66 Peri menopause / Menopause Symptoms you may experience which may help some ladies
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SIXTY-SIX PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS: Part one 1 - 49
These are very real physical changes and conditions. Some symptoms alarm a woman that she may be suffering from a serious disease. Perhaps you know the more common ones related to menopausal symptoms in this list. But many of these may surprise you, as they have not been typically associated with this normal physiological transformation.
1. Change in Menstrual Cycle, Cycles may get closer together or farther apart, lighter and shorter in duration or much heavier, lasting longer than one has been accustomed to. Menses may seem to take forever to begin with dark spotting for days until you actually flow, or you might feel like you have your menses every two weeks.
2. Menstrual Flooding can come on with sudden onset and feel like you may hemorrhage to death. Or it can be a gradual build up just when you think your menses will end and you start gushing for days. Flooding commonly accompanies the woman with uterine fibroids as she transits into menopause.
3. Headaches, Migraines, especially before, during or at the end of your menses debilitate and radically interferes with normal functioning.
4. Decreased Motor Coordination, Clumsiness, almost begins to make the woman who experiences this feel like she is certainly less than graceful during perhaps an already awkward period in her life.
5. Lethargy, a persistent feeling sluggishness physically and mentally, that seems to negate ones ability to do much.
6. Physical Exhaustion , and Crushing Crashing Fatigue that can come on so suddenly and grip you into feeling like you will collapse unless you stop this instant.
7. Exacerbation of any Chronic Illness or Existing Condition transpires as hormones decline or deviate from their normal balance.
8. Insomnia, this includes a new or unusual pattern of either difficulty falling asleep, or dropping off to sleep for a few hours and then awakening with the inability to return to sleep.
9. Sleep Disturbances sometimes are from nightmares, night sweats, or just a vague sense of restlessness keeping you up or disrupting your precious revitalizing retreat from this realm of responsibilities.
10. Night Sweats often begin between a woman?s breasts, initially a night or two before her menses, waking her from sleep, later more profoundly disturbing with up to total body saturation, followed by damp or sweat drenched chills.
11. Interference With Dream Recall interrupts the sense of normal sleep, if you are someone accustomed to vivid or at least some detailed memory of your dreamtime.
12. Muscle Cramps can occur anywhere in the body from legs to back to neck, and sometimes reflects the need for more calcium, or simply that your progesterone levels are too low.
13. Low Backache often worsens before or during menses, but if your hormones remain at low levels, you can experience it on a regular basis.
14. Gall Bladder Symptoms of pain, spasms and discomfort felt in the right upper abdominal quadrant under the ribs, which may be accompanied by belching, bloating, and intolerance to certain foods reflect the increased liver load with declining hormones.
15. Frequent Urination, or sensations that mimic urinary infections is a disturbing symptom often unrelieved by actual urination. It is often experienced as the sensation of needing to urinate all the time, even immediately afterwards.
16. Urinary Incontinence, the uncontrollable and spontaneous loss of urine, or the Urge for Incontinence, can occur suddenly or feel continuous, and not only in response to coughing, sneezing, jumping or running.
17. Hypoglycemic Reactions happen when suddenly your blood sugar crashes and you must have food now.
18. Food Cravings, often for sweets or salty foods, but can include sour or pungent foods.
19. Increased Appetite, especially at night and after dinner contributes to that unusual and unwanted weight gain.
20. Dark Circles Under Eyes can also be caused by adrenal exhaustion and thyroid dysfunctions, but no amount of sleep seems to eliminate it.
21. Joint and Muscle Pain, Achy, Sore Joints, Muscles and Tendons, which sometimes develop into actual carpal tunnel syndrome, or give rise to the questioning of other disease possibilities.
22. Increased Tension in Muscles demonstrates itself in those hunched up shoulders as you work or talk about anything uncomfortable, along with promoting lower back pain and a stiff neck.
23. Increased Hair Loss or Thinning anywhere on body, including your head, armpits, pubic area.
24. Increase in Facial Hair especially under your chin, or along your jaw line. It may be defined by generalized hair growth, or a specific and coarse single strand of hair that pokes out, even curls.
25. Unusually Hair Growth, around Nipples, between Breasts, down your back, places where your hair was finer, less coarse.
