66 Peri menopause / Menopause Symptoms you may experience which may help some ladies

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SIXTY-SIX PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS: Part one 1 - 49

These are very real physical changes and conditions. Some symptoms alarm a woman that she may be suffering from a serious disease. Perhaps you know the more common ones related to menopausal symptoms in this list. But many of these may surprise you, as they have not been typically associated with this normal physiological transformation. 

1. Change in Menstrual Cycle, Cycles may get closer together or farther apart, lighter and shorter in duration or much heavier, lasting longer than one has been accustomed to. Menses may seem to take forever to begin with dark spotting for days until you actually flow, or you might feel like you have your menses every two weeks.

2. Menstrual Flooding can come on with sudden onset and feel like you may hemorrhage to death. Or it can be a gradual build up just when you think your menses will end and you start gushing for days. Flooding commonly accompanies the woman with uterine fibroids as she transits into menopause.

3. Headaches, Migraines, especially before, during or at the end of your menses debilitate and radically interferes with normal functioning.

4. Decreased Motor Coordination, Clumsiness, almost begins to make the woman who experiences this feel like she is certainly less than graceful during perhaps an already awkward period in her life. 

5. Lethargy, a persistent feeling sluggishness physically and mentally, that seems to negate ones ability to do much. 

6. Physical Exhaustion , and Crushing Crashing Fatigue that can come on so suddenly and grip you into feeling like you will collapse unless you stop this instant.

7. Exacerbation of any Chronic Illness or Existing Condition transpires as hormones decline or deviate from their normal balance.

8. Insomnia, this includes a new or unusual pattern of either difficulty falling asleep, or dropping off to sleep for a few hours and then awakening with the inability to return to sleep.

9. Sleep Disturbances sometimes are from nightmares, night sweats, or just a vague sense of restlessness keeping you up or disrupting your precious revitalizing retreat from this realm of responsibilities.

10. Night Sweats often begin between a woman?s breasts, initially a night or two before her menses, waking her from sleep, later more profoundly disturbing with up to total body saturation, followed by damp or sweat drenched chills.

11. Interference With Dream Recall interrupts the sense of normal sleep, if you are someone accustomed to vivid or at least some detailed memory of your dreamtime. 

12. Muscle Cramps can occur anywhere in the body from legs to back to neck, and sometimes reflects the need for more calcium, or simply that your progesterone levels are too low. 

13. Low Backache often worsens before or during menses, but if your hormones remain at low levels, you can experience it on a regular basis.

14. Gall Bladder Symptoms of pain, spasms and discomfort felt in the right upper abdominal quadrant under the ribs, which may be accompanied by belching, bloating, and intolerance to certain foods reflect the increased liver load with declining hormones. 

15. Frequent Urination, or sensations that mimic urinary infections is a disturbing symptom often unrelieved by actual urination. It is often experienced as the sensation of needing to urinate all the time, even immediately afterwards.

16. Urinary Incontinence, the uncontrollable and spontaneous loss of urine, or the Urge for Incontinence, can occur suddenly or feel continuous, and not only in response to coughing, sneezing, jumping or running. 

17. Hypoglycemic Reactions happen when suddenly your blood sugar crashes and you must have food now.

18. Food Cravings, often for sweets or salty foods, but can include sour or pungent foods. 

19. Increased Appetite, especially at night and after dinner contributes to that unusual and unwanted weight gain.

20. Dark Circles Under Eyes can also be caused by adrenal exhaustion and thyroid dysfunctions, but no amount of sleep seems to eliminate it. 

21. Joint and Muscle Pain, Achy, Sore Joints, Muscles and Tendons, which sometimes develop into actual carpal tunnel syndrome, or give rise to the questioning of other disease possibilities.

22. Increased Tension in Muscles demonstrates itself in those hunched up shoulders as you work or talk about anything uncomfortable, along with promoting lower back pain and a stiff neck.

23. Increased Hair Loss or Thinning anywhere on body, including your head, armpits, pubic area.

24. Increase in Facial Hair especially under your chin, or along your jaw line. It may be defined by generalized hair growth, or a specific and coarse single strand of hair that pokes out, even curls. 

25. Unusually Hair Growth, around Nipples, between Breasts, down your back, places where your hair was finer, less coarse.

