66 Peri menopause / Menopause Symptoms you may experience which may help some ladies

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SIXTY-SIX PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS: Part one 1 - 49

These are very real physical changes and conditions. Some symptoms alarm a woman that she may be suffering from a serious disease. Perhaps you know the more common ones related to menopausal symptoms in this list. But many of these may surprise you, as they have not been typically associated with this normal physiological transformation. 

1. Change in Menstrual Cycle, Cycles may get closer together or farther apart, lighter and shorter in duration or much heavier, lasting longer than one has been accustomed to. Menses may seem to take forever to begin with dark spotting for days until you actually flow, or you might feel like you have your menses every two weeks.

2. Menstrual Flooding can come on with sudden onset and feel like you may hemorrhage to death. Or it can be a gradual build up just when you think your menses will end and you start gushing for days. Flooding commonly accompanies the woman with uterine fibroids as she transits into menopause.

3. Headaches, Migraines, especially before, during or at the end of your menses debilitate and radically interferes with normal functioning.

4. Decreased Motor Coordination, Clumsiness, almost begins to make the woman who experiences this feel like she is certainly less than graceful during perhaps an already awkward period in her life. 

5. Lethargy, a persistent feeling sluggishness physically and mentally, that seems to negate ones ability to do much. 

6. Physical Exhaustion , and Crushing Crashing Fatigue that can come on so suddenly and grip you into feeling like you will collapse unless you stop this instant.

7. Exacerbation of any Chronic Illness or Existing Condition transpires as hormones decline or deviate from their normal balance.

8. Insomnia, this includes a new or unusual pattern of either difficulty falling asleep, or dropping off to sleep for a few hours and then awakening with the inability to return to sleep.

9. Sleep Disturbances sometimes are from nightmares, night sweats, or just a vague sense of restlessness keeping you up or disrupting your precious revitalizing retreat from this realm of responsibilities.

10. Night Sweats often begin between a woman?s breasts, initially a night or two before her menses, waking her from sleep, later more profoundly disturbing with up to total body saturation, followed by damp or sweat drenched chills.

11. Interference With Dream Recall interrupts the sense of normal sleep, if you are someone accustomed to vivid or at least some detailed memory of your dreamtime. 

12. Muscle Cramps can occur anywhere in the body from legs to back to neck, and sometimes reflects the need for more calcium, or simply that your progesterone levels are too low. 

13. Low Backache often worsens before or during menses, but if your hormones remain at low levels, you can experience it on a regular basis.

14. Gall Bladder Symptoms of pain, spasms and discomfort felt in the right upper abdominal quadrant under the ribs, which may be accompanied by belching, bloating, and intolerance to certain foods reflect the increased liver load with declining hormones. 

15. Frequent Urination, or sensations that mimic urinary infections is a disturbing symptom often unrelieved by actual urination. It is often experienced as the sensation of needing to urinate all the time, even immediately afterwards.

16. Urinary Incontinence, the uncontrollable and spontaneous loss of urine, or the Urge for Incontinence, can occur suddenly or feel continuous, and not only in response to coughing, sneezing, jumping or running. 

17. Hypoglycemic Reactions happen when suddenly your blood sugar crashes and you must have food now.

18. Food Cravings, often for sweets or salty foods, but can include sour or pungent foods. 

19. Increased Appetite, especially at night and after dinner contributes to that unusual and unwanted weight gain.

20. Dark Circles Under Eyes can also be caused by adrenal exhaustion and thyroid dysfunctions, but no amount of sleep seems to eliminate it. 

21. Joint and Muscle Pain, Achy, Sore Joints, Muscles and Tendons, which sometimes develop into actual carpal tunnel syndrome, or give rise to the questioning of other disease possibilities.

22. Increased Tension in Muscles demonstrates itself in those hunched up shoulders as you work or talk about anything uncomfortable, along with promoting lower back pain and a stiff neck.

23. Increased Hair Loss or Thinning anywhere on body, including your head, armpits, pubic area.

24. Increase in Facial Hair especially under your chin, or along your jaw line. It may be defined by generalized hair growth, or a specific and coarse single strand of hair that pokes out, even curls. 

25. Unusually Hair Growth, around Nipples, between Breasts, down your back, places where your hair was finer, less coarse.

