66 Peri menopause / Menopause Symptoms you may experience which may help some ladies

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SIXTY-SIX PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS: Part one 1 - 49

These are very real physical changes and conditions. Some symptoms alarm a woman that she may be suffering from a serious disease. Perhaps you know the more common ones related to menopausal symptoms in this list. But many of these may surprise you, as they have not been typically associated with this normal physiological transformation. 

1. Change in Menstrual Cycle, Cycles may get closer together or farther apart, lighter and shorter in duration or much heavier, lasting longer than one has been accustomed to. Menses may seem to take forever to begin with dark spotting for days until you actually flow, or you might feel like you have your menses every two weeks.

2. Menstrual Flooding can come on with sudden onset and feel like you may hemorrhage to death. Or it can be a gradual build up just when you think your menses will end and you start gushing for days. Flooding commonly accompanies the woman with uterine fibroids as she transits into menopause.

3. Headaches, Migraines, especially before, during or at the end of your menses debilitate and radically interferes with normal functioning.

4. Decreased Motor Coordination, Clumsiness, almost begins to make the woman who experiences this feel like she is certainly less than graceful during perhaps an already awkward period in her life. 

5. Lethargy, a persistent feeling sluggishness physically and mentally, that seems to negate ones ability to do much. 

6. Physical Exhaustion , and Crushing Crashing Fatigue that can come on so suddenly and grip you into feeling like you will collapse unless you stop this instant.

7. Exacerbation of any Chronic Illness or Existing Condition transpires as hormones decline or deviate from their normal balance.

8. Insomnia, this includes a new or unusual pattern of either difficulty falling asleep, or dropping off to sleep for a few hours and then awakening with the inability to return to sleep.

9. Sleep Disturbances sometimes are from nightmares, night sweats, or just a vague sense of restlessness keeping you up or disrupting your precious revitalizing retreat from this realm of responsibilities.

10. Night Sweats often begin between a woman?s breasts, initially a night or two before her menses, waking her from sleep, later more profoundly disturbing with up to total body saturation, followed by damp or sweat drenched chills.

11. Interference With Dream Recall interrupts the sense of normal sleep, if you are someone accustomed to vivid or at least some detailed memory of your dreamtime. 

12. Muscle Cramps can occur anywhere in the body from legs to back to neck, and sometimes reflects the need for more calcium, or simply that your progesterone levels are too low. 

13. Low Backache often worsens before or during menses, but if your hormones remain at low levels, you can experience it on a regular basis.

14. Gall Bladder Symptoms of pain, spasms and discomfort felt in the right upper abdominal quadrant under the ribs, which may be accompanied by belching, bloating, and intolerance to certain foods reflect the increased liver load with declining hormones. 

15. Frequent Urination, or sensations that mimic urinary infections is a disturbing symptom often unrelieved by actual urination. It is often experienced as the sensation of needing to urinate all the time, even immediately afterwards.

16. Urinary Incontinence, the uncontrollable and spontaneous loss of urine, or the Urge for Incontinence, can occur suddenly or feel continuous, and not only in response to coughing, sneezing, jumping or running. 

17. Hypoglycemic Reactions happen when suddenly your blood sugar crashes and you must have food now.

18. Food Cravings, often for sweets or salty foods, but can include sour or pungent foods. 

19. Increased Appetite, especially at night and after dinner contributes to that unusual and unwanted weight gain.

20. Dark Circles Under Eyes can also be caused by adrenal exhaustion and thyroid dysfunctions, but no amount of sleep seems to eliminate it. 

21. Joint and Muscle Pain, Achy, Sore Joints, Muscles and Tendons, which sometimes develop into actual carpal tunnel syndrome, or give rise to the questioning of other disease possibilities.

22. Increased Tension in Muscles demonstrates itself in those hunched up shoulders as you work or talk about anything uncomfortable, along with promoting lower back pain and a stiff neck.

23. Increased Hair Loss or Thinning anywhere on body, including your head, armpits, pubic area.

24. Increase in Facial Hair especially under your chin, or along your jaw line. It may be defined by generalized hair growth, or a specific and coarse single strand of hair that pokes out, even curls. 

25. Unusually Hair Growth, around Nipples, between Breasts, down your back, places where your hair was finer, less coarse.

