66 Peri menopause / Menopause Symptoms you may experience which may help some ladies

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SIXTY-SIX PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS: Part one 1 - 49

These are very real physical changes and conditions. Some symptoms alarm a woman that she may be suffering from a serious disease. Perhaps you know the more common ones related to menopausal symptoms in this list. But many of these may surprise you, as they have not been typically associated with this normal physiological transformation. 

1. Change in Menstrual Cycle, Cycles may get closer together or farther apart, lighter and shorter in duration or much heavier, lasting longer than one has been accustomed to. Menses may seem to take forever to begin with dark spotting for days until you actually flow, or you might feel like you have your menses every two weeks.

2. Menstrual Flooding can come on with sudden onset and feel like you may hemorrhage to death. Or it can be a gradual build up just when you think your menses will end and you start gushing for days. Flooding commonly accompanies the woman with uterine fibroids as she transits into menopause.

3. Headaches, Migraines, especially before, during or at the end of your menses debilitate and radically interferes with normal functioning.

4. Decreased Motor Coordination, Clumsiness, almost begins to make the woman who experiences this feel like she is certainly less than graceful during perhaps an already awkward period in her life. 

5. Lethargy, a persistent feeling sluggishness physically and mentally, that seems to negate ones ability to do much. 

6. Physical Exhaustion , and Crushing Crashing Fatigue that can come on so suddenly and grip you into feeling like you will collapse unless you stop this instant.

7. Exacerbation of any Chronic Illness or Existing Condition transpires as hormones decline or deviate from their normal balance.

8. Insomnia, this includes a new or unusual pattern of either difficulty falling asleep, or dropping off to sleep for a few hours and then awakening with the inability to return to sleep.

9. Sleep Disturbances sometimes are from nightmares, night sweats, or just a vague sense of restlessness keeping you up or disrupting your precious revitalizing retreat from this realm of responsibilities.

10. Night Sweats often begin between a woman?s breasts, initially a night or two before her menses, waking her from sleep, later more profoundly disturbing with up to total body saturation, followed by damp or sweat drenched chills.

11. Interference With Dream Recall interrupts the sense of normal sleep, if you are someone accustomed to vivid or at least some detailed memory of your dreamtime. 

12. Muscle Cramps can occur anywhere in the body from legs to back to neck, and sometimes reflects the need for more calcium, or simply that your progesterone levels are too low. 

13. Low Backache often worsens before or during menses, but if your hormones remain at low levels, you can experience it on a regular basis.

14. Gall Bladder Symptoms of pain, spasms and discomfort felt in the right upper abdominal quadrant under the ribs, which may be accompanied by belching, bloating, and intolerance to certain foods reflect the increased liver load with declining hormones. 

15. Frequent Urination, or sensations that mimic urinary infections is a disturbing symptom often unrelieved by actual urination. It is often experienced as the sensation of needing to urinate all the time, even immediately afterwards.

16. Urinary Incontinence, the uncontrollable and spontaneous loss of urine, or the Urge for Incontinence, can occur suddenly or feel continuous, and not only in response to coughing, sneezing, jumping or running. 

17. Hypoglycemic Reactions happen when suddenly your blood sugar crashes and you must have food now.

18. Food Cravings, often for sweets or salty foods, but can include sour or pungent foods. 

19. Increased Appetite, especially at night and after dinner contributes to that unusual and unwanted weight gain.

20. Dark Circles Under Eyes can also be caused by adrenal exhaustion and thyroid dysfunctions, but no amount of sleep seems to eliminate it. 

21. Joint and Muscle Pain, Achy, Sore Joints, Muscles and Tendons, which sometimes develop into actual carpal tunnel syndrome, or give rise to the questioning of other disease possibilities.

22. Increased Tension in Muscles demonstrates itself in those hunched up shoulders as you work or talk about anything uncomfortable, along with promoting lower back pain and a stiff neck.

23. Increased Hair Loss or Thinning anywhere on body, including your head, armpits, pubic area.

24. Increase in Facial Hair especially under your chin, or along your jaw line. It may be defined by generalized hair growth, or a specific and coarse single strand of hair that pokes out, even curls. 

25. Unusually Hair Growth, around Nipples, between Breasts, down your back, places where your hair was finer, less coarse.

26. Acne, quite disturbing to any woman who dealt with this in adolescence and never thought it would recur. 

27. Infertility causes grief in the woman who postponed pregnancy in her earlier years and now wishes to conceive, carry to term a healthy baby, and discovers she is unable to do so. 

28. Loss of Breast Tissue begins with the decrease of progesterone production. Women often feel as though their breast have become empty sacs devoid of their normal fullness, with or without sagging.