26. Acne, quite disturbing to any woman who dealt with this in adolescence and never thought it would recur.
27. Infertility causes grief in the woman who postponed pregnancy in her earlier years and now wishes to conceive, carry to term a healthy baby, and discovers she is unable to do so.
28. Loss of Breast Tissue begins with the decrease of progesterone production. Women often feel as though their breast have become empty sacs devoid of their normal fullness, with or without sagging.
29. Breast Soreness/Tenderness/Pain/ Engorgement and swelling, occurs particularly a few days to one week before bleeding actually begins, which usually potentiates complete relief of any pain or swelling.
30. Painful, or tender nipples have been described as this exquisite localized pain only in the nipples and suggests estrogen excess.
31. Cold Extremities feels quite strange especially in the presence of a hot flash, the combination of which is not impossible.
32. Being Accident Prone, bumping into things, not even realizing it until the bruise reveals itself later and then lacking the ability to recall the causative incident feels perplexing and a little scary at the prospect of something more damaging.
33. Hot flashes initially may be described as mild to severe flushes of heat waves, and for some women these evolve into intense outbreaks of sudden heat with sweating and turning bright red all over.
34. Loss of Sexual Energy, our Libido, can be marked by a gradual or sudden disinterest in sex, to the development of an actual aversion.
35. Painful Sex often described as if one?s vagina would tear open at the point of penetration along with feelings of abrasion during intercourse.
36. Vaginal Dryness, Irritation, sometimes accompanied by a consistent unusual discharge - typically odor free, negates a woman?s ability to be sexually active, or able to enjoy or be comfortable in her body.
37. Dizziness, feeling lightheaded and the loss of physical balance, and even a bit wobbling at times, requires pause in movement to prevent falling over or deepening into vertigo or feeling faint.
38. Ringing in the Ears, Tinnitus, can be experienced as a pulsing sensation, a whooshing sound, an almost musical or buzzing sound with a fuzzy sensation.
39. Abdominal Bloating comes on suddenly often after eating, or seems to be all the time, and can be visibly evident making you feel that you look like you are pregnant.
40. Weight Gain disturbs most women, particularly when it seems to happen over a couple of days, settles in the waist, buttocks and thighs, promoting a visceral thickening from the waist down, the classic middle-aged figure.
41. Fluid Retention, Edema, commonly with swelling in the legs and ankles, though not limited to this area and it is unrelieved by urination.
42. Palpitations or Heart Racing usually comes on suddenly, without warning or provocation, and dissipates spontaneously. The experience can be so wild and intense that a woman may become alarmed and wonder if she is having a heart attack.
43. Irregularities in your Heart Rate may feel more like your heart has just done a flip-flop or skipped a beat.
44. Constipation/Diarrhea, intermittent or alternating, results from declining hormone levels, which increase the demands on liver function and alters intestinal motility.
45. Tendency towards Candidiasis can increase, even if you have no prior known history ? and if you do, it may worsen.
46. Gastrointestinal Distress, Increased Flatulence, Unrelieved Gas pains, Indigestion, Nausea all can reflect intestinal changes due to hormonal imbalances.
47. Slow Digestion often goes along with the bloat ? what previously took four to five hours to digest, now seems to take all night. It seems worse in the evenings.
48. Lack of Appetite may be experienced as more of a lack of interest in food, going to the frig and standing there with the door open and staring blankly. Feeling completely uninspired, you busy yourself with something else and forget that you need to eat.
49. Changes in Body Odor especially disturbing when it seems to focus in the groin area, but can be anywhere on the body.
50. Puffy Eyes, not only from sleep disturbances, but also can accompany low progesterone.
51. Facial Pallor alternating with Facial Flushes is often intermittent with hot flashes.
52. Flare up of Arthritis worsens with low progesterone levels and increase sugar intake.
53. Loss of Bone Density, Osteoporosis, is not only an elderly woman?s disease, though it seems to develop over an extended period and is triggered by the decline of hormone production.
54. Dry Hair, Change in Skin Tone, Integrity, and Texture, becomes more wrinkled, and may begin the thinning process.
55. Changes in your Fingernails characterized by easy breakage, bending, cracking and getting softer.
56. Itchy, Crawly Skin with a strange sensation like insects crawling around under the skin ? quite different than the dry skin feeling.