26. Acne, quite disturbing to any woman who dealt with this in adolescence and never thought it would recur. 

27. Infertility causes grief in the woman who postponed pregnancy in her earlier years and now wishes to conceive, carry to term a healthy baby, and discovers she is unable to do so. 

28. Loss of Breast Tissue begins with the decrease of progesterone production. Women often feel as though their breast have become empty sacs devoid of their normal fullness, with or without sagging.

29. Breast Soreness/Tenderness/Pain/ Engorgement and swelling, occurs particularly a few days to one week before bleeding actually begins, which usually potentiates complete relief of any pain or swelling.

30. Painful, or tender nipples have been described as this exquisite localized pain only in the nipples and suggests estrogen excess. 

31. Cold Extremities feels quite strange especially in the presence of a hot flash, the combination of which is not impossible.

32. Being Accident Prone, bumping into things, not even realizing it until the bruise reveals itself later and then lacking the ability to recall the causative incident feels perplexing and a little scary at the prospect of something more damaging. 

33. Hot flashes initially may be described as mild to severe flushes of heat waves, and for some women these evolve into intense outbreaks of sudden heat with sweating and turning bright red all over. 

34. Loss of Sexual Energy, our Libido, can be marked by a gradual or sudden disinterest in sex, to the development of an actual aversion. 

35. Painful Sex often described as if one?s vagina would tear open at the point of penetration along with feelings of abrasion during intercourse.

36. Vaginal Dryness, Irritation, sometimes accompanied by a consistent unusual discharge - typically odor free, negates a woman?s ability to be sexually active, or able to enjoy or be comfortable in her body.

37. Dizziness, feeling lightheaded and the loss of physical balance, and even a bit wobbling at times, requires pause in movement to prevent falling over or deepening into vertigo or feeling faint.

38. Ringing in the Ears, Tinnitus, can be experienced as a pulsing sensation, a whooshing sound, an almost musical or buzzing sound with a fuzzy sensation.

39. Abdominal Bloating comes on suddenly often after eating, or seems to be all the time, and can be visibly evident making you feel that you look like you are pregnant. 

40. Weight Gain disturbs most women, particularly when it seems to happen over a couple of days, settles in the waist, buttocks and thighs, promoting a visceral thickening from the waist down, the classic middle-aged figure.

41. Fluid Retention, Edema, commonly with swelling in the legs and ankles, though not limited to this area and it is unrelieved by urination.

42. Palpitations or Heart Racing usually comes on suddenly, without warning or provocation, and dissipates spontaneously. The experience can be so wild and intense that a woman may become alarmed and wonder if she is having a heart attack. 

43. Irregularities in your Heart Rate may feel more like your heart has just done a flip-flop or skipped a beat.

44. Constipation/Diarrhea, intermittent or alternating, results from declining hormone levels, which increase the demands on liver function and alters intestinal motility.

45. Tendency towards Candidiasis can increase, even if you have no prior known history ? and if you do, it may worsen.

46. Gastrointestinal Distress, Increased Flatulence, Unrelieved Gas pains, Indigestion, Nausea all can reflect intestinal changes due to hormonal imbalances.

47. Slow Digestion often goes along with the bloat ? what previously took four to five hours to digest, now seems to take all night. It seems worse in the evenings.

48. Lack of Appetite may be experienced as more of a lack of interest in food, going to the frig and standing there with the door open and staring blankly. Feeling completely uninspired, you busy yourself with something else and forget that you need to eat.

49. Changes in Body Odor especially disturbing when it seems to focus in the groin area, but can be anywhere on the body.

50. Puffy Eyes, not only from sleep disturbances, but also can accompany low progesterone.

51. Facial Pallor alternating with Facial Flushes is often intermittent with hot flashes.

52. Flare up of Arthritis worsens with low progesterone levels and increase sugar intake.

53. Loss of Bone Density, Osteoporosis, is not only an elderly woman?s disease, though it seems to develop over an extended period and is triggered by the decline of hormone production.

54. Dry Hair, Change in Skin Tone, Integrity, and Texture, becomes more wrinkled, and may begin the thinning process.

55. Changes in your Fingernails characterized by easy breakage, bending, cracking and getting softer.

56. Itchy, Crawly Skin with a strange sensation like insects crawling around under the skin ? quite different than the dry skin feeling.