26. Acne, quite disturbing to any woman who dealt with this in adolescence and never thought it would recur. 

27. Infertility causes grief in the woman who postponed pregnancy in her earlier years and now wishes to conceive, carry to term a healthy baby, and discovers she is unable to do so. 

28. Loss of Breast Tissue begins with the decrease of progesterone production. Women often feel as though their breast have become empty sacs devoid of their normal fullness, with or without sagging.

29. Breast Soreness/Tenderness/Pain/ Engorgement and swelling, occurs particularly a few days to one week before bleeding actually begins, which usually potentiates complete relief of any pain or swelling.

30. Painful, or tender nipples have been described as this exquisite localized pain only in the nipples and suggests estrogen excess. 

31. Cold Extremities feels quite strange especially in the presence of a hot flash, the combination of which is not impossible.

32. Being Accident Prone, bumping into things, not even realizing it until the bruise reveals itself later and then lacking the ability to recall the causative incident feels perplexing and a little scary at the prospect of something more damaging. 

33. Hot flashes initially may be described as mild to severe flushes of heat waves, and for some women these evolve into intense outbreaks of sudden heat with sweating and turning bright red all over. 

34. Loss of Sexual Energy, our Libido, can be marked by a gradual or sudden disinterest in sex, to the development of an actual aversion. 

35. Painful Sex often described as if one?s vagina would tear open at the point of penetration along with feelings of abrasion during intercourse.

36. Vaginal Dryness, Irritation, sometimes accompanied by a consistent unusual discharge - typically odor free, negates a woman?s ability to be sexually active, or able to enjoy or be comfortable in her body.

37. Dizziness, feeling lightheaded and the loss of physical balance, and even a bit wobbling at times, requires pause in movement to prevent falling over or deepening into vertigo or feeling faint.

38. Ringing in the Ears, Tinnitus, can be experienced as a pulsing sensation, a whooshing sound, an almost musical or buzzing sound with a fuzzy sensation.

39. Abdominal Bloating comes on suddenly often after eating, or seems to be all the time, and can be visibly evident making you feel that you look like you are pregnant. 

40. Weight Gain disturbs most women, particularly when it seems to happen over a couple of days, settles in the waist, buttocks and thighs, promoting a visceral thickening from the waist down, the classic middle-aged figure.

41. Fluid Retention, Edema, commonly with swelling in the legs and ankles, though not limited to this area and it is unrelieved by urination.

42. Palpitations or Heart Racing usually comes on suddenly, without warning or provocation, and dissipates spontaneously. The experience can be so wild and intense that a woman may become alarmed and wonder if she is having a heart attack. 

43. Irregularities in your Heart Rate may feel more like your heart has just done a flip-flop or skipped a beat.

44. Constipation/Diarrhea, intermittent or alternating, results from declining hormone levels, which increase the demands on liver function and alters intestinal motility.

45. Tendency towards Candidiasis can increase, even if you have no prior known history ? and if you do, it may worsen.

46. Gastrointestinal Distress, Increased Flatulence, Unrelieved Gas pains, Indigestion, Nausea all can reflect intestinal changes due to hormonal imbalances.

47. Slow Digestion often goes along with the bloat ? what previously took four to five hours to digest, now seems to take all night. It seems worse in the evenings.

48. Lack of Appetite may be experienced as more of a lack of interest in food, going to the frig and standing there with the door open and staring blankly. Feeling completely uninspired, you busy yourself with something else and forget that you need to eat.

49. Changes in Body Odor especially disturbing when it seems to focus in the groin area, but can be anywhere on the body.

50. Puffy Eyes, not only from sleep disturbances, but also can accompany low progesterone.

51. Facial Pallor alternating with Facial Flushes is often intermittent with hot flashes.

52. Flare up of Arthritis worsens with low progesterone levels and increase sugar intake.

53. Loss of Bone Density, Osteoporosis, is not only an elderly woman?s disease, though it seems to develop over an extended period and is triggered by the decline of hormone production.

54. Dry Hair, Change in Skin Tone, Integrity, and Texture, becomes more wrinkled, and may begin the thinning process.

55. Changes in your Fingernails characterized by easy breakage, bending, cracking and getting softer.

56. Itchy, Crawly Skin with a strange sensation like insects crawling around under the skin ? quite different than the dry skin feeling.