26. Acne, quite disturbing to any woman who dealt with this in adolescence and never thought it would recur. 

27. Infertility causes grief in the woman who postponed pregnancy in her earlier years and now wishes to conceive, carry to term a healthy baby, and discovers she is unable to do so. 

28. Loss of Breast Tissue begins with the decrease of progesterone production. Women often feel as though their breast have become empty sacs devoid of their normal fullness, with or without sagging.

29. Breast Soreness/Tenderness/Pain/ Engorgement and swelling, occurs particularly a few days to one week before bleeding actually begins, which usually potentiates complete relief of any pain or swelling.

30. Painful, or tender nipples have been described as this exquisite localized pain only in the nipples and suggests estrogen excess. 

31. Cold Extremities feels quite strange especially in the presence of a hot flash, the combination of which is not impossible.

32. Being Accident Prone, bumping into things, not even realizing it until the bruise reveals itself later and then lacking the ability to recall the causative incident feels perplexing and a little scary at the prospect of something more damaging. 

33. Hot flashes initially may be described as mild to severe flushes of heat waves, and for some women these evolve into intense outbreaks of sudden heat with sweating and turning bright red all over. 

34. Loss of Sexual Energy, our Libido, can be marked by a gradual or sudden disinterest in sex, to the development of an actual aversion. 

35. Painful Sex often described as if one?s vagina would tear open at the point of penetration along with feelings of abrasion during intercourse.

36. Vaginal Dryness, Irritation, sometimes accompanied by a consistent unusual discharge - typically odor free, negates a woman?s ability to be sexually active, or able to enjoy or be comfortable in her body.

37. Dizziness, feeling lightheaded and the loss of physical balance, and even a bit wobbling at times, requires pause in movement to prevent falling over or deepening into vertigo or feeling faint.

38. Ringing in the Ears, Tinnitus, can be experienced as a pulsing sensation, a whooshing sound, an almost musical or buzzing sound with a fuzzy sensation.

39. Abdominal Bloating comes on suddenly often after eating, or seems to be all the time, and can be visibly evident making you feel that you look like you are pregnant. 

40. Weight Gain disturbs most women, particularly when it seems to happen over a couple of days, settles in the waist, buttocks and thighs, promoting a visceral thickening from the waist down, the classic middle-aged figure.

41. Fluid Retention, Edema, commonly with swelling in the legs and ankles, though not limited to this area and it is unrelieved by urination.

42. Palpitations or Heart Racing usually comes on suddenly, without warning or provocation, and dissipates spontaneously. The experience can be so wild and intense that a woman may become alarmed and wonder if she is having a heart attack. 

43. Irregularities in your Heart Rate may feel more like your heart has just done a flip-flop or skipped a beat.

44. Constipation/Diarrhea, intermittent or alternating, results from declining hormone levels, which increase the demands on liver function and alters intestinal motility.

45. Tendency towards Candidiasis can increase, even if you have no prior known history ? and if you do, it may worsen.

46. Gastrointestinal Distress, Increased Flatulence, Unrelieved Gas pains, Indigestion, Nausea all can reflect intestinal changes due to hormonal imbalances.

47. Slow Digestion often goes along with the bloat ? what previously took four to five hours to digest, now seems to take all night. It seems worse in the evenings.

48. Lack of Appetite may be experienced as more of a lack of interest in food, going to the frig and standing there with the door open and staring blankly. Feeling completely uninspired, you busy yourself with something else and forget that you need to eat.

49. Changes in Body Odor especially disturbing when it seems to focus in the groin area, but can be anywhere on the body.

50. Puffy Eyes, not only from sleep disturbances, but also can accompany low progesterone.

51. Facial Pallor alternating with Facial Flushes is often intermittent with hot flashes.

52. Flare up of Arthritis worsens with low progesterone levels and increase sugar intake.

53. Loss of Bone Density, Osteoporosis, is not only an elderly woman?s disease, though it seems to develop over an extended period and is triggered by the decline of hormone production.

54. Dry Hair, Change in Skin Tone, Integrity, and Texture, becomes more wrinkled, and may begin the thinning process.

55. Changes in your Fingernails characterized by easy breakage, bending, cracking and getting softer.

56. Itchy, Crawly Skin with a strange sensation like insects crawling around under the skin ? quite different than the dry skin feeling.