57. Muscle tone seems to slack and sag, and loose its previous response to normal exercise.

58. Pelvic Pain can be random and independent of cycles and may feel continuous for some women.

59. Dry, Itchy Eyes felt in the deep posterior aspect of the eye socket, as well as superficially.

60. Teeth Aching or the experience of a strange sensation in one?s teeth or gums, often accompanied by an increase in bleeding gums.

61. Change in the normal Tongue sensation, which can be accompanied by a feeling of burning in your tongue and roof of mouth, malodorous breath or change in breath odor, and/or a bad taste in your mouth.

62. Memory Loss or Lapses in time, makes one feel disoriented and less focused, especially when you go into another room to get something specific and seconds later cannot remember what you went to retrieve.

63. Feeling Faint for no known reason (this does not include standing up too quickly)

64. Tingling in Extremities not only feels weird and like your hands or feet are falling asleep, but if persistent can be a symptom of diabetes, B12, potassium or calcium deficiency, or a compromise in blood vessel flexibility.

65. Sensation of Electrical Stimulation,or Shock occurring in the tissue under the skin, and may signal you that a hot flash will begin.

66. Increase and worsening of Allergies occurs as hormones become imbalanced, so can our immune system.

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  • Posted

    Hi everyone,

    I've been reading through all of the posts since my last visit when I hadn't fully started menopause. I think I have now though. My periods were 6 weeks apart, lasting for up to 3 weeks and unbelievably heavy. So it's now around 10 weeks since my last one and night sweats and hot flushes are frequent and ferocious 😔

    What I wanted to ask you ladies, is it normal to feel exhausted? I've just got over a cold so wasn't sure if it was that causing it. Last night I also kept waking up gasping for breath and in a panic. Does this sound familiar? I'm taking A vogal menopause support. Can any of you recommend anything else that can help too? Thank you ladies

    • Posted

      Hi Amanda

      My past period was about 2 months ago and just like you the past couple weeks im waking feeling panicked and bad hot flashes..

      Lisa suggested wearing only cotton material pjs, and since i did a few days ago still i got them but not as severe .

      I do have days that i feel really tired , but my major issue is horrible headaches and frozen lime shoulders.

      Its been over 8 years for me and i cant wait to see if there is an ending to this madness

      Feel better xxxxx

    • Posted

      And of course vision issues i cant see what im writing so im sorry for all the misspelling errors😉

    • Posted

      Thanks so much, that's put my mind at ease. I've got the fuzzy headache too. I feel like I've got a band around my head. I've also got a lot of aches in my joints too. It's good to know I'm not going nuts!

    • Posted

      No you are not or we all going nuts together 😂 thats how my headaches are ..joint pain i dont get them as often as before which they use to last weeks at the time!! Now it could be from couple of hours to sometimes a few days..

    • Posted

      Same with me. My limbs feel like they're made of lead and everything is an effort. I'm also starting to tear up at ridiculous things. This is part of the menopause I've been expecting! Oh the joys of being a woman 😂

    • Posted

      If you dont mind me asking, for how long are you going through this craziness? The first 4 years i had that lost feeling always sad i use to tear up if i would see a dead animal on the side of the road..thank god that all stopped. Now i have 3 symptoms left with me, headaches body aches and feeling anxious / fast heart beat!!

    • Posted

      I've had the symptoms on and off for around 4 years, but they've really started ferociously in the last week

  • Posted

    Well ladies, I just did not go to that doctor. I started getting sick just thinking about having to go. I have decided that I am working on myself and just do not want to be put on pills. I am too stubborn and have seen what taking pills every day does to family members. So far, this is day eight and I have not had any attacks, just by changing my diet. I am still awaiting my period tho and pmsing.

    • Posted

      Hey Tonya...that’s weird... they deleted my comment to you, that’s never been done to me before...ummmm

    • Posted

      They deleted a post that I tried to make that had a link to a Dr who talks about menopause. So, I guess some things are off limits to them.

    • Posted

      Morning Tonya...Oh I see... Hope you’re having a good day:)

  • Posted

    For those of you who have joint pain - what helps? I am having low back pain and SI joint pain that comes and goes. It is not interfering with my daily activities except that it is annoying and when it hurts, it hurts! Ibuprofen, staying hydrated and moderate exercise seem to help, and my dr suggested that I go see a sports medicine doctor and possibly get physical therapy, but I'm not sure if that's really what I need at this point. Just wondering if anyone has any tips. Thanks.