57. Muscle tone seems to slack and sag, and loose its previous response to normal exercise.

58. Pelvic Pain can be random and independent of cycles and may feel continuous for some women.

59. Dry, Itchy Eyes felt in the deep posterior aspect of the eye socket, as well as superficially.

60. Teeth Aching or the experience of a strange sensation in one?s teeth or gums, often accompanied by an increase in bleeding gums.

61. Change in the normal Tongue sensation, which can be accompanied by a feeling of burning in your tongue and roof of mouth, malodorous breath or change in breath odor, and/or a bad taste in your mouth.

62. Memory Loss or Lapses in time, makes one feel disoriented and less focused, especially when you go into another room to get something specific and seconds later cannot remember what you went to retrieve.

63. Feeling Faint for no known reason (this does not include standing up too quickly)

64. Tingling in Extremities not only feels weird and like your hands or feet are falling asleep, but if persistent can be a symptom of diabetes, B12, potassium or calcium deficiency, or a compromise in blood vessel flexibility.

65. Sensation of Electrical Stimulation,or Shock occurring in the tissue under the skin, and may signal you that a hot flash will begin.

66. Increase and worsening of Allergies occurs as hormones become imbalanced, so can our immune system.

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    Has anyone experienced outbreaks of hives during menopause?
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      Hi Tary, I had bad hives all over my legs, you need to find what's causing it, could be a food allergy or you're sensitive now to fragrance in your detergent, as I found I had to stop buying fragrance in my detergent because it gave me hives. Also, I used calamine lotion and took benadryl to help stop it. Hope you find what's causing it.

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      Thank you Sochima. The itch is maddening. I just got through a break out 2 weeks ago which I thought was mosquito bits but now I see they are hives. I experienced these 2 years ago when I went away to school. They usually come whole i'might sleeping and I wake up with itching and then a break out. I wondering if it is stress related from the menopause? Benadryl is not helping to get rid of the itch so I went and bought 24 hrs reactine. I use ice packs that work for awhile and a cortisone cream. And anti itch creams that have calamine lotion.

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      Yes, I would get it at night too. That's when I changed detergents and it really helped. The fragrance in the bedsheets were giving me the hives I suppose. Try a different type of antihistamine, I also took claritin which helped a little.  I think our bodies hormones, while changing, are giving us signals that there is something we shouldn't be using close to our bodies because it will react thus giving us hives. I got it in perimenopause.  Think about what I'm telling you so that you can find the culprit.

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      Hi Tray, 

      I'm new to sharing on any level haha. But have found comfort in the fact that we/me are not alone nor crazy. 

      I suffered from hives as a child from about the age of 9, I'm 49 now. Through the process of elimination my mum watched what I was eating and found it was any pure/raw forms of sugar. So I had to limit my lolly comsumption, sadly. 

      Now that I'm perimenopausal, it has flared up again in the last 6 month. While I'm eating sweets and all the yummy things one should limit, I've just completed an elimination diet and found my trigger food is fruit, not cakes/lollies/or sugar in my tea.  

      I also use calamine as I did when a child, but there is another branded product which does soaps/lotions/oils etc called Pinetarsol. I'm unsure of its international availability elsewhere. I find these products were great for relieving the maddening itchiness. I live in New Zealand by the way. I found the anti histamines made me feel eeecckkk and or dopey. 

      Hope you find your peace.

       

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      Thank you Kath. My hives have cleared up now and I think I may have figured out that the hives were from the heat. I thought back to when I went to school over 2 years ago the dorms were so hot I had to leave the window open in the winter and blow a fan. But it may have also been stress related. I have got hives over the years consistently from the cold if i'm outside sitting certain cold spots would break out. I will have to Google Pinetarsol and check it out.

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    thank you so much for this list! I thought I was dying until I read this. I have 43 out of the 49 symptoms. How can I see the remaining 50-66 symptoms?

    Thank you so much again!

