly after that I has my gallbladder removed. Yes I really went out with a bang. The gallbladder issue was also misdiagnosed for 10 years, yes 10 long years. also you cannot go by anybody else’s symptoms... cycles etc., we’re all individuals, like a snowflake 😉 remember… This too shall pass ... Hugs to you xo

    • Posted

      Thanks Lisa. She's a woman but just a GP and younger, in her 30s I think. She blames it all on anxiety and its hard to argue. She had me on mirena coil but it stopped me ovulating which made everything worse especially anxiety yet she wouldn't even admit that not ovulating causes issues. I wont get near a gynaecologist on the NHS. The anxiety has been bad still despite coming off mirena hoping therapy will work. Sleep issues, brain fog, exhaustion, nausea and palpitations that come during pms are plaguing me at the moment too. I have ovulated this month but very late in cycle so expecting long cycle this month. Tranaxamic acid is helping with heaviness now the mirena is gone. Am going to try those sites you mentioned...thank you! I struggled a lot as a teen for years after my period started in similar ways...head heaviness, nausea, anxiety which i now see was hormones! I had awful post natal anxiety too, like i was going mad. Some women have it so easy! My nan had early meno at 39 so wondering if i will be just early or will suffer for years...i fear it will be the latter!

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    Yes! That's why I keep handy the Benadryl gel for the skin I put it on immediately and it helps with the itchy and the redness and helps it clear quicker I get them om my face, neck and chest MOSTLY mine come up like big red pump some in pile you know real c lose together and some are in different spots farther apart. BUT I will ALWAYS keep the Benadryl gel tube real handy I go on on a trip which is far and few between it goes with me!

  • Posted

    loved your article. A friend shared it with me when on FB after a menopause post. I could answer yes to most of these.

    the worst for me is the panic attacks. They are severe and nothing really them.

    thanks for rationalizing "irrationshelness"

    tami3395

    • Posted

      same for me Tami!! anxiety and panic attacks all the time..but for me it easies up if i watch my died, any sugar, chocolate and coffee it brings them on ..also im always having scary thoughts and worrying

      about my children that something bad will happen. they can have a cold and i get so anxious thinking the worst!!

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    Wednesday July 31, 2019-This morning was rough. I had ice cold hands and started burning up and I suddenly got sick with my gut and feeling woozy. My mother passed away Monday night and this week has been tough. This morning's attack was a combination of not being able to sleep and just feeling awful. I hope everyone else is doing well.

    • Posted

      Firstly my condolences to you Tonya.

      I am also in suffering following the passing of my dear mum on 20th July. The last year and a half journey of Meno symptoms started when I turned 45 and have pushed me to my limits. My increase of anixiety since my mum's death and understandable tearfulness is draining me. Currently off work and now worrying how will I cope going back.

      Wishing you peace at this time.

    • Posted

      Thank you and I am sorry for your loss too. Yes, I know what you mean with the increase of anxiety. I wish you peace and comfort too.

    • Posted

      My sincere condolences to both Tanya and Elaine! It just doesn't seem right that anyone should have to grieve a loved one and go through the pain and struggle of menopause at the same time. You always have support here. xo

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      It really does. It takes a lot of strength. And it's just exhausting.

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      Elaine I am so sorry for your loss. Its hell dealing with this perimenopause symptoms and the losing a loved one. I loss my mother, and my baby sister, and the anxiety that goes with this is unbearable. knowing I'm not the only one dealing with this helps. I know I'm not going crazy.

    • Posted

      So sorry Tonya for the loss of your mother. Trying to deal with grief alone is hard and during menopause makes it that much harder. I wish you much strength during this time. Please post whenever you need support.

      xo Karen

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      Thank you and it has made things tough. I am still recovering from this morning's attack.

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      So sorry for your loss Elaine. Thinking of you during this time.

      It's so very hard to work during these times. My dad had major cancer surgery in March and I ended up taking a week off of work to help him and my mom as I couldn't juggle both emotionally etc. It's a tough time at this stage in our lives.

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      your message is much appreciated and please accept my deepest condolences of the loved ones you have lost in life. This will be a very long road of all us who have lost but knowing that we have a group of women who can reach out to us in our time of need is a comfort. My daughter is 11 and I am single parent UK school holidays have just started so I am very much in parellel worlds grieving trying to prepared for the funeral and carry out a level of functioning is sereal. My symptoms have challenged me considerable and I work full-time in the NHS my role is very demanding I quitely feel I am losing my mind I close my eyes I see my mother I wake I cry for my mother I feel I've digressed to a child again.

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      Kjvands appreciated. And too you I can only imagine how difficult it has been for you and your family. I feel as women at this stage of life we carry such a load at a time of our own vulnerability mentally and physically. It very raw and reality of life very clear. God bless your father and I feel for you and your mother x

    • Posted

      Thanks so much Elaine. I never saw this coming in later life and I'm not sure anyone could have prepared me for it. Blessings to your family too. x Karen

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