66 Peri menopause / Menopause Symptoms you may experience which may help some ladies

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SIXTY-SIX PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS: Part one 1 - 49

These are very real physical changes and conditions. Some symptoms alarm a woman that she may be suffering from a serious disease. Perhaps you know the more common ones related to menopausal symptoms in this list. But many of these may surprise you, as they have not been typically associated with this normal physiological transformation. 

1. Change in Menstrual Cycle, Cycles may get closer together or farther apart, lighter and shorter in duration or much heavier, lasting longer than one has been accustomed to. Menses may seem to take forever to begin with dark spotting for days until you actually flow, or you might feel like you have your menses every two weeks.

2. Menstrual Flooding can come on with sudden onset and feel like you may hemorrhage to death. Or it can be a gradual build up just when you think your menses will end and you start gushing for days. Flooding commonly accompanies the woman with uterine fibroids as she transits into menopause.

3. Headaches, Migraines, especially before, during or at the end of your menses debilitate and radically interferes with normal functioning.

4. Decreased Motor Coordination, Clumsiness, almost begins to make the woman who experiences this feel like she is certainly less than graceful during perhaps an already awkward period in her life. 

5. Lethargy, a persistent feeling sluggishness physically and mentally, that seems to negate ones ability to do much. 

6. Physical Exhaustion , and Crushing Crashing Fatigue that can come on so suddenly and grip you into feeling like you will collapse unless you stop this instant.

7. Exacerbation of any Chronic Illness or Existing Condition transpires as hormones decline or deviate from their normal balance.

8. Insomnia, this includes a new or unusual pattern of either difficulty falling asleep, or dropping off to sleep for a few hours and then awakening with the inability to return to sleep.

9. Sleep Disturbances sometimes are from nightmares, night sweats, or just a vague sense of restlessness keeping you up or disrupting your precious revitalizing retreat from this realm of responsibilities.

10. Night Sweats often begin between a woman?s breasts, initially a night or two before her menses, waking her from sleep, later more profoundly disturbing with up to total body saturation, followed by damp or sweat drenched chills.

11. Interference With Dream Recall interrupts the sense of normal sleep, if you are someone accustomed to vivid or at least some detailed memory of your dreamtime. 

12. Muscle Cramps can occur anywhere in the body from legs to back to neck, and sometimes reflects the need for more calcium, or simply that your progesterone levels are too low. 

13. Low Backache often worsens before or during menses, but if your hormones remain at low levels, you can experience it on a regular basis.

14. Gall Bladder Symptoms of pain, spasms and discomfort felt in the right upper abdominal quadrant under the ribs, which may be accompanied by belching, bloating, and intolerance to certain foods reflect the increased liver load with declining hormones. 

15. Frequent Urination, or sensations that mimic urinary infections is a disturbing symptom often unrelieved by actual urination. It is often experienced as the sensation of needing to urinate all the time, even immediately afterwards.

16. Urinary Incontinence, the uncontrollable and spontaneous loss of urine, or the Urge for Incontinence, can occur suddenly or feel continuous, and not only in response to coughing, sneezing, jumping or running. 

17. Hypoglycemic Reactions happen when suddenly your blood sugar crashes and you must have food now.

18. Food Cravings, often for sweets or salty foods, but can include sour or pungent foods. 

19. Increased Appetite, especially at night and after dinner contributes to that unusual and unwanted weight gain.

20. Dark Circles Under Eyes can also be caused by adrenal exhaustion and thyroid dysfunctions, but no amount of sleep seems to eliminate it. 

21. Joint and Muscle Pain, Achy, Sore Joints, Muscles and Tendons, which sometimes develop into actual carpal tunnel syndrome, or give rise to the questioning of other disease possibilities.

22. Increased Tension in Muscles demonstrates itself in those hunched up shoulders as you work or talk about anything uncomfortable, along with promoting lower back pain and a stiff neck.

23. Increased Hair Loss or Thinning anywhere on body, including your head, armpits, pubic area.

24. Increase in Facial Hair especially under your chin, or along your jaw line. It may be defined by generalized hair growth, or a specific and coarse single strand of hair that pokes out, even curls. 