    A

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      You need to keep scrolling probably to the next page.
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      On the first page they are about post number 14. then they are repeated on a couple of other pages. I never realised there are 8 pages to this discussion!
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    I'm new to this but am so glad I have found this site. I'm 50yrs old and have most of

    these symptoms at one time or another,but I have also experienced anxiety and heart palpitations which has sent me to the hospital 3 times thinking I was having a heart attack but they found nothing. Just wondering if anybody else experienced these symptoms. Thanks again for the list I thought I was going mad

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      Hi skypop, welcome to the club because you are definitely not alone and you're not going mad! Many of us here have been to the emergency for one thing or another.  All part of the process while going from peri into menopause.

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      Hi Skypop

      I had this early this year, thudding fast and skipping heart beat and missed/paused beats, waking me at night. Very scary. I had ECG and 24 hr heart monitor and was told I had an ectopic heartbeat. Harmless. The British Heart Foundation has a leaflet on it. It's common in menopause and exacerbated by anaemia, caffeine, alcohol and smoking. I was/have been anaemic a long time caused by heavy periods. I cut out caffeine, drink decaf tea and coffee and bringing iron levels up slowly. Half the solution is not panicking when you know it's harmless. I still feel it a little bit, if I have a big meal, but I don't let it worry me. I still have the odd glass of wine! Can't give up everything.

      Hope this helps a little

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      I know you posted this a year ago, but I was wondering how are you doing? I am going through the exact same thing you are with the heart palpitations and massive anxiety. Would love to know how you are getting along and if you were able to find out how to deal with it smile
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    I just found this today and i feel great relief! I just turned 48.  I thought i was going crazy. Yes the Drs keep telling me my hormones are normal but i have been having most of the things on this list. Especially bad has been the digestive issues with gas and bloating and the doom and gloom anxiety attacks. I only get a hot feeling on my face it feels like a blush and it is mostly just at night. i get chills a lot.  It was my boyfriend who kept telling me me he thought it was perimenopause since he has 3 older sisters.  I was never much of a worrier and had no post natal depression with any of my pregnancies. I have always been an optimistic , happy go lucky person but the last 10 months have been hell!  Anxiety over my health despite all tests being normal, allergies much much worse than usual. Tightness in chest, and last week nausea, face flushing , ringing in the ears and teeth aching started. Anxiety has gotten worse. Acne! i never had it as a teen but i have it now with a vengence after having lovely skin my whole life i now look like a troll with acne and red bumps all over my face and neck. Depression sucks the life out of me and i sometimes feel like i cant deal. I am a single mother with 6 kids still at home and this is becoming very hard to deal with.
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      Hi Cyndi

      You have come to the right place. Everyone here is lovely and helpful. Your story is just like mine. However now I am on HRT,trying to get it balanced. My doctor dismissed peri for months and just said it was really bad anxiety and depression and prescribed anti anxiety drugs. I did all the research and went back and said I wanted to go in Hrt. She agreed but I just can't believe looking at our age they don't even mention perimenopause.

      It's so annoying. Surely loads of women are going to the doctors in there 40's with all these symptoms.

      It's a truly hard time in our life and can't wait for the end x

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      Cyndi, I deal with the hormonal acne !!! My face gets it the worst I'm talking in cluster at times! I've had to put hot rags on my face! Been dealing with it for several years now and still has NOT cleared up!  I also deal with all of the other 66 symptoms altho I think there is at least 101 of them!

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      Yes, my Dr did full  blood work up and had me go through a full cardiac work up. They did a ct scan on my lungs and said since everything was normal including my hormone lvls so  was just gerd and anxiety. She kept saying it wasnt menopause/peri-menopause since my hormone lvls were normal. ugh  I just lost my insurance so have not gone back. 
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      Yes the acne is awful especially after having clear skin my whole life .  So far the gas, bloating, doom and gloom, depression and anxiety have been the worst part.
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      Sounds like you're at the start of perimenopause. How old are you and do you still have regular periods?

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      Yes, still have regular periods and i just turned 48 this summer. The weird thing is i did not have regular periods from the time i was 24 until i turned 40. Regular periods stopped after the bith of my 3rd son. I would only get a period once or twice a year. Didnt effect my fertility since i had 6 children between ages 29 and 40. My period came back regular like clock work after the birth of my last child at age 40. These symptoms started about 10 months ago.

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