57. Muscle tone seems to slack and sag, and loose its previous response to normal exercise.
58. Pelvic Pain can be random and independent of cycles and may feel continuous for some women.
59. Dry, Itchy Eyes felt in the deep posterior aspect of the eye socket, as well as superficially.
60. Teeth Aching or the experience of a strange sensation in one?s teeth or gums, often accompanied by an increase in bleeding gums.
61. Change in the normal Tongue sensation, which can be accompanied by a feeling of burning in your tongue and roof of mouth, malodorous breath or change in breath odor, and/or a bad taste in your mouth.
62. Memory Loss or Lapses in time, makes one feel disoriented and less focused, especially when you go into another room to get something specific and seconds later cannot remember what you went to retrieve.
63. Feeling Faint for no known reason (this does not include standing up too quickly)
64. Tingling in Extremities not only feels weird and like your hands or feet are falling asleep, but if persistent can be a symptom of diabetes, B12, potassium or calcium deficiency, or a compromise in blood vessel flexibility.
65. Sensation of Electrical Stimulation,or Shock occurring in the tissue under the skin, and may signal you that a hot flash will begin.
66. Increase and worsening of Allergies occurs as hormones become imbalanced, so can our immune system.
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jody64583 jayneejay
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Anyone experience random bits of very low grade nausea? 49 (50 in October) and no period now since January.
klm1213 jody64583
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oh, yes!!
moira93059 jody64583
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That's another one of my symptoms, akin to morning sickness. I had it for a couple of months and then it disappeared. I should write a list of all my symptoms so we can compare. Do you get the nausea all the time Jody or at specific times of your cycle?
ronda18795 jayneejay
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Hello ladies, I am new to this site but I'm so glad I found it! I feel like I'm going crazy! I don't have the typical hot flashes associated with menopause ...my symptoms are totally weird. I have had crushing panic attacks that cause me to shiver and convulse uncontrollably. They usually come upon me all of a sudden but mostly at night. They have been frightening but the most alarming thing I have is the dizziness and just a weird pressure in my head. This seems to be a constant. I can't really exercise anymore because my head feels so wobbly and off balanced...it's hard to describe. Of course, I'm stressing because I fear I have a brain tumor, so then my panic kicks in and I feel like I'm on a hamster wheel with this vicious cycle of uncertainty in this foreign body and mind that is now supposed to be me. I'm someone I don't recognize. It's like I've become this feeble frightened person in a matter of a few months. I've been to the doctor and all they want to prescribe is an anti-depressant which is not going to fix this I don't think. I was also put on Estrodiol patch but had a terrible reaction to it and got off of that. Now I'm just trying to cope and ride it out naturally and holistically. I'm taking magnesium and B-12 and watching everything I eat and everything I do physically to try and avoid any triggers. Anyway, sorry for the ramble but I was just looking for any others who may share these experiences during this crazy havoc going on in our body and mind. Be Blessed!
moira93059 ronda18795
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Hi Ronda, I am sorry you are feeling so unwell. In my case it all started in December with some weird dizziness and vertigo. At one point it was so bad I could not walk if not holding on to someone or something. Since then I had many more symptoms. When you say pressure, do you refer to that unsettling sense of heaviness on your head and shoulders? And the muscle tension and neck stiffness. And what about sudden bouts of weakness and fatigue? I had hot flashes and night sweats and more. Did I think I had a brain tumor? I thought it was a possible cause, yes I did.
I went to the doctor, listed a good page and a half of symptoms and she told me it was all so vague that she could not figure out what was wrong with me. I did a complete blood work, she checked my lungs and heart, and all she could find was that my vitamin D was low and that I looked anxious. Did she mention perimenopause? She did not. I am 51 year old, I have been healthy my whole life and in a matter of a few months I felt like a helpless 5 year old child.
I want to add something to this though. Not every month is the same. Not every day is the same. It helps if you write things down on a diary and then you can see a reassuring cyclic pattern. It helps to know you are not alone. It helps to remind yourself that when you have a bad day, better days will follow. It helps to know it's only a phase in our life.