29. Breast Soreness/Tenderness/Pain/ Engorgement and swelling, occurs particularly a few days to one week before bleeding actually begins, which usually potentiates complete relief of any pain or swelling.

30. Painful, or tender nipples have been described as this exquisite localized pain only in the nipples and suggests estrogen excess. 

31. Cold Extremities feels quite strange especially in the presence of a hot flash, the combination of which is not impossible.

32. Being Accident Prone, bumping into things, not even realizing it until the bruise reveals itself later and then lacking the ability to recall the causative incident feels perplexing and a little scary at the prospect of something more damaging. 

33. Hot flashes initially may be described as mild to severe flushes of heat waves, and for some women these evolve into intense outbreaks of sudden heat with sweating and turning bright red all over. 

34. Loss of Sexual Energy, our Libido, can be marked by a gradual or sudden disinterest in sex, to the development of an actual aversion. 

35. Painful Sex often described as if one?s vagina would tear open at the point of penetration along with feelings of abrasion during intercourse.

36. Vaginal Dryness, Irritation, sometimes accompanied by a consistent unusual discharge - typically odor free, negates a woman?s ability to be sexually active, or able to enjoy or be comfortable in her body.

37. Dizziness, feeling lightheaded and the loss of physical balance, and even a bit wobbling at times, requires pause in movement to prevent falling over or deepening into vertigo or feeling faint.

38. Ringing in the Ears, Tinnitus, can be experienced as a pulsing sensation, a whooshing sound, an almost musical or buzzing sound with a fuzzy sensation.

39. Abdominal Bloating comes on suddenly often after eating, or seems to be all the time, and can be visibly evident making you feel that you look like you are pregnant. 

40. Weight Gain disturbs most women, particularly when it seems to happen over a couple of days, settles in the waist, buttocks and thighs, promoting a visceral thickening from the waist down, the classic middle-aged figure.

41. Fluid Retention, Edema, commonly with swelling in the legs and ankles, though not limited to this area and it is unrelieved by urination.

42. Palpitations or Heart Racing usually comes on suddenly, without warning or provocation, and dissipates spontaneously. The experience can be so wild and intense that a woman may become alarmed and wonder if she is having a heart attack. 

43. Irregularities in your Heart Rate may feel more like your heart has just done a flip-flop or skipped a beat.

44. Constipation/Diarrhea, intermittent or alternating, results from declining hormone levels, which increase the demands on liver function and alters intestinal motility.

45. Tendency towards Candidiasis can increase, even if you have no prior known history ? and if you do, it may worsen.

46. Gastrointestinal Distress, Increased Flatulence, Unrelieved Gas pains, Indigestion, Nausea all can reflect intestinal changes due to hormonal imbalances.

47. Slow Digestion often goes along with the bloat ? what previously took four to five hours to digest, now seems to take all night. It seems worse in the evenings.

48. Lack of Appetite may be experienced as more of a lack of interest in food, going to the frig and standing there with the door open and staring blankly. Feeling completely uninspired, you busy yourself with something else and forget that you need to eat.

49. Changes in Body Odor especially disturbing when it seems to focus in the groin area, but can be anywhere on the body.

50. Puffy Eyes, not only from sleep disturbances, but also can accompany low progesterone.

51. Facial Pallor alternating with Facial Flushes is often intermittent with hot flashes.

52. Flare up of Arthritis worsens with low progesterone levels and increase sugar intake.

53. Loss of Bone Density, Osteoporosis, is not only an elderly woman?s disease, though it seems to develop over an extended period and is triggered by the decline of hormone production.

54. Dry Hair, Change in Skin Tone, Integrity, and Texture, becomes more wrinkled, and may begin the thinning process.

55. Changes in your Fingernails characterized by easy breakage, bending, cracking and getting softer.

56. Itchy, Crawly Skin with a strange sensation like insects crawling around under the skin ? quite different than the dry skin feeling.

57. Muscle tone seems to slack and sag, and loose its previous response to normal exercise.

58. Pelvic Pain can be random and independent of cycles and may feel continuous for some women.

59. Dry, Itchy Eyes felt in the deep posterior aspect of the eye socket, as well as superficially.

60. Teeth Aching or the experience of a strange sensation in one?s teeth or gums, often accompanied by an increase in bleeding gums.

61. Change in the normal Tongue sensation, which can be accompanied by a feeling of burning in your tongue and roof of mouth, malodorous breath or change in breath odor, and/or a bad taste in your mouth.