25. Unusually Hair Growth, around Nipples, between Breasts, down your back, places where your hair was finer, less coarse.

26. Acne, quite disturbing to any woman who dealt with this in adolescence and never thought it would recur. 

27. Infertility causes grief in the woman who postponed pregnancy in her earlier years and now wishes to conceive, carry to term a healthy baby, and discovers she is unable to do so. 

28. Loss of Breast Tissue begins with the decrease of progesterone production. Women often feel as though their breast have become empty sacs devoid of their normal fullness, with or without sagging.

29. Breast Soreness/Tenderness/Pain/ Engorgement and swelling, occurs particularly a few days to one week before bleeding actually begins, which usually potentiates complete relief of any pain or swelling.

30. Painful, or tender nipples have been described as this exquisite localized pain only in the nipples and suggests estrogen excess. 

31. Cold Extremities feels quite strange especially in the presence of a hot flash, the combination of which is not impossible.

32. Being Accident Prone, bumping into things, not even realizing it until the bruise reveals itself later and then lacking the ability to recall the causative incident feels perplexing and a little scary at the prospect of something more damaging. 

33. Hot flashes initially may be described as mild to severe flushes of heat waves, and for some women these evolve into intense outbreaks of sudden heat with sweating and turning bright red all over. 

34. Loss of Sexual Energy, our Libido, can be marked by a gradual or sudden disinterest in sex, to the development of an actual aversion. 

35. Painful Sex often described as if one?s vagina would tear open at the point of penetration along with feelings of abrasion during intercourse.

36. Vaginal Dryness, Irritation, sometimes accompanied by a consistent unusual discharge - typically odor free, negates a woman?s ability to be sexually active, or able to enjoy or be comfortable in her body.

37. Dizziness, feeling lightheaded and the loss of physical balance, and even a bit wobbling at times, requires pause in movement to prevent falling over or deepening into vertigo or feeling faint.

38. Ringing in the Ears, Tinnitus, can be experienced as a pulsing sensation, a whooshing sound, an almost musical or buzzing sound with a fuzzy sensation.

39. Abdominal Bloating comes on suddenly often after eating, or seems to be all the time, and can be visibly evident making you feel that you look like you are pregnant. 

40. Weight Gain disturbs most women, particularly when it seems to happen over a couple of days, settles in the waist, buttocks and thighs, promoting a visceral thickening from the waist down, the classic middle-aged figure.

41. Fluid Retention, Edema, commonly with swelling in the legs and ankles, though not limited to this area and it is unrelieved by urination.

42. Palpitations or Heart Racing usually comes on suddenly, without warning or provocation, and dissipates spontaneously. The experience can be so wild and intense that a woman may become alarmed and wonder if she is having a heart attack. 

43. Irregularities in your Heart Rate may feel more like your heart has just done a flip-flop or skipped a beat.

44. Constipation/Diarrhea, intermittent or alternating, results from declining hormone levels, which increase the demands on liver function and alters intestinal motility.

45. Tendency towards Candidiasis can increase, even if you have no prior known history ? and if you do, it may worsen.

46. Gastrointestinal Distress, Increased Flatulence, Unrelieved Gas pains, Indigestion, Nausea all can reflect intestinal changes due to hormonal imbalances.

47. Slow Digestion often goes along with the bloat ? what previously took four to five hours to digest, now seems to take all night. It seems worse in the evenings.

48. Lack of Appetite may be experienced as more of a lack of interest in food, going to the frig and standing there with the door open and staring blankly. Feeling completely uninspired, you busy yourself with something else and forget that you need to eat.

49. Changes in Body Odor especially disturbing when it seems to focus in the groin area, but can be anywhere on the body.

50. Puffy Eyes, not only from sleep disturbances, but also can accompany low progesterone.

51. Facial Pallor alternating with Facial Flushes is often intermittent with hot flashes.

52. Flare up of Arthritis worsens with low progesterone levels and increase sugar intake.

53. Loss of Bone Density, Osteoporosis, is not only an elderly woman?s disease, though it seems to develop over an extended period and is triggered by the decline of hormone production.