    • Posted

      Hi Sarah,

      I have suffered from this for years. Years ago in my mid 30's (I am 50) I had an x ray because of lower back pain. My diagnosis what degenerative disc disease which to me (my husband was diagnosed with the same thing) means I am getting old. Really nothing to do for it for me. It would come and go. I have issues now, mainly because I am overweight. I also had an MRI done while I had been hospitalized by another issue. I have moderate (at that time) spinal stenosis in my neck, which causes me problems, like tingling and numbness. It also can be an age related issue. Mine wasn't severe enough for me to consider surgery, but ironically my neurologist (think Steven Wright personality lol) said just don't get in rear ended accident. (Throw neck forward). Geez like I have any control over that.

      The joint pain for me is worse when I eat any sugar e.g., cookies and chocolate, anything sweet. I feel it in my knees and fingers. That is just me personally.

      Lower sodium helps too for me so that I am not retaining so much fluid around my joints. Hydration is very important.

      I have never had physical therapy....yet. (knock on wood). You may want to keep a log when it starts to bother you. Food, the way you may be sitting, and does it happen certain times of the month, or does it feel more random...

      My low back pain, is my weight and I have to really remind myself of my posture especially sitting in front of my computer.

      Sitting up straight helps me. chondroitin and glucosamine works for some. I haven't taken it for any length of time to notice a different.

      Hope you get relief.

    • Posted

      Thank you for sharing your story - this is so helpful! 😃

    • Posted

      Hey Sarah... stay away from sugar, caffeine, additives and preservatives, that makes it much worse. including wine, especially red wine, the tannins really agitate inflammation. are use natural rubs for the pain and liquid gel ADVIL. Also realize your limitations with work in your yard or around the house, up and down the stairs a lot, etc. Realize when you have to rest and take it easy. I have realized that the weather also affects it, barometric pressure etc. Also try to keep notes on the calendar to see if its worse at your time of ovulation and at your period, if you don’t have your period anymore it still follows the same pattern... at ovulation when the hormones rage and when we used to get our periods the hormones rage, even though we don’t get it. Unfortunately we still get those same symptoms. stay positive and hang in there 😃

    • Posted

      Thanks, Lisa! You and Keljo48 have given me lots of good tips! I think what really gets me is the unpredictability of it - some days I am fine, and other days I am in pain...

    • Posted

      Morning Sarah, so glad I can help. I know what you mean about the good and bad days and it can be extremely extremely frustrating. Because you honestly get it again why the F do we even have to go through this? that’s why I think you should market on the calendar, it may be hormone related but again unfortunately the weather has I think a lot to do with it also. If you can have your hormones tested talk to your doctor about that, but do you have a pharmacist that can compound cream. I have a pharmacist that does hormone cream compounding. That could really help you. The only problem with that is that you have to keep doing and I think every few months. And honestly I don’t know how that works with the hormones fluctuating so much, but I know it does work. my friend in the city got what’s called P.E.T., it’s progesterone, estrogen, testosterone, they inject it into the glutes. It’s a quick procedure and does wonders. But it depends on how uncomfortable you are. I’ve never messed with hormones because I don’t want to go down the road, I want to do everything as natural as possible. But the PET insert, for lack of better words it’s not an answered I believe it’s hormone pellets, is bio identical so it’s safe. Unfortunately I don’t have anyone in my area to do it but I’m also about a year and a half into menopause. Also watch what materials you wear, try to wear like cotton and natural materials. If you wear spandex, polyester, Lycra, you can instigate hot flashes and those materials mimic estrogen. I know that sounds nuts but a friend of mine learned that at a seminar. I got one of those TENS units, at the store, from the product Icy Hot, I really like it. You can get it from any pharmacy, Walmart, CVS etc. just remember, you’re not alone, it helps to remember we’re not alone 😉

    • Posted

      cutting out grains definitely helps mine and lots of fast walking even though Im exhausted

    • Posted

      Hi Sarah,

      Yes, the joint pain can get unbearable but stubborn me has finally learned that if I cut the sugar and sodium, it helps a lot. Today, I was able to stand in a store without pain in my hip and knee. I cut it back since the 5th of February and I can tell the difference already.

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