62. Memory Loss or Lapses in time, makes one feel disoriented and less focused, especially when you go into another room to get something specific and seconds later cannot remember what you went to retrieve.

63. Feeling Faint for no known reason (this does not include standing up too quickly)

64. Tingling in Extremities not only feels weird and like your hands or feet are falling asleep, but if persistent can be a symptom of diabetes, B12, potassium or calcium deficiency, or a compromise in blood vessel flexibility.

65. Sensation of Electrical Stimulation,or Shock occurring in the tissue under the skin, and may signal you that a hot flash will begin.

66. Increase and worsening of Allergies occurs as hormones become imbalanced, so can our immune system.

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  • Posted

    Hi ladies,

    Apparently I'm "borderline" peri-meno.

    As my results came back as "normal", she is attributing all my symptoms to anxiety and stress.

    For the dryness down below, she recommended a gel called "Replense" to reduce the itching, as swab culture came back "normal".

    She has also referred me for an ultrasound of ovaries etc., just to make sure everything ok.

    So, I just have to keep on with the CBT, to try and stay sane through all this.

    I start a new job on 19th Nov!

    JC

    • Posted

      Hey Jungchic, does that make you feel better or worse, I was going to have my hormones tested last week but I got chatting with my nurse practitioner and forgot. Dont you just get exhausted with all this crap, this doctor, that Dr. ...having to remember what you need to ask... when they should know to begin with ....grrr ... very frustrating, I know anxiety and stress is so hard on the body, I was just talking about it with my contractor today. Are you excited about your upcoming job, is it something you enjoy doing? You know.... my grandmother used to say that when you don’t know what it is that’s making you sick that’s when you should worry but when you know what it is, you don’t have to worry as much. I just know that when doctors have told me in the past, it’s stress or anxiety, you are relieved for it not to be something serious, but then you’re not relieved, because you’re like... OK I have to make changes and learn how to cope with these stresses, which can be very difficult. Be kind to yourself and go easy 😉 as I know we are all having difficulties with this change.

  • Posted

    Worse i think Lisa......it would be great to be able to attribute all these brutal symptoms to "the change", but unfortunately its actually down to my biggest enemy - STRESS & ANXIETY.

    At this stage im knocking on the door of the next stage in life, but feel about a million yrs old after having been through so much over the last 20 yrs.

    The job will at least divert my focus away from worrying about potential health issues etc., but am really scared about returning to the workplace after 3 yrs of recovery.

    Also, im still in the shock phase of grieving, and my father died in february.

    Life should feel exciting (im 44), but instead it feels like a big cavern, about to swallow me up.

    • Posted

      Hey Junglechic,

      I lost my mom in February as well, the 18th, what date did your dad pass, I'm very sorry, I know it’s very difficult. It doesn’t matter how old we get, we always want our parents. That would be difficult returning to work after three years, I understand what you mean. I do understand also what you mean about feeling a million yrs old. I too have been through some very serious events the last 20 years and sometimes you wonder how you’re still standing. Mine is more catastrophic betrayal issues with family members, that lead to severe anxiety and stress. I know it’s so difficult, but just keep going, that’s the only choice we have;)

    • Posted

      Hey Lisa,

      Dad died on the 5th Feb.......I'm so sorry that you lost your Mum.

      I've been in therapy for the last 2 yrs dealing with catastrophic betrayals by family members, so totally relate, its terribly sad and just takes the rug from underneath us. Like you, I ended up with anxiety, depression and of course chronic stress (and all the symptoms that go with it).

      Recently started CBT to try and get a handle on negative ruminations and health anxiety.

      Yes, we have to keep going (sink of swim). Am currently dealing with awful IBS. This is a long IBS episode, due to grieving, starting a new job and the holidays approaching (an upsetting time).

      Thinking of you, and thank you for your support.

      Hugs,

      JC

    • Posted

      hey Jungle chic, it’s very very interesting you mention that about the ruminating thoughts, that is something that I found the CBD oil good for as well, isn’t that something. I also suggested it to one of my friends because he’s always beating himself up about mistakes in the past. I’m really glad you brought this up, because those thoughts make you feel very alone, thank you for mentioning that. I think when it comes to family betrayal, that can really become obsessive, cause you can’t imagine your family doing such things, so we obsess and it becomesc a loop in our brain:(

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    I just don't know what I would have done without this site. Thank you all, for inadvertently listening to me. Thank you for your posts that have helped me feel less alone. I send every ounce of love, sympathy and well wishing I have to you all.

    I seem to be the only woman in my family and friends that suffers horribly with symptoms/medical issues. It is really depressing.