57. Muscle tone seems to slack and sag, and loose its previous response to normal exercise.

58. Pelvic Pain can be random and independent of cycles and may feel continuous for some women.

59. Dry, Itchy Eyes felt in the deep posterior aspect of the eye socket, as well as superficially.

60. Teeth Aching or the experience of a strange sensation in one?s teeth or gums, often accompanied by an increase in bleeding gums.

61. Change in the normal Tongue sensation, which can be accompanied by a feeling of burning in your tongue and roof of mouth, malodorous breath or change in breath odor, and/or a bad taste in your mouth.

62. Memory Loss or Lapses in time, makes one feel disoriented and less focused, especially when you go into another room to get something specific and seconds later cannot remember what you went to retrieve.

63. Feeling Faint for no known reason (this does not include standing up too quickly)

64. Tingling in Extremities not only feels weird and like your hands or feet are falling asleep, but if persistent can be a symptom of diabetes, B12, potassium or calcium deficiency, or a compromise in blood vessel flexibility.

65. Sensation of Electrical Stimulation,or Shock occurring in the tissue under the skin, and may signal you that a hot flash will begin.

66. Increase and worsening of Allergies occurs as hormones become imbalanced, so can our immune system.

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  • Posted

    Hi jayneejay,

    Thank you for the list.

    Does rise blood pressure (High Blood Pressure) has anything to do with peri menopause?

    Will it go back to normal without BP Medication?

    Thanks.

    • Posted

      curious about this also, my b/p has been on the high side. before I had normal b/p

  • Posted

    I'm 55 and have experience anxiety panic attacks and tremors plus half of what's on here so thank you for this list

  • Posted

    i get hand shakes weakness down my arms i feel line i cant grab they said its prob hormoes and anxiety because i had two mri bloods the was normal but i get scared its not making it feel worse

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    I'm glad I ran across this site. I currently have 44 out of the 66 symptoms listed here. I probably started to have fluctuations with my hormones when I was in my 30's, but didn't really start paying attention to things until I hit 40. Here I am, now 47 years old, & feeling like I am losing my mind.

    I have anxiety, (was diagnosed at 26) & now I think it's all hormone related. Unlike my twin sisters that battle anxiety every single day, I have actually gone months & years without issues. But now I get very anxious right around the time I'm going to have a period, & oddly, it's way worse if there is a full moon. (I know its sounds WEIRD, but it is True)

    What brought me to this site was because I just started my period yesterday, we are coming off a full moon & I've had anxiety all weekend. I was laying in bed & thought my feet felt really cold. I would cover them up & rub them but they just felt like they were freezing. My legs were warm, & I could feel a good pulse in my feet, so I did something I should NOT have done. I started GOOGLING symptoms. (NEVER GOOGLE ANYTHING IF YOU HAVE ANXIETY TO BEGIN WITH!)

    I started looking for reasons my feet were cold & that led me to poor circulation from heart issues & somehow I got to paying attention to my heart rate & thought my heart was beating too slow. (I spent most of my time this weekend in bed, relaxing & watching stuff on Netflix, so there was little to no physical activity) So then I got to googling resting heart rates & why my feet where cold & it all did not end well for me. It threw me into an anxiety attack, because I have "Health Anxiety". I even broke out my fitbit & started obsessively checking my heart rate every few seconds because I thought my heart was going to slow down so much that its would just stop beating all together & I would DIE. It was so bad that when my husband got home this morning & seen what state I was in he made me take the fitbit off.

    I have never had issues with cold feet before & didn't think about it being related to peri menopause, but luckily somehow I ran up on this site in my googling madness, so I am going to unload. (ha!)

    A new symptom I've also recently acquired over the last few weeks has been muscle cramping or spasms. I get what feels like charlie horses in my back, shoulder blades, arms, sides, legs & even feet. I thought I was dehydrated so I started drinking more water & taking magnesium pills, but that didn't seem to help a whole lot, even though I drank enough water to float a boat in.

    I have issues with tension in my neck & back. My shoulders constantly ache. My periods are flighty. One month it might be 2 weeks late/early. One month I might spot the entire 4 days I would normally run, & the next month I will flood so heavy I would bleed through tampons & pads.