54. Dry Hair, Change in Skin Tone, Integrity, and Texture, becomes more wrinkled, and may begin the thinning process.

55. Changes in your Fingernails characterized by easy breakage, bending, cracking and getting softer.

56. Itchy, Crawly Skin with a strange sensation like insects crawling around under the skin ? quite different than the dry skin feeling.

57. Muscle tone seems to slack and sag, and loose its previous response to normal exercise.

58. Pelvic Pain can be random and independent of cycles and may feel continuous for some women.

59. Dry, Itchy Eyes felt in the deep posterior aspect of the eye socket, as well as superficially.

60. Teeth Aching or the experience of a strange sensation in one?s teeth or gums, often accompanied by an increase in bleeding gums.

61. Change in the normal Tongue sensation, which can be accompanied by a feeling of burning in your tongue and roof of mouth, malodorous breath or change in breath odor, and/or a bad taste in your mouth.

62. Memory Loss or Lapses in time, makes one feel disoriented and less focused, especially when you go into another room to get something specific and seconds later cannot remember what you went to retrieve.

63. Feeling Faint for no known reason (this does not include standing up too quickly)

64. Tingling in Extremities not only feels weird and like your hands or feet are falling asleep, but if persistent can be a symptom of diabetes, B12, potassium or calcium deficiency, or a compromise in blood vessel flexibility.

65. Sensation of Electrical Stimulation,or Shock occurring in the tissue under the skin, and may signal you that a hot flash will begin.

66. Increase and worsening of Allergies occurs as hormones become imbalanced, so can our immune system.

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  • Posted

    Hi

    Thank you for the list

    Change in Menstrual Cycle, Cycles may get closer together or farther apart, lighter and shorter in duration or much heavier, lasting longer than one has been accustomed to. Menses may seem to take forever to begin with dark spotting for days until you actually flow, or you might feel like you have your menses every two weeks

    Is it always dark spotting?

    Mine is pink or very light red

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    Thank you SO MUCH for this list. I was beggining to think I was crazy. I knew I was going through peri-menopause but wasn't able to relate all the diverse synthoms I was experiencing with that. Know I feel more confindent and less scare and ready to talk with my endrocrinologist (I have hypotirodsm) and the rest of my doctors with more information from all the discussions in this site.

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    I know most of your replies start like this.. But THANK YOU!

    I am shocked how many of these symptoms I have and its like completing a jigsaw puzzle. I'm not going mad for suddenly feeling tired these last couple of years and, feeling smelly, having crushing headaches and around 50% of these symptoms.. Such a relief it's normal.

    I'm 50 next month and started having these from around 4 years ago. It gradually creeps up and I put it down to so many other factors, but this totally makes sense now.

    I have the mirena coil which had always been OK but since I put it in more recently it hasn't suited.

    First around 5 years ago, it made me spot almost constantly for 2 years so I had it removed.

    Then I ended up with my natural heavy periods that I'd forgotten about as I'd been on something or another for almost 30 years.

    Went back to mirena in Jan 2020 and I'm back to spotting again almost all the time even 18 months later 😦. ls anyone else the same? Would love to know..

    I've sent your list to my husband too so he can stop thinking that I'm being a grumpy old cow and can understand what's going on.

    Thank you thank you thank you!

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    Hi all. i have been reading through posts and this post was so helpful i font feel like im alone!!!

    Im 40 and think im going through early stages of menopause. I have endometriosis/adenomyosis and during ivf 3 years ago my hormone levels were low and egg reserve very limited.

    Recently i have been very anxious and had 2 panic attacks in 3 months from nowhere one when driving and other lasted 6 hours and ended up in A&E!

    I have brain fog and most days find im breathless even when walking around. Sounds weird but when driving on motorway to work sometimes i feel like i have tunnel vision and its too busy and cant concentrate on roads and all too much. I feel like someone could click their fingers and i will pass out as get so foggy and tired. I can be fine and suddenly get over whelming fatigue and feel like i will pass out and fall asleep!! I have a heavy weight on chest in middle and feel like a lump is in my throat, belching loads and bloating.

    Get so tired at times and dizzy like i need to eat something.

    I am clumsy and bump into things plus feel spaced out and like im walking on air some days.

    Doctor thought was anxiety and put me on meds due to the 2 panic attacks but came off them after 5 days as made me so ill. I really do believe its not just anxiety as body just doesnt feel right. My periods have always been heavy/clotting but now are every 20 days with spotting prior for days.