    Why me? It makes me feel alone when NONE of my friends or family have anything. How is that possible? I am the freak show. So I just keep my mouth shut about it. Of course no one talks to me anymore because who wants to be around me? I don't want to be me. lol I just feel like most days curling up in a ball and whimpering. There isn't a day that I don't cry -alone. Because who needs to be around that? My husband avoids me, or placates me. I try not to take it out on him, I ashamedly, fail miserably. As I mentioned in an earlier post. I just lost my sweet dog Belle. She was like a therapy dog to me and a vital part of my daily life. It feels like my light has been dimmed.

    Well, I was stupid, stupid, stupid enough to take antibiotics that my dentist prescribed for a bad toothache I was experiencing. Which I was suspicious it was just a symptom of hormones. It threw my system out of whack. So now I have either a yeast infection or a bv. I take probiotics. Gave up caffeine, sugar and dairy. I only drink alkaline water. I am having some very dull cramping. I made an appt with my Gyno but first available is Nov 30. I really really want to just solve this naturally. I use vmagic and that helps really well with the irritation. But the low cramping worries me. I don't know if I am just having a phantom period. Because my ovaries seem to be waving hello at me to now and then. I have had two ultrasounds this year. My ovaries are shriveling up (like me lol) like they are supposed to. I do have a benign cyst in my uterus. Which has caused mild cramping in the past. Because deja vu I was just here with all this in Feb.. I am smart enough to not use otc anti yeast meds again.(That was a nightmare I don't ever want to repeat.) and not go to my GP because she just threw a bunch of meds at me and made it worse.

    I really hate how hyper aware I am of everything on my body. Pains, aches, cramps, moles, hair loss. Gas. I hate it. I hate being worried and afraid all the time. I used to be the fun one, the commedienne, the laugher and crazy upbeat person. The one people called with their problems. That person is gone. Now I feel like I am in mourning of my health and youth. Suffering. Every single day. I am the whimperer, the cryer, the frowner, the loner, the one everyone avoids. I have every single one of these 66 symptoms and more.

    I haven't had a period since 10/2017. I had my FSH test 86..4 in Feb. I AM menopause. Unfortunately it defines me now. When does it stop? I turned 50 this year.

    I can't take a lot of things because I have a history of heart problems. But if there was a magic pill? I would sell my soul for it.

    Instead I immerse myself in books. HEA's because someone has to be happy right? lol

    Bless every single one of you. I wish all of you symptom free, happy healthy days. Thank you so much for this site and allowing me to express my long winded self.

    • Posted

      Keljo... don’t let people for you, I feel the same exact way, how come I have gone through hell and everybody else seems to be in the sun but no problems. I think a lot of women want to make it look like they’re having no problems, which I think is pathetic. I have a friend that told me that she barely had any symptoms, she’s full of it, I know she is. I feel exactly like you, everything you’re saying he were describing me to the T! are used to be the funny one, the comedian, the life of the party and I to now have a lower and I feel like a few of my friends try to avoid me as well. and yes I feel like I am a monster to my partner but I have to be honest men or innocent, so many men are just so passive aggressive and dismissive, I think it’s just on their blood, they don’t mean to be. I also have the issue of having to repeat everything to my partner 1000 times, I don’t know why that is but it makes everything much much worse. four years I worried obsessively about my house and thought I was dying, it’s all this freaking menopause is a nightmare! I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again, it is 2018, I don’t understand why there aren’t from solutions in place for this, instead we’re just missed and treated like we’re crazy or put on and I i’ve said this before and I’ll say it again, it is 2018, I don’t understand why their art firm solutions in place for this, instead we’re just missed treated like we’re crazy or put on anti depressants. That cramping happens to me when I’m 'supposed' to be ovulating, I’ve been without my period for a year and a half. My period Was around the 28th of every month, that’s why my ovaries feel like that now, because they’re supposed to be ovulating but they can’t. My nurse practitioner told me they should not still be doing that, but I looked at her like, lady come on, everybody’s different, I just don’t think any of them kno what they’re talking about. I didn’t have children, so I’m attributing my ovaries, still doing that because I never had children, maybe my ovaries feel my regret:( let me just say my friend, you are not alone in these feelings, you feel so alone, sad, you yearn for that fun person you used to be, I got yuh, I’m there. I'm having one of those low days today, they really grab you by the balls. I am so terribly sorry again, about the loss of your precious pet family Belle, going through this and that happening, just terrible. It’s such a terrible hurt. like I told the other girls, they are not alone, you’re not alone, we are not alone. I think a lot of those people who pretend not to be suffering are really on HRT, or what is called, P.E.T., progesterone, estrogen, testosterone, the DR. implants them in your glute area, I can’t find anyone in my area that does it. And I really get what you mean about the morning of your health, it’s for real and I really get what you mean about the morning of your health, it’s for REAL! God bless and remember, you’re not alone;)

    • Posted

      Keljo, I also get what you mean about being hyper aware of everything with your body, it’s because of the hormones, that’s why we feel that way, I feel the same exact way. Did you know that estrogen is a natural pain fighter, that’s why we feel like crap, because it’s depleted. today I feel like I was rolled down a flight of stairs and I have a headache. It really makes you wanna scream at times.