    My sex drive is steadily declining. Not to mention the vaginal dryness, which I never had issues with before!! (KY is your friend)

    My skin is horribly itchy at times. Sometimes my breasts feel engorged, heavy & they are always super sore right up until the time I start. (not to mention I think they look like deflated balloons at this point)

    I am starting to look like Burt Reynolds with all the new facial hair. (yeah, the hair on my legs is starting to slow it's growth so I only have to shave like once every 2 weeks, but I have to tweeze my face about every other day now.) I have gas that rivals that of my husbands. I have heartburn almost daily, which causes me to have heart palpitations. I don't sleep/rest well at night. No matter what time I go to bed I always seem to wake up between 3-4AM. My hands & face often tingle. And I do have facial flushing here & there.

    My teeth ache at times. I sometimes have episodes where I will cry for hours, or get so mad I want to throw a fit & tear my house apart for no reason other than my shirt sleeve got caught on some random knob or handle.

    I used to be very good at remembering things. I can't remember what I'm saying or doing anymore. (the other day I went out to my vehicle on break while I was at work & got in it, started it, & almost drove home, until I realized it was only 10AM. Yeah...I get off at 4PM) I forget how to spell the simplest of words. Shoot, I forget my children's names at times!

    I feel so clumsy & ungraceful because I'm always crashing into things.

    I rarely wear makeup any more because I'm constantly rubbing my eyes because they feel so dry. I haven't had a normal bowel movement in ages. (I used to be quite regular, but I'm lucky if I go every other day now. I am constantly constipated)

    I wake up most mornings & can barely recognize myself because my eyes are so puffy & swollen. I never had allergy issues until I turned 40. Now I have daily sneezing fits. In the last 7 years I've only had a handful of nights sweats, but I'm the 1st person in the room to get hot.

    And those are just the issues I can remember right off the top of my head at this moment.

    Lawd! I didn't mean to drag on so long, but it definitely helped get some anxiety off of me. Reading through everyone's post is helpful on knowing we are NOT ALONE in the war against Peri Menopause/Menopause!

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    I feel so tired all the time.

    Got some fibroids removed two weeks ago, went back to my follow up appointment and my blood pressure was extremely high, very high. This was a total shocker to me because I have had low blood pressure in the past. Now I have anxiety about my blood pressure and my appetite is lacking and my nose is consistently stuffy due to allergies and the climate in the new city, it is so dang dry here, no humidity.

    I want to cry all the time, we relocated to a bigger city right before covid, for my husbands job and therefore were only here for 6 months before everything shut down, so really I don't have a good social network at all here. Before I moved here I was very involved with my church and had good friends. Now I feel very isolated. Also raising two teenagers has its own challenges, especially because my husband works a lot, I feel so much responsibilty for my daughters. Im trying to teach one of them to drive and that is stressing me out as well, especially now we are in a bigger city with crazier drivers. I realize I am not a big city person at all! I am 47 and just feel worn down by the various moves and going through perimenopause with no close female friends around. I gained 20 pounds during quaratine also. My cortisol is probably high.

    thanks for reading and its good to know what others are going through as well

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    Hello lovely ladies,

    I've had a very strange symptom going on for almost 3 years now and today is the first time I have wondered wether it might be related to perimenopause.

    I'm going about my business and I suddenly get this odd feeling in my body, I get dizzy, start to sweat, have shortness of breath and tachycardia, all this is then followed by a bowel movement and after about 20-30 mins I start to feel better. It's very scary!

    The reason why today I thought that it might be related to peri is because it is sometimes preceded by this intense heat, where I feel like I will combust lol.

    Anyone with anything similar?

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    Hi Jay, I just turned 44yo and i have almost all the symptoms you mentioned! I had gone to cardio twice and gastro once. Thank God everything turns out alright. The rest are still manageable but have been in and out GP almost every week. Sudden jaw pain, neck pain, tingling in the arm, nausea, very bad acid reflux... etc..

    Last week I start to have this memory 'loss' or 'lapse'. Do your brain fog includes forgetting words? Like words you used to say and just all of sudden you do not know what word is that? This gave me panic attacks! I thought I was going to have dementia.

    Any one who is going through perimenopause now experience this?

    Thanks.

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