I take supplements: vitamin D for life, prescribed by my doctor; magnesium spray for achy muscles and panax ginseng for mental fatigue and low libido (the latter was a sudden unexpected surprise).
I had so many symptoms in the last 7 months that I felt like I was under attack. I had dizziness, nausea, heartburn, air hunger, globus pharyngeus, nightmares, sense of doom, horrible PMS, fluid retention, unprecedented abdominal cramps. My periods are getting much closer together, too. This site and the wonderful women who left their candid experiences in here, helped a great deal with the psychological aspects of this experience. They helped me stay sane. Why nobody prepared us for this, I wonder.
cissy2020 ronda18795
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i also have that wobbly dizzy weird feeling in my head with pressure and congestion. i also struggle big with anxiety. i have had some attacks that litterly wake me up feeling as if im going to die. i just lay there day a prayer that my husband doesnt wake up to a dead wife. its horrifying. i dont know how long i can deal. its all so over whelming. i do have some good days but not enough. i miss the women i use to be... an i want her back
amanda64199 jayneejay
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Hello ladies, I hope you're all well. I'm hoping some of you can relate to what I'm going through at the moment. I had 4 months without a period and I was finally free, but on 1st July I got the telltale cramping and started a hellish period which lasted for 15 days. Once it was over I thought that's it now, but just 6 days later I've started again, just as heavy as before. I'm beyond fed up now! has anyone else had this happen? And does this mean I'm nearing the end of my period journey. I'm 53 this year so I hope so
moira93059 amanda64199
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Hi Amanda! It happened to me one year ago, I was on holiday. I had my periods, then nothing for a few days, only to start all over again. And before that, eight years ago. Again I was on holiday at the sea side for two weeks, and I had a two weeks long period. I got checked up both times and all looked fine xx
amanda64199 moira93059
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thank you for your reply. I'm hoping I'm nearing the end now. did you have really tender breasts too?
lexie41068 jayneejay
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hello ladies, as anyone suffered from legs spasms or burning muscles pain on the outer side of the legs if I do any type of cardio the next day I can expect ongoing pain all day yet I used to be physically active I feel so sad not to be able to workout at 54. Perimenopause has changed my life I had so many different symptoms on and off I am tired and scared.
amanda64199 lexie41068
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I get leg cramps, and for the last 4 weeks I've had a tingling along the outside of my upper thigh. I know what you mean, I'm not the same woman I was before perimenopause started
crystals51917 amanda64199
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Me too. It's freaking ridiculous all the symptoms and craziness that we have to go through. I've actually looked at my leg and thought what was making it tingle and move like that... Like a speaker was up against my upper thigh making it vibrate:( I just pray daily for all of us because this ride takes faith and trust, that we will get through. I've had probably all 66 symptoms plus some more and still going through although some days are better than others. Take Care and let's keep supporting each other.
amanda64199 jayneejay
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hi ladies
does any of you have tender skin? The skin on my lower back feels sore to touch, a bit like when you're chafing, but there's nothing there. I'm wondering if this is yet another symptom of this wondering time of life!
Ann074 jayneejay
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Hi all the kind hearted ladies.
thanks for all your comments. it gives much relief and strength. Feeling tired of terrible lower back pain these days including all the 66 symptoms and more from time to time. Im 46+ now. hope we all sail through this soon.TC
debbie1226 jayneejay
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I got sick suddenly with vaso vagal syncope and about 60 others symptoms at 50. My thyroid was very low and anxiety so bad I couldn't function. It is so hard to explain to someone who has little or no side effects how debilitating perimenopause can be. I fought through it and changed my diet, went on the hormone patch for hot flashes that were constant and depression so bad I wanted to kill myself, effexor (37.5mgs) for anxiety so bad I thought I was losing my mind, Synthroid for my thyroid and changed my diet to a whole foods approach. It took 3 years for most symptoms to go away and now close to 4 years later have very little symptoms. I feel for any woman who goes through a terrible and terrifying time like I did. I sympathize and empathize but some women won't and its too bad because we will all deal with someone health ailment in our lifetime. Take it one day at a time and although I never thought it would end it does and you feel a lot better afterwards. I also stopped using all chemical products on my skin and hair.