    • Posted

      have you tried microgyn floraplus? Fantastic for keeping everything in balance down there.

    • Posted

      Keljo, I wish you all the love and sympathy too. I can so relate to your post.

      I too have terrible symptoms unlike my family and friends. The only person that can kind of relate is one of my sisters who is nine years older and had some of the deep muscle pain at times in her back, buttocks and upper legs for ten years. But she didn't have the host of other symptoms like me so it still feels very lonely a lot of the time.

      I have noticed most people close to me have stopped asking how I feel as I think they're tired of hearing it and they're missing the former strong me. My mom (almost 80) has never asked me once as I think it freaks her out. I too was that person you describe but am no longer for the most part.

      My bf has been great but I worry the stress this must put on him so I only tell him when I have to (like this weekend laid up on the couch with low back pain).

      On Tues I'm seeing my ND who I have asked for some suggestions on mental

      health practitioners who help provide tools for those dealing with chronic pain. This is a first for me so I'll see how it goes.

      Please know you're not alone. I'm so thankful for you, this community and the wonderful women who share their stories. I would be completely lost without this group.

      XO Karen

  • Posted

    Thank you for this information. I have been feeling depressed with all these menopause symptoms. I ALMOST completed a year with no period then 8 days b4 my year anniversary I SPOT. This has been going on for several years now. Now its headaches, Brain fog for 3 weeks now, lightheaded some dizziness, LOW vitamin D, immune system low, muscle cramps, minor knee swole, weight is up and down, back pain, blood pressure low to normal. I had blood work done and it just showed low vitamin D and my white count was low but it has been since starting this up and down menopause thing. The black cohash took the sweats completly away after about 30 days, THANK GOD! I have more symptoms that u mention I just don't want to take up more of ur time. My daughter says my eyes look weak. I hate menopause! Do you have any suggestions for any of these symptoms because most doctors don't know how to treat menopausal women. It sucks that we have to go through this crap. THANK YOU!

  • Posted

    Hey KJ/Karen,

    Thank you for the Thanksgiving wishes. Yes that would be a younger generation in the field you’re working in, which can be trying, in itself. They think it only lasts a year, that’s comical. I have not tried gluten-free, but I really want to. I know it makes all the difference with aches and pains, because gluten is poison, literally. I do have a lot of aches and pains, but I know if I completely eradicated my diet it would help. I have a friend who eats very clean and she still has just as many symptoms, really is not fair. Even though I have not had a period in a year, in the last 15+ years when I got my period, even now, my face looks so hard, I literally have more wrinkles, because when estrogen plummets, the wrinkles come in, I also look more pale. After a week it’s not so much that way. I am Danish/Swedish, so we don’t have good skin as far as say Italians, Greeks, Asian, Hispanic, African-American etc.., we produce less melanin( cry emoji here). I can see why women in their 50s get face lifts now. I’ve been thinking of you and I was wondering what the outcome was with the scleroderma. Sorry you have that stress. I did go through a period with the back as well, not fun, sorry you have alot of that:( It really is amazing how these hormones help and reak havoc on our bodies. I get a massage once a month, I really think it helps. You get the cold weather as well, my skin is so much worse in this weather, I feel like an old prune. It really can be a swinging pendulum with the symptoms, but I think they get worse at ovulation and menstruation, even if our bodies don’t do that anymore. Hope you’re having a blessed day 😃

  • Posted

    i have been speaking to good friend hormones and she has done a lot of research and spoken to various doctors etc. her research showed there are four groups of women and we all fall into those groups as to how we react to menopause. the one group that do not get symptoms are Chinese women which she thinks is down to the fact that so many have acupuncture and its a diet low in dairy and sugar. there was a tv programme in Uk this week, and they said the group that had lowest symptoms was Japanese women and their theory was due to,soya, so i am thinking about testing my perimenopausal symptoms over a four month period, so ill give feedback if i get positive results. h

  • Posted

    thank you for this information. you fill in the blanks that my gyn did not deem necessary to convey. 😃

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