    I have aching joints and pain in body and bloods all okay that have been taken.

    am going to book to see my consultant to check my hormone levels and hopefully get some answers. I cant have HRT due to breast lumps and history.

    I feel like i am letting down my husband and son as my symptoms are just weird day to day and up and down as just feel s****y and not like myself!

    Any advice welcome please and thank you.

    Emily x

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    thank you so much for this list !

    I thought i was losing my mind. about 2-3 weeks ago it's as if i fell off a cliff edge. i have a mirena coil that's just over 5 years old but cannot be changed due to covid and no face to face apts at my surgery. not sure if it's not giving me progesterone anymore but i am suddenly plunged into full peri/menopausal symptoms. My leg cramps and twitching/ electric shocks have been off the charts , no appetite, exhaustion like I've never experienced in my life! muscles so weak, cold extremities, weeing or feeling like i need to constantly. palpitations, dizzy, lightheaded, headache. It's been so dramatic I haven't worked all i can do is hobble around the house!the stairs feel like Everest, I've had blood tests -all normal and they've ruled out a bladder infection, blood pressure, blood oxygen etc all perfect . i have a phone call booked with GP next wednesday but in the meantime i wondered

    Has anyone else experienced sudden onset like this? ( I haven't had any gyny surgery and am not on any medication except Mirena) I'm a usually healthy and fit 50 year old !

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      yes, im 40 and symptoms came on overnight, feel like ive aged 20 years! must have had every test under the sun in 14 months x

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      im sorry to hear you've had a similar experience. i have felt quite scared as the symptoms feel like I've had full blown flu , was sort of hoping the dr would discover a virus or mild infection and would explain it and could be fixed fast! glad your tests are all good though, i feel so unprepared . Naively i thought i might have the odd hot flush and be done with it, i've never felt so ill in my life! This forum is so helpful and informative, its made me feel a bit less anxious .

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      i know right, we are always made to believe its just hot flushes hmmmmm no. they did find fibroids, a nodule in thyroid lung and breast, but i was fit as a fiddle before all this x

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    Hi, I'm new to this site. I am experiencing mostly of the symptoms mentioned. It's very tiring. The worries, overthinking, anxiety makes my life miserable. It's been more than a year since it started. I've been going through a lot and I am grateful that I found this site knowing that I am not alone.

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      you are not alone, its so scary and we are not prepared or educated about this! just reading that other women are going through the same things makes me feel less crazy. i feel as if someone has stolen my life and i want it back. i suspect its been ramping up slowly but i feel as though i fell of a hormonal cliff 5-6 weeks ago, its the most terrifying thing thats ever happened to me my worst symptoms are extreme fatigue , headaches, anxiety that is off the charts and constant muscle twitching and pins and needles , but im going to try and get some hrt and start my recovery.

      hang on in there, be kind to yourself x

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      get some magnesium in you for twitching, hrt is mainly for flushes and night sweats! in peri hormones fluctuate so its pointless in my opinion x

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      I'm so blessed to know im not alone. i had thought MS and been tested all that was found was mild carpal tunnel other than that im good but this help realize i am not crazy

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    Hi

    Does the armpit hair and leg hair disappear?

    Do these symptoms just hit you overnight?

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    This site and all of your words are a godsend, am so relieved to have found it. I honestly thought I was dying or going mad. Was also prescribed antidepressants and anti anxiety tablets, no mention of perimenopause. But I have almost all the symptoms mentioned, the scariest being the heart palps, pains in chest, and unbearable anxiety that sends me into awful panic attacks making all the symptoms worse. I cannot remember the last morning I woke up and felt "right" or normal. Or slept more than a couple of hours on the trot. Am trying natural supplements so hoping that eases some of the ailments. Have also had all bloods done, xrays, mris and waiting on cardiologist and brain scan to rule other stuff out. Urgh this is so yucky and draining.

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      im the same- brain scan tomorrow and feel just not right, i ache all over , incessant muscle twitching and feel so tired and a bit light headed before this started in april this year i never went to the doctor i was healthy and fit , i hope your tests go ok and you get some answers .

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