66 Peri menopause / Menopause Symptoms you may experience which may help some ladies

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SIXTY-SIX PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS: Part one 1 - 49

These are very real physical changes and conditions. Some symptoms alarm a woman that she may be suffering from a serious disease. Perhaps you know the more common ones related to menopausal symptoms in this list. But many of these may surprise you, as they have not been typically associated with this normal physiological transformation. 

1. Change in Menstrual Cycle, Cycles may get closer together or farther apart, lighter and shorter in duration or much heavier, lasting longer than one has been accustomed to. Menses may seem to take forever to begin with dark spotting for days until you actually flow, or you might feel like you have your menses every two weeks.

2. Menstrual Flooding can come on with sudden onset and feel like you may hemorrhage to death. Or it can be a gradual build up just when you think your menses will end and you start gushing for days. Flooding commonly accompanies the woman with uterine fibroids as she transits into menopause.

3. Headaches, Migraines, especially before, during or at the end of your menses debilitate and radically interferes with normal functioning.

4. Decreased Motor Coordination, Clumsiness, almost begins to make the woman who experiences this feel like she is certainly less than graceful during perhaps an already awkward period in her life. 

5. Lethargy, a persistent feeling sluggishness physically and mentally, that seems to negate ones ability to do much. 

6. Physical Exhaustion , and Crushing Crashing Fatigue that can come on so suddenly and grip you into feeling like you will collapse unless you stop this instant.

7. Exacerbation of any Chronic Illness or Existing Condition transpires as hormones decline or deviate from their normal balance.

8. Insomnia, this includes a new or unusual pattern of either difficulty falling asleep, or dropping off to sleep for a few hours and then awakening with the inability to return to sleep.

9. Sleep Disturbances sometimes are from nightmares, night sweats, or just a vague sense of restlessness keeping you up or disrupting your precious revitalizing retreat from this realm of responsibilities.

10. Night Sweats often begin between a woman?s breasts, initially a night or two before her menses, waking her from sleep, later more profoundly disturbing with up to total body saturation, followed by damp or sweat drenched chills.

11. Interference With Dream Recall interrupts the sense of normal sleep, if you are someone accustomed to vivid or at least some detailed memory of your dreamtime. 

12. Muscle Cramps can occur anywhere in the body from legs to back to neck, and sometimes reflects the need for more calcium, or simply that your progesterone levels are too low. 

13. Low Backache often worsens before or during menses, but if your hormones remain at low levels, you can experience it on a regular basis.

14. Gall Bladder Symptoms of pain, spasms and discomfort felt in the right upper abdominal quadrant under the ribs, which may be accompanied by belching, bloating, and intolerance to certain foods reflect the increased liver load with declining hormones. 

15. Frequent Urination, or sensations that mimic urinary infections is a disturbing symptom often unrelieved by actual urination. It is often experienced as the sensation of needing to urinate all the time, even immediately afterwards.

16. Urinary Incontinence, the uncontrollable and spontaneous loss of urine, or the Urge for Incontinence, can occur suddenly or feel continuous, and not only in response to coughing, sneezing, jumping or running. 

17. Hypoglycemic Reactions happen when suddenly your blood sugar crashes and you must have food now.

18. Food Cravings, often for sweets or salty foods, but can include sour or pungent foods. 

19. Increased Appetite, especially at night and after dinner contributes to that unusual and unwanted weight gain.

20. Dark Circles Under Eyes can also be caused by adrenal exhaustion and thyroid dysfunctions, but no amount of sleep seems to eliminate it. 

21. Joint and Muscle Pain, Achy, Sore Joints, Muscles and Tendons, which sometimes develop into actual carpal tunnel syndrome, or give rise to the questioning of other disease possibilities.

22. Increased Tension in Muscles demonstrates itself in those hunched up shoulders as you work or talk about anything uncomfortable, along with promoting lower back pain and a stiff neck.

23. Increased Hair Loss or Thinning anywhere on body, including your head, armpits, pubic area.

24. Increase in Facial Hair especially under your chin, or along your jaw line. It may be defined by generalized hair growth, or a specific and coarse single strand of hair that pokes out, even curls. 

25. Unusually Hair Growth, around Nipples, between Breasts, down your back, places where your hair was finer, less coarse.

26. Acne, quite disturbing to any woman who dealt with this in adolescence and never thought it would recur. 

27. Infertility causes grief in the woman who postponed pregnancy in her earlier years and now wishes to conceive, carry to term a healthy baby, and discovers she is unable to do so. 

28. Loss of Breast Tissue begins with the decrease of progesterone production. Women often feel as though their breast have become empty sacs devoid of their normal fullness, with or without sagging.

29. Breast Soreness/Tenderness/Pain/ Engorgement and swelling, occurs particularly a few days to one week before bleeding actually begins, which usually potentiates complete relief of any pain or swelling.

30. Painful, or tender nipples have been described as this exquisite localized pain only in the nipples and suggests estrogen excess. 

31. Cold Extremities feels quite strange especially in the presence of a hot flash, the combination of which is not impossible.

32. Being Accident Prone, bumping into things, not even realizing it until the bruise reveals itself later and then lacking the ability to recall the causative incident feels perplexing and a little scary at the prospect of something more damaging. 

33. Hot flashes initially may be described as mild to severe flushes of heat waves, and for some women these evolve into intense outbreaks of sudden heat with sweating and turning bright red all over. 

34. Loss of Sexual Energy, our Libido, can be marked by a gradual or sudden disinterest in sex, to the development of an actual aversion. 

35. Painful Sex often described as if one?s vagina would tear open at the point of penetration along with feelings of abrasion during intercourse.

36. Vaginal Dryness, Irritation, sometimes accompanied by a consistent unusual discharge - typically odor free, negates a woman?s ability to be sexually active, or able to enjoy or be comfortable in her body.

37. Dizziness, feeling lightheaded and the loss of physical balance, and even a bit wobbling at times, requires pause in movement to prevent falling over or deepening into vertigo or feeling faint.

38. Ringing in the Ears, Tinnitus, can be experienced as a pulsing sensation, a whooshing sound, an almost musical or buzzing sound with a fuzzy sensation.

39. Abdominal Bloating comes on suddenly often after eating, or seems to be all the time, and can be visibly evident making you feel that you look like you are pregnant. 

40. Weight Gain disturbs most women, particularly when it seems to happen over a couple of days, settles in the waist, buttocks and thighs, promoting a visceral thickening from the waist down, the classic middle-aged figure.

41. Fluid Retention, Edema, commonly with swelling in the legs and ankles, though not limited to this area and it is unrelieved by urination.

42. Palpitations or Heart Racing usually comes on suddenly, without warning or provocation, and dissipates spontaneously. The experience can be so wild and intense that a woman may become alarmed and wonder if she is having a heart attack. 

43. Irregularities in your Heart Rate may feel more like your heart has just done a flip-flop or skipped a beat.

44. Constipation/Diarrhea, intermittent or alternating, results from declining hormone levels, which increase the demands on liver function and alters intestinal motility.

45. Tendency towards Candidiasis can increase, even if you have no prior known history ? and if you do, it may worsen.

46. Gastrointestinal Distress, Increased Flatulence, Unrelieved Gas pains, Indigestion, Nausea all can reflect intestinal changes due to hormonal imbalances.

47. Slow Digestion often goes along with the bloat ? what previously took four to five hours to digest, now seems to take all night. It seems worse in the evenings.

48. Lack of Appetite may be experienced as more of a lack of interest in food, going to the frig and standing there with the door open and staring blankly. Feeling completely uninspired, you busy yourself with something else and forget that you need to eat.

49. Changes in Body Odor especially disturbing when it seems to focus in the groin area, but can be anywhere on the body.

50. Puffy Eyes, not only from sleep disturbances, but also can accompany low progesterone.

51. Facial Pallor alternating with Facial Flushes is often intermittent with hot flashes.

52. Flare up of Arthritis worsens with low progesterone levels and increase sugar intake.

53. Loss of Bone Density, Osteoporosis, is not only an elderly woman?s disease, though it seems to develop over an extended period and is triggered by the decline of hormone production.

54. Dry Hair, Change in Skin Tone, Integrity, and Texture, becomes more wrinkled, and may begin the thinning process.

55. Changes in your Fingernails characterized by easy breakage, bending, cracking and getting softer.

56. Itchy, Crawly Skin with a strange sensation like insects crawling around under the skin ? quite different than the dry skin feeling.

57. Muscle tone seems to slack and sag, and loose its previous response to normal exercise.

58. Pelvic Pain can be random and independent of cycles and may feel continuous for some women.

59. Dry, Itchy Eyes felt in the deep posterior aspect of the eye socket, as well as superficially.

60. Teeth Aching or the experience of a strange sensation in one?s teeth or gums, often accompanied by an increase in bleeding gums.

61. Change in the normal Tongue sensation, which can be accompanied by a feeling of burning in your tongue and roof of mouth, malodorous breath or change in breath odor, and/or a bad taste in your mouth.

62. Memory Loss or Lapses in time, makes one feel disoriented and less focused, especially when you go into another room to get something specific and seconds later cannot remember what you went to retrieve.

63. Feeling Faint for no known reason (this does not include standing up too quickly)

64. Tingling in Extremities not only feels weird and like your hands or feet are falling asleep, but if persistent can be a symptom of diabetes, B12, potassium or calcium deficiency, or a compromise in blood vessel flexibility.

65. Sensation of Electrical Stimulation,or Shock occurring in the tissue under the skin, and may signal you that a hot flash will begin.

66. Increase and worsening of Allergies occurs as hormones become imbalanced, so can our immune system.

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    I would definetly add anxiety over health , panic attacks / night dreads as well as depression and feeling like must be going crazy to this list .

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      Ιm dealing with all of these for the past 9 years!!!! Period stopped for 4 months, thinking im done and just got it again a week ago!!

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    Does anyone else suddenly have a really odd scared feeling come over you? its hard to describe....sort of weak and shaky but not visibly so, conscious of my breathing as if having to force it, and i often have to rush to the loo it tends to happen when my hormones are coming down towards a period my heart doesnt race though like a panic attack. So sick of all these weird symptoms. And one cheek and/or ear starts burning randomly!

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      Emma, I use to get that feeling all the time still do but not as often..i know exactly what you mean, specially the breathing part its so scary... My dr had said was my anxiety!! No one knows..the other night, i had it but i made the mistake to take my bp and usually is 110/60, the time this was going on my bp went to 150/89..and a day later i got my period. Its all hormonal.

      No one ever mentioned how hard would be going through the change...

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      Thanks...good to know its not just me. Some women i mention peri to, laugh and say im being a hypochondriac...but honestly having a reason for all the weirdness is better than thinking of the host of other serious illnesses i sometimes think I've got! Doctor blames it all in my anxiety too...but that was always manageable before all the rest of the stuff started! I haven't got a BP monitor. I'd be constantly checking and worrying about it!

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      LOL!! Don't..every time i get a headache, i stress about something, feeling anxious i think is my BP so i will take it.. my husband rolls his eyes all the time ..after 9 years having the same symptoms over and over still is times i will think that something serious wrong...

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    Me too! The thought of this lasting for years fills me with horror. I'm hoping for an early finish like my nan I had a full week of night sweats last month. Vertigo and ectopics all day today, spent ages trying to get all the hairs out of my chin!

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      Im going through this for the past 9 years!! its been crazy , bad days and a few good once in between..

      every week something different!

      i had a glass a wine today , this is my 2nd time the past 9 years and i feel so sick right now , my pulse is like 94 my entire body aching and so anxious!

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      You are not alone. I have been reading everyone's posts/comments and count another here as having a bad time at the moment. Things have been quiet for a while and just recently my husband and I moved and these couple of days have been rotten for me. UGH! Digestive problems, the numb and tingling sensations of my limbs, a lot of hair loss, although, my hair is thick and long, it sheds like a cat's fur. Vision issues and not being able to sleep and when I sleep, I have nightmares about people dying. Sighs. Sending hugs to you and everyone else that is suffering thru these hormonal tides.

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      thanks for this site and you all ladies...

      i know what you mean last year i had afew good months and out of nowhere everything started again..for me the worst is the anxiety, health fears and like you weird dreams up all hours, emotional heart pulse all over the place. im hoping it would be over soon. last period 3 months ago!

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      I'm with you Maria, Tonya and others here. I had almost four good months as I didn't have a period mid Jan til mid May. My symptoms were almost non existant. I was feeling myself again. I had a scheduled appt with a gyne early May and decided to go as had waited five months for it. She said it appeared I was in menopause but if my period came back to see her right away as the pain was pointing to endometriosis (lots of muscle pain and tingling etc). It came back with a vengeance including all my symptoms (anxiety, digestion, all the muscle stuff) shortly after I saw her. My worst period ever where I used five big pads during a work day. Back to the gyne who gave me a daily progestin pill to try to get me through this time of life. I don't like taking these meds but I need to try something as the pain meds I take are really strong and affect me cognitively. Not sure the meds are working (yet?) as I'm currently up almost at midnight dealing with muscle and stomach cramping and I have to work tomorrow. Sigh.

      However feeling good for four months has me hopeful this will truly be over one day. Big hugs to all the strong women on here xo

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      Hey KJ... have you ever tried a castor oil pack, they’re very easy to make, Google it. Put it over the area where they think the endometriosis and the cramping is. It helps to remove toxins and eases cramps and muscle tissue pain. Also Essential Oils, I think lavender would be good for that, but you could look into them. Hoping you’re on the mend 😉

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      Hi Maria, I can we not have anxiety with all of these unexpected symptoms that are sneaking in and out of our lives, oh dear, just like you I had a few good months when you think it's all over some new weir symptom comes and we have to re-set everything from where we started. sending hugs and comfort your way.

      Lexie,

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      thank you so much Lexi. 9 years is a long time to deal with it..sometimes i feel i'm two people LOL!! the one that pretends everything is fine and go on with family and work , and the other one that is in constant fear of each crazy symptom pops up and wondering whats next. um doing everything eating healthy lost 20 lbs , no alcohol no caffeine no fatty foods no sugar but there are days that are so horrible !

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    Hello, I'm new to this forum but i find it very helpful. I have experience most of the symptoms, but going through a rough time with my anxiety and also depression. I feel like I'm dying half the time. My family some what understands but they are supportive. I have a question has anyone experienced any tingling numbness on chest or back? Sometimes goes all the way to my scalp. Sometimes feel spots of tingling in my arms too? Could this be a sign of B-12 dificiency?

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      I had that, my blood work showed low in B12 and D..so im taking b12 shot once a month and i take 5000 D..

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      Hi,

      I've been getting numbness and then pins and needles in my hands and feet and for me this happens at night and it wakes me up. sometimes its really bad and goes up my whole arm. its really frightening. My doctor seems stumped and when I mentioned peri (I have a lot of other symptoms too) she said it can't be that. I suffer from anxiety too, so she gave me SSRIs (haven't taken them). the only things my bloods showed were iron deficiency and Vit D deficiency. I don't think it's related to the iron deficiency as I've been anaemic before so maybe it's related to Vit D? I've just started taking Maca as I saw on another forum that had helped another lady with something similar. HTH!

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      @Sw62355 i get similar. I wake up in the night with an arm numb or less often my leg. It goes when I move it but yes i agree its frightening! I have had iron and vit d deficiency in the past too but sorting those out hasnt made a difference. My doc said same as you. I think it is peri.

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      @Yogio1 yes I've had that. On my back and backs of legs, I think its anxiety. I also have bad anxiety and often worry I'm dying! Have you tried CBT?

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      Anxiety can be so horrible.

      Mine has eased so much after giving up alcohol and seeing a CBT therapist.

      I also know someone who found EFT worked. (Emotional Freedom Technique).

      @yogi01, CBT is Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. 🙂

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      hi...its cognitive behavioural therapy. You can go to a therapist for it but van also learn principles at home from a book or app on your phone even!

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      hi emma91040, thanks for the reply. I feel fairly certain now it's yet another peri symptom :0(

      I know having anxiety doesnt help but am sure it's not the cause. I feel better knowing am not the only one going thru this (although I wouldnt wish it on anyone!). Let's hope it goes soon. I cant wait to feel normal again!

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      Hello Kat, 5-HTP & L-THEANINE work very well for Anxiety and also at bedtime. Seems like we have to eliminate any bad habits out of our life at this time, caffeine, sugar, alcohol. have a great day !

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      Thanks Lisa. I don't get too much anxiety now, totally sympathise with people that do though. I've found some meditations that help.

      You're right, anything that tastes good is out! The weight is my problem, even after cutting things out. 🤔........and tiredness, lethargy. The head wants to do loads but the body won't join in! Attitude and Gratitude pulls me through. Trying to stay positive and being grateful for the good things. Not how you feel when you're in the thick of it all though. This too will pass. 🤞

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      Hi, I know what you mean about the numbness, and tingling extremities and waking up at night with a numb arm or leg or half of your body feeling numb and you panic thinking you had a stroke only for it to just as suddenly go away and leave you panicking but ok. Do you ever get pain in your left shoulder and arm like you are having a heart attack? I do this and when I go to the ER, my heart is okay but they say it is panic. These issues that happen out of the blue nearly every month are enough to cause anyone to panic. I have been going through the worst part of this stuff since 2011 and will be 49 this fall if nothing happens. Sometimes the issues will go away and not return for months, only to return full force and scare the crap out of me. One thing about it, reading about other's experiences has a calming effect upon me. I'm sorry that you and every one of us has to suffer through these issues, but know that we are not alone.

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      Morning Tonya...That pain in your shoulder and arm, is it frozen shoulder or does it leave just as quick as it comes? Frozen shoulder is called “50s shoulder“ in Chinese medicine, because frozen shoulder is so common amongst menopausal women, approaching their 50s or in their 50s. Mine was very bad last year and my massage therapist was able to work it out and another friend of mine uses acupuncture. in holistic terms if you Google frozen shoulder it says that women who get it feel burdened or put upon. I know I was feeling that immensely when it happened to me. That’s why I think we women go through this time in our life, I think it’s meant for us, to change and better our lives. That is if we are self-aware and notice the signs. Women are the doers and the gatherers, and it just gets to be too much 😉

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      Hi Lisa, That is interesting information. It starts like arthritis and moves down my arm and lasts a long while. It mimics a heart attack while I feel sick at my gut. It put me in the hospital in February but my heart was fine.

      Now, I have an arthritis type pain that makes it difficult to raise my left arm too high.

      Another blight to deal with as I go through this ordeal.

      How have you been?

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      Hi, yes that's exactly how I am when I wake up at night with a 'dead' limb! It's awful. I can't say I've ever had that problem you describe with your shoulder and arm but I know that anxiety does cause physical symptoms which in turn make you worry more, so it's a vicious circle! I'm 49 and have had various peri symptoms for nearly 5 years now but this year has been the worst so far. This forum definitely helps me feel less crazy - I have days when I wonder if I'm losing my mind ...

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      The doctors say it is panic and that pain attacks mimic heart attacks and make all existing issues worse. It is a never ending cycle. How does one experience health issues without panicking? Just thinking about dying makes a lot of people freak out and the thought zigzags thru my brain when I feel sick. I hope you don't have to experience the arm/ shoulder